First time enema and afraid of accident

So in a few days my gf will give me my first enema ever. I will ask her to give a suppository before so it will be easier for me to take it. But I am afraid I might have an accident after the enema since its my first time and I don't know how strong it might be, so I want to wear a diaper just in case so I won't make a mess. Now it is a turn on for me but probably not so much for her, so I am not planning on using it (unless by accident). Do you think it's a good idea?

You don’t need a diaper. You will most likely be able to hold the enema till you reach the toilet. Don’t worry.

Start with a smaller enema if you’re unsure.

The best advice I can give you is if using a diaper allows you to relax and take your enema then by all means use a diaper. If you are concerned about an after enema accident then yes use a diaper. It's your first enema so do whatever you feel you need to to make it easier, relaxing and enjoyable. I for one always utilize a diaper after my enema.

Start with a smaller enema, a quart, to see how it goes. Make sure you are close to the bathroom and have a clear path to get there. Make sure you are in a position that you can comfortably get up from in case you do need to get up quickly.

Good luck with your first enema @Suncode .

You could also get a retention nozzle.

Retention nozzle all the way!

If you use a suppository as way to cause a BM and help clear your rectum, do it maybe an hour or so before the enema. The irritation from the suppository will last for a while and create a strong urge to expel the enema making it hard to complete the enema. So, give yourself some time between the suppository and enema. If you have experience with suppositories, then you may know how much time you need for the irritation to subside.

I agree with others, a retention nozzle would be a good idea to use on this first enema. There are other little tricks you can use. First is to stop and start the flow of the enema. When you feel that strong urge to expel, stop the flow and wait however long it takes for the urge to go away. Another tip is to use a warm saline solution for your enema and be conservative with your volume- aim for a single quart to start with. Saline enemas are generally soothing vs. a soap enema which can be irritating. Another tip is to regulate the flow of the enema solution to be less than wide open. Take as long as you want to get through your first enema- this isn't a race.

Lastly, make the place where you will take the enema comfortable. I lay on a yoga mat in the bathroom, which is more comfortable than laying on the tile floor and I am close to the toilet. My favorite position is to lay on my back and if I do feel cramps coming on, I will lift my hips off the floor so the enema solution drains into my colon and out of my rectum where the urge to expel will be the strongest.

And if you do leak a bit as you make your way to the toilet, it isn't the end of the world. Keep in mind, every enema enthusiast has experienced some leakage at some point over the course of giving themselves enemas- I certainly have.

Smaller enema, nice warm water (a bit above body temperature), slow flow (don't hang the bag more than a foot or two above your anus if you're using a bag), and a position where you are relaxed. Like all anal play do plenty of touch first to get you relaxed and aroused (you won't get this for a “medical enema” but you have the advantage of your girlfriend giving, so why not?)

Take the enema but don't try to hold it for a long time because they can “sneak up on you”

If she's up to it a handjob or blowjob while you're holding can help too.

I would avoid the preliminary suppository, and just get the “feel” of what it's like to receive your first enema, without any additional “laxative” suppository to interfere with the enjoyment (I hope) of the procedure. As others have said, use a small amount of warm water, saline rather than soap. Let us know how things work out.

I would avoid the preliminary suppository, and just get the “feel” of what it's like to receive your first enema, without any additional “laxative” suppository to interfere with the enjoyment (I hope) of the procedure. As others have said, use a small amount of warm water, saline rather than soap. Let us know how things work out.

True. If you get your rectum “worked up” with a suppository it will be much harder to take and hold.

Leakage does sometimes happen with enemas. It's no big deal. Like you or your partner farting in bed.

I'd not waste time with a diaper. They take some time to put on.

Have a folded hand towel handy when the enema is given. When the full dose is in, slowly withdraw the nozzle, cover your anal area with the towel, and walk to the toilet to poo. If you leak some, the towel will need to be washed.

As others have suggested, start small. About 8 Oz for an adult usually gives about 15 minutes or more of easy retention time before things start to happen.

Agree with @Sean. Like any anal play, - there’s a possibility of something dirty happening. Not a big deal. Take all the smart precautions mentioned here, but be aware nothing is foolproof or a guarantee you won’t get a surprise. Be prepared in case it happens and don’t over react. Just roll with it. Enjoy!

In case you are comfortable with receiving in the bathroom, do it in the bathroom. Be aware of how easy it is to cleanup there in the unlikely case of having an accident. As additional precaution you can place a towel or some other suitable thing below your bottom.

I'd prefer all that over using a diaper, especially when giver is not into diapers. I think that would be good prerequisites for a great experience for both of you.

Enjoy!

Why a suppository first?

Look forward to the upcoming event. Feel your way, fathom the limits.

Surrender to her, relax, clear your mind; you will experience something very special.

There are many here who envy you for it...😎

I count myself among them...🤗😎

Soooo I am supposed to receive my first real enema💦 this month on a play date. Fingers crossed 🤞 no accidents

@chelle300 I hope it’s a series of enemas!!! Regardless, you’ll be fine. make sure you talk to the giver while it’s going on so he/she can better control the situation - that can help prevent accidents. Let us know how it turns out and post pics!!!

@Bagme53 yes its supposed to be a series & some other anal play 🍑 will keep ya'll posted 😈💦

Soooo I am supposed to receive my first real enema💦 this month on a play date. Fingers crossed 🤞 no accidents

@chelle300 You'll be fine, just start out with a qt of warm water and a tsp of salt 1st and see if you can take it. Don't rush it and if you can't take it all, expel and take the rest of the bag. Once you get comfortable to them, you should be able to take 2qts just fine.

Good luck chelle300, I agree with the advice, start small and pay attention to your body…..

Since you are not self administering it, if the administrator of the enema is new to it, have them insert a gloved and well lubed finger into your butt so they can feel the direction to insert the nozzle which could save you some discomfort during insertion. It will also help lube you prior to the nozzle being inserted.

You can probably skip the suppository and diaper if starting with a smaller volume. You can do multiple enemas building the size up slowly ie walk before you run!!

Don't fart for a while afterwards unless on the toilet, sometimes you might get a surprise!

Take it easy, go slow and enjoy the experience.

@chelle300

Soooo I am supposed to receive my first real enema💦 this month on a play date. Fingers crossed 🤞 no accidents

You did it and are standing in front of another step of a staircase that leads to the heights of eroticism.🤗😎

I am happy for you. Relax and let yourself drift 🌹...