Have you ever had sex in your dreams?

Sometimes I dream I have sex with strangers, men or women, or my wife and it is always very satisfying. My dreams feel very real and I start fantasizing different scenarios how the dreams might develop. Most times, I dream having anal with a dark skinned guy, either giving or receiving, and either of us just explodes and sends waves of ecstasy to the other, this feels very real to me. Did you ever have this experience? Have you ever dreamed having sex with a stranger or a celebrity? Maybe a family member or doing something very tabooish that will make you feel uncomfortable when you wake up?

When I am sleeping and dreaming it's always about sex with women or men and it's always a good night sleep, I wake up very refreshed.

At my age now and physical condition, dreaming about sex, and OTHER things is the status quo 🤪

Would you believe I once dreamt that I was being tentacled by an octopus. This one was all over me.

The octopus with one tentacle opened and stripped me from my bathing suit while I was in a secluded rock pool, my breasts were fondled and I was penetrated vaginally, orally and rectally all at the same time.

Yes all the time lol. Probably because I want to have it so badly in real life. All of the girls in my dreams are girls I like in real life and all of them have something I really like down there in the dream which is lots of hair. In the dream they are also open minded to all my kinks and fetish stuff so we do all of it in the dream and it’s great.

Dreams are fascinating things. I have a number of recurring dreams, one or two of which reappear very frequently too. The recurring ones are all non sexual but have a large element of reality about them.

I very, very rarely dream about sexual encounters and if I occasionally do it usually ends before the actual act. Twice in recent years I can recall dreaming about actually fucking someone. In both cases the ladies were known to me, reasonably attractive and were encouraging me and enjoying it. Never have I dreamt about same sex encounters.

I sincerely, honestly and deeply wish I did dream about having sex of any kind at all in my dreams.

But alas, I can probably count on my fingers the number of times I've dreamed of just kissing someone. That is about as far as it goes. Very depressing as I go to sleep imagining all sorts of sexual encounters and activities. This often from advice on how to induce things like lucid dreaming or deliberate dreaming.

But even that doesn't work. Never any remembered dreams about sex. Perhaps I do dream about such things, but I cannot recall any and that is as good as not dreaming at all.

I dream about enemas, but never about sex….

Yes. Most definitely.

Sometimes I “ visit” previous sexual encounters.

Other times I dream about men I fancy and would love to have sex with

And occasionally I dream about me being humiliated in situations I would not want to happen inreal life, yet wake up extremely horny.

One thing all those dreams have in common though is that they are all very vivid. And interestingly I dream in English ( not my native language)

Most definitley. When I was younger they would usually become a wet dream as I came in my dream. Sometimes it would wake me up, other times not. Then I would find the evidence in my bed and pubic hair. I occasionally have erotic dreams now but they do no not result in a wet dream…just a hard on.

My actual dreams, as I understand the word “dream”, seem never to be sexual. They seem to be like a Dali painting: definite elements of realism, but something is a bit off. Maybe boarding a commuter airplane that looks exactly like, say, a Dehavilland Hash 7, but three of the four propeller rotors on each of the four engines is gone. The seats are all made of marshmallow. Takeoff speed at time of rotating off the runway is 500 mph. Huey Lewis is being played over the plane's loudspeaker, but at 75% speed.

But when I lay down to go to sleep, my mind is always on sexual things. Maybe I'm spooning with a girl in a Clara (Nutcracker character) nightgown, all frilly and white, with white tights, a bow in her hair and a COVID-19 mask (bow and mask could be any color). Or maybe the girl is wearing footed pajamas from some ABDL place that makes them right, with white vinyl soles and toecaps (and the PJs as a whole are solid pink fleece), and is giving me a tight, wet, gaggy tongue swirl blow job. Maybe both of the aforementioned girls are there.

I have had wet dreams before, but only when I was a teen, back in the late 80's/early 90's.

Many times.

One of the strangest was a dream in which I had sex with my boss. At the time, I was in my earlier thirties and she in her early fifties.

In waking life, there had been no flirting or “meaningful glances” between us. Of course, I wasn't blind to her large bust and wide hips, but I wasn't especially attracted to her, and there were obvious reasons never to go there.

But in the dream, we were working at her home in the evening, and she said, “Come over here.” She kissed me and I kissed her back, and before I knew it, she was unbuckling my belt and pulling my pants down. I remember feeling thrilled as I began undressing her, in turn, her large breasts spilling out, my sucking them, and pulling down her panties (discovering, among other things, that she was not a natural blonde.)

I also remember her pulling me on top of her, on the sofa, and how good it felt to enter her.

I woke before I could climax, though.

My actual meeting with her later that morning was a little odd, to say the least.

Interesting question. I have never had a complete erotic dream that I can remember. I may have had them, as I have had a number of wet dreams through the years, but not one that I can recall. I've had some non-sexual dreams that I remember and even thought about the next day. I have had a few possible "close calls" but I immediately awaken right before “the good parts”. I really would love to have that experience. I've heard that you might dream whatever you are thinking about before you fall asleep. I've tried that technique many nights and it never worked. Who knows, after writing about this topic, it may happen tonight! Yeah, dream on…

Years ago, I had a dream in which I was having anal intercourse with a young lady I knew in college. Here's the odd part: she had a massive crush on me in real life, to the point of being obsessed, while I never felt any attraction to her. A classic example of unrequited love. Once I graduated, I didn't want to have any further contact with her. The dream itself didn't last long and I didn't come. I've only had a few wet dreams in all.

I have definitely dreamt about having sex. Usually it's with a woman I know, like my wife, a former lover, or friend/ coworker. Occasionally it's a complete stranger. When I wake up, I have no idea who the person was. Rarely, it's a celebrity. I almost always wake up before I orgasm, in my dream and in real life. I am always disappointed I didn't cum. In fact, I've only had a few wet dreams my entire life. My sex dreams do usually feel very real during the dream and I'm able to actually remember most of it when I initially wake up.

I must be a total perv lol. That seems to be the thing I dream of most. Most of the time it's about an old girlfriend or a girl I had just met.

Sometimes, but it rarely fully played out in the dreams, it was more often parts of it or the sensation that it already happened.

Yep. Has happened a few times and oddly enough most of the time those people have already died. Most recent is a (living, ofc) colleague of my dad who is married to a woman. For the deceased ones I had Princess Diana notably, for some reason, ate her out on a wooden floor of some room (??) although I'm very much not into blondes. But also one of those strange sexual dreams with dead people was my most vivid dream ever.

Back in my early twenties I had a thought about one of the Night Witches who made it to the 2000s before passing away from old age. For no apparent reason at all I had some sexual thoughts about her even if she wasn't quite my type. Figured I'd just get it out of my system by lucid dreaming but it didn't happen, so I fell back asleep. Had no idea I was about to experience something absolutely mind shattering.

It was in a bed that felt like mine but it was in a room that was all white and the lights were kind of blinding. She was on top of me, we were making out, all naked. We had probably done stuff before that I did not remember, it felt like the after of something. I literally could feel her size, her weight, her skin, the warmth, the taste of her lips, it was simply bafflingly hyper-realistic. And so full of love. Literally never felt so much love in a single moment. We had a short exchange of words and then resumed making out really slowly. When I woke up I was almost disoriented.

I carried the thing and a secret obsession for said lady for a solid two years, though it didn't prevent me from getting crushes on others in the meantime and was ready to give her up every time, but it did not work out and she remained with me for another year, up until I guess I processed it all. I'd write to her in my diary and all, went on a sort of pilgrimage while on my trip near her hometown and looked for her grave to sit beside for a bit, although I didn't find it. Made a little altar out of an old hardcover book with her picture and a few symbolic objects that I associated to her. Still got the little thing, haven't opened it in a while, though I do like to do so every now and then and light a candle.

This turned spiritual lol, but I couldn't not mention this experience about sex dreams. Still the most incomprehensibly vivid one I ever had. And it had to be a sexual dream. lol

This turned spiritual lol, but I couldn't not mention this experience about sex dreams. Still the most incomprehensibly vivid one I ever had. And it had to be a sexual dream. lol

Lucky you. What I wouldn't give to have truly sexual laden dreams. I don't know what is wrong with my sub-conscious, it's far too prudish for my taste ... ha ha