@reddevil
@Ms_Lila referenced this video by Nina Hartley (I think it's the one) in her thread about eating pussy. It's very comprehensive!!!
https://www.xvideos.com/video531677/milf_hartley_teaches_how_to_eat_pussy
@Rigel and @reddevil THAT is, or was, my go-to video when I was learning to go down on @Lora_C when my diabetes started interfering with being able to “cut the mustard” with her in a reliable and sustainable way. I was still able to get some pretty good wood while Lora was still here and so it wasn't our main thing because she was very willing to try BOB's (battery operated boyfriends), our enemas, and Viagra or Cialis, along with some extended visual stimulation. Her attitude and approach to our sex made my FTP (failure to perform) just a side-note to her and it wasn't a big issue for us.
With @Ms_Lila I was having more FTP's but, again, her whole approach to us and our sex, took a lot of pressure off of me. That video was always in the back of my mind and I found it again when I was reading Beth Anne's reaction to the “canoe rides” we were inventing for her. Nina Hartley really pointed out things to look for in the response from the woman, Beth Anne, that you are going down on, and that was a BIG help. Those little “clues” are crucial and also talking to her and asking her how she likes this or how she likes that is something you need to keep going. It is even better when I am going down on Beth Anne and I ask her how's she's liking it and she can't answer because I've got her in that cum lust mist. She gives off other clues, like your ladies, I imagine, that will tell you more than you just asking questions.
Going down on Beth Anne is fantastic and her reactions make it work for me and I love doing her. I've had to shift my “focus” from the “dick-in-the-pussy” show as my way of getting her off consistently to cunnilingus. It works for both of us, but Woody still makes guest appearances or cameos, but watching Beth Anne crawling out of her skull and rocketing into the cum lust mist is my main goal.
Pay attention to Nina Hartley in that video, and then get your lady on a roll and keep asking or watching how what you do makes her react. Nina Hartley sort of reminds me of Lora 🌹 anyway, especially if you see her in other videos. She likes the sex and wants to make it good for everyone.
With @Ms_Lila, well, WOW! 🌹