I Like Anal Play But Not Anal Sex, Am I Alone?

Any other ladies like me? I just don't like Anal Sex… I will do it once in a while with my husband but it due to a traumatic experience my first time I just can't enjoy it… Yet I LOVE a finger or small plug up there…

Although I'm a male I wanted to answer your question. Having an enema fetish I love playing with a woman's ass with my enema equipment and other acceptable sized, ass toys, but I'm not interested in anal sex. To me her pussy is so soft wet and wonderful especially after I've got her turned on by anal play, that why would I want to stick s dry tight hole.

My absolute favorite thing to do is traditional intercourse while the lady has a finger or toy in her ass. The double penetration effect always gives stronger orgasms.

That's my feelings on this

@PatientH no I don’t believe your alone, you just described my wifes feelings about anal sex almost exactly

As a guy I can say my wife is the same but for different reasons. we have had lovely anal sex experiences together and when she is up for it she is up for it. In general though she just doesnt get off on anal sex. she doesnt really enjoy it, the feeling, the sensations any of it. only sometimes when she is really horny and had a couple of glasses of wine she might offer her arse to me and say “take me how you like” I am always gentle and slow with lots of finger touching and licking before I enter her arse. I appreciate her making the effort to help satisfy my anal desires and needs. As such though, I dont ask often and never press her and enjoy it when I can. I am sorry to hear you had a traumatic anal event. maybe in time a finger and plug beign fun may move towards anal sex fun, but at the same time do what makes you happy