I met my wife about 12 years and after a couple of dates I told her I had diapers and rubber pants on, had wet myself while we were talking and wanted her to know before we went any further in our relationship. This was a first for me, I had kept my diaper fetish secret for a long time. I thought of myself as being more dominate than submissive, but I was probably fooling myself, otherwise I would have told people, girls especially, long ago. I'm sure some might think just wanting to wear diapers and wet or mess in them evidenced a submissive nature but non the less, that's not how I felt about myself. My girlfriend was of course taken aback by my disclosure, but after discussing it for sometime, she decided to continue seeing me and learn if she could enjoy being with a man who had a diaper fetish. I was overjoyed when she told me and started seeing each other exclusively. At first she was pretty timid about it, wanted me to tell her what to do, how to do a proper diaper change for me, when I wanted to wear diapers, when I needed to be changed, and much more. But over time, and not too long, she started taking over the mom role, just like my mother had. I resisted at first but sort of quickly I learned I wanted her to take control. Soon, she was telling me when I could wear diapers and where. She insisted I wear diapers full time. She even started buying my cloth diapers in different colors and patterns. The same with my rubber pants. Like my mother had when I was a teen, she told me I was not allowed to diaper myself any longer, because I might hurt myself with the diaper pins. She knew I liked to mess my diapers once in awhile and told me I had to ask her permission first if I wanted to mess my diapers and she would be very strict about that. I fell in line and really liked for her to be in control. When it came to sex, she started teasing me when she changed me, would get me aroused and turned on and then finish pinning my diapers on without having a release. I started playing with myself under my diapers and she caught me and told me I had to ask her first. On the other, when we did go all the way when she was diapering me, the sex was fantastic for both of us, she had control and I let her do what ever she wanted. She also starting telling some of her close girlfriends about me and I had to let them see me in my diapers. She even started changing me when we visited them, or when they came over. She told her mother and sister about me and I had to wear diapers around them, and even be changed around them. She told me it made her wet in those situations, she liked controlling me, knowing I also became aroused. She had us take a diaper bag with us where ever we went and she started changing me in public restrooms, or the back of our car, or in the park, anywhere that might be embarrassing to me. I was never a behavioral problem, she didn't punish me, she just liked to be in control and I enjoy letting her.