Enema Dependence

How often do you have an enema? Who is giving you an enema? Is the enema done at home or elsewhere? How many enemas do you have daily for what purpose, e.g. preparation for sex, etc.? What capacity are your enemas? Is your enema water or a special mixture? What interesting enema mixes do you know? Do you know any interesting, exciting enema positions?

I usually get enemas every day in series of 4-6 enemas. When I am at home and I have free time, I do my first enema at 0530 2x6 liters. Then by 1230 2x7 liters and 2100 3x5 liters. If I have sex with a client at home, I give myself two 4-liter enemas in front of each client, but sometimes the client gives them to me as part of sex. During sex at the client's home, it is the client who decides how many enemas he will give me, and in what capacity.

I almost always have one enema at at a time. The reason being a good enema usually exhausts me for a period of time. Did one last week in late morning, had to lay down for 30 minutes or so, actually fell asleep for a brief time. Felt great afterwards, but not in mood for several more enemas as a follow up.

I have been involved with enemas for 30+ years. I have started an enema series with current plans to try to administer daily ongoing as a component of a bdsm dynamic which I asked for.

Just curious of any issues anyone may have/had with becoming dependant, cons and any pros.

Thanks

There have been lots of discussions about enema dependence on zity with the underlying question- at what point does one become dependent on enemas based on the frequency they take them?

I think you simply have to observe and take note how your body reacts to giving yourself enemas. I can only speak for myself, but I have done daily enemas for a short stretch of about 7 days in a row. I gave myself a single 2qt baking soda enema after having my regular BMs. Throughout this 7-day period, I was still having regular BMs.

Some factors to consider. I was only doing a single 2qt enema. I would let my body have BM before giving myself the enema, so the enema was not doing the work for my body. I should say I have never had a constipation problem and have two BMs every day, so I have always had a well-functioning digestive system. I have also noticed that when I do my weekly enema sessions of three 2qt enemas, the next day I will still have a small BM, so my colon seems to recover quickly from taking enemas.

I am a sample size of one. You will need to run your own test and see how your body reacts. If you feel for any reason, you are experiencing any negative effects then your body is telling you to stop or slow down your enema usage. Some folks here on zity say they have been daily enema users for years and are dependent on enemas to have BMs but are quite happy to do this.

You just have to find the right frequency of enemas that you and your body are happy with.

I always wanted to ask this exact same question. But never came around to it.

I have some of these same questions about dependence. I cannot have a bowel movement without taking a laxative or enema. That has been the case for decades. I was diagnosed with colonic inertia/slow transit constipation in my mid-20s. I often wonder if my condition is the result of having so many laxatives (and more than a few enemas) as a kid and adolescent. In other words, is my chronic constipation the result of taking enemas and laxatives? Or, did it exist inderpendent of the remedies I have taken to relieve it? It is the classic chicken and egg issue.

As an adult, I have often tried to quit laxatives and enemas to see if my body will reset to produce natural, unassisted bowel movements. It doesn't. After a week to 10 days of waiting, I give in and clean my colon out with a large volume soapy enema. I honestly believe that the enemas and laxatives did not cause the constipation. My mom certainly didn't abuse those. If anything, she underutilized them. I think my idiopathic constipation is just that - constipation with no known cause.

I've mentioned purposely taking enemas every night to avoid having regular BM's. To my surprise there never was a problem when I stopped - I'd wind up gong back to being regular with no problems. But that is just the way my pluming is. The only dependence I've ever encountered is in loving enemas so much that I can't get enough of them. Perhaps it's that love being what's meant when “dependence” is mentioned…

What's important is that you wait long enough between enema sessions that you are having at least a few days of bowel movements without any enemas, laxatives, suppositories or anything else. If you do that there is no real concern.

@LisaK Many thanks for your comments. I agree with your assessment and commentary. I have been told by some gastroenterologists that this is indeed the case. Too many and too often can lead to dependence…..which for some might be a bonus :-) ….. but would think for most a burden.

Despite what you may hear and see over the Internet from some people who advocate daily enemas, it is possible to reach some level of dependency. The colon is a muscle, and if it doesn’t get to exercise its muscle independently without the help of enemas, It’ll lose some of its strength to contract and push out what needs to be pushed out—simple as that.

I’ve learned a few things about enemas from being a digestive sufferer for a lot of years.

Daily enemas, over a longer period of time?

I've been addicted to enemas since my 20s. I can't get enough of this.

But whether, as described, this has a long-term effect on the intestinal mucus and the intestinal flora, I don't want to know; definitely not ideal...

I have done much research (30+)years and its Not true…… Mythbusted….. if you clean your colon every day you end up with a supercolon it gets stronger and does its job way better! and i have the supercolon to prove it unlike many others that say you will shoot your eye out crap!

@Tummypro I have done much research (30+)years and its Not true…… Mythbusted…..

Yes, my experience as well. Cannot say how typical I am, but despite doing weeks of lots of enemas at a time, never any colon problems…. But, I did get hemorrhoids at times from all the sitting…

I belive they can become a dependency, if you abuse them. You know, what they say too much of a good thing is a bad thing.

Let's put it this way: I love a delicious filet mignon, but if I had one every day, I'd soon get tired of it and it would no longer be something special. Same is true when it comes to enemas. Keeping it a special delight is what makes every session enjoyable.

That's my 2¢!

Deb

but if I had one every day, I'd soon get tired of it and it would no longer be something special.

It does feel more exciting after going without for some time.

I’m not what I would consider a frequent flyer on Enema Airlines, but I try to not let a week pass without an indulgence. Even so, I mix up the routine with different nozzles, solutions and the like to keep it from getting boring. As if a good series of enemas is ever boring😆.

Every body is different but here’s my experience: earlier this spring, I had lots of free time so I did coffee enemas (plus plain water rinses) every day for over a month. My body went right back to normal when I stopped taking the enemas. Granted, I’ve never had gastrointestinal problems and I eat a high fiber diet.

It was fun but time consuming. With practice, I was able to get it down to two hours, start to finish, from brewing the coffee to cleaning equipment after.

I also think I had coffee coming out of my pores. I saw the dentist during the time and she immediately asked if I regularly drank coffee. Technically, no, I wasn’t drinking it…

If i feel the urge, i want to enema.

i often consider it drinking and use muscles to take more or less. With a home made radial spray, i like to feel it as i drink it and hold it.

Since joining Zity, my focus on enemas has subconsciously increased...😂😇

At least my wife noticed that. She suspects a certain gate closure panic with her old bag.,.😂😂😂

We've been giving each other more enemas than usual these past few weeks.

lots of pro's no con's i speak from true experience

I used to have angry hemorrhoids. Enemas cured them. But lately my breath has started smelling bad to me, kind of like enema waste.

What is “Gate Closure Panic” ?

I have been taking enemas daily and having colonics routinely for fifteen years. Recently I asked my lovely RN neighbour, who knows all about my habits, if I was over reliant on my bag. She just smiled and said “if it suits you and you feel as well as you do, then there is nothing wrong”. Clean insides are happy insides!

I enjoy my enemas but not a daily habit. I really enjoy exchanging enemas with one of my enemamates.

The pleasure kicks as I watch them getting naked and anticipating how I’m going to give them their enemas. I know I share those feelings as I lie naked waiting for my lady to approach me carry a full bag.

Anyone else prefer exchanging over solo play? My desires may spring from my love of medfit, ass play and spankings.

We are somehow dependent...😎

my red devil as giver and me as receiver. But not every day, more like 4 to 5 times a month.🤗😎

But very extensively with then really hot sex

From my own personal experience, I can tell you unequivocally that enema dependence is REAL.

Whatever way you want to justify it in your head works for you. Some talk about constipation that's why their here yet I see everyone in all the discussions from punishment to health to all the freak topics. Bottom line your here…

From my own personal experience, I can tell you unequivocally that enema dependence is REAL.

To what extent would you say you are truly dependant on them?

Enema dependence can certainly become real. An enema, especially a large volume volume one, completely disrupts you colonic processes because it clears out not only today's load of poo, but tomorrow's and maybe the next day or two's as well. So when you go to the toilet tomorrow, no poo comes down. By the time enough poo comes down to give you an urge, it has been in you colon for several days and often has dried out. This can lead to a self-fulfilling prophecy of needing enemas to poo.

When I've been given enemas over the years there have been the recommendation that, after the enema has made me poo, I was given a mild laxative to ‘keep me going’. In one case, this was a dose of Milk of Magnesia after a bag of warm soapy water, and another time it was a dose of ExLax after a Fleet. These days, after a bag enema, I usually take a full dose of Miralax, which is not a laxative but really does soften poo so If I don't poo for a couple of days te toilet trip, when it does happen, is easier.

And is being dependent on enemas really soooo bad?