Fantasy vs reality

The other day I got called “good girl” for the fist time in a session and just in general by my partner/dom. It started off with them asking me if I wanted to be “a good little goddess” for them after bratting, and oh boy that got a reaction from me. Throughout the session it was slipped into their words a few times but it was when they said they were proud of me and that I was being such a good girl for them that my brain latched on to it. I knew it would have some kind of effect on me since its popped up in fantasies of mine but it was like a switch was pulled and a mantra of ‘want to be good’ started- definitely a stronger response than I thought i would have!

Anyone else had quite the difference from the expectation to reality with something similar? Would love to hear!

Oh, yeah! Hearing my Dom say He's proud of me and calling me His good girl… wow. From others it'd be condescending, but from my Sir…

Oh YES! When my wife / Mistress tells me " You have only 10-20 more spanks to go with YOUR bath brush that you gave me, I really do my best to stay in place! Even though as MUCH as the pain leading up to this is has made me wimpering /begging & pleading, I DO need/hope/ wish that the last 10-20 were the hardest EVER!

“Good girl” is one of those phrases that has always gotten a reaction out of me, even more so when it’s unintentional. I’ll never forget during one of my very first exams when my doctor was having me bend over and just placed his hand on my lower back and as I got positioned he simply said “good girl”. Later he confessed that he didn’t even realize he had said it, it just slipped out very naturally which I think is an even bigger turn on for me. There’s also something about the possessive of “that’s MY good girl” that always surprises me with how much it gets me.

Something about those words. One time playing with a girlfriend, she said it to me so tenderly as she was caressing me. I just melted.

Does anyone else ever feel awkward being called certain things during play that others call you in real life?

My family calls me little one, baby girl, good girl in normal life interactions…. But those are also all things I enjoy during d/s play. Sometimes it makes me a bit embarassed when it happens in real life, but really the only one who knows is me.

@SweetAsHoney i recently started working behind the bar in a local working men's club. It was not very busy so I decided to wash some of the shelves behind the bar. A regular was sipping his beer and just said “ you like to keep those hands busy” knowing the individual well I know nothing else was implied but it made me blush as in my ( filthy) mind I put a completely different meaning behind those words lol.