What would be your Ultimate Public humiliation to experience?

Would love to hear from both men and women if they are into this subject at all what would be the ultimate in public humiliation for you and do you think you would really go through with it

Thank you

Realistic public humiliation could be being made to orgasm ( via remote toy) obviously not being able to “ let on” also edging in this manner ( both done those and would do again!!)

Going for a meal with partner ordering for me, especially if it is something I would not like.

Being made to go to toilet during a date and being ordered to hand panties over upon return ( not sure if I really could do this)

Without clearly specifying it, @Secret_sub brings an important point in her list of examples. Whenever you want to do something in public, always make sure everything stays strictly between all the consenting and knowing parties. Maybe it's obvious to most people, but after reading many things on here, I know it isn't clear to everyone. Those who are not part of whatever is going on between the parties involved should not be made aware of it.

@SadisticDaddy absolutely!!! I should probably been more specific but it is why I used word “ realistic” ☺️

I think most guys will be horrified at my fantasy which is going to become a reality very soon my gf and my mum will be painting my fingers and toes then I have a pretty red dress with tan tights and strappy red sandles but I won't be allowed a wig or make up when they take me to the shopping mall ,part of me Will be dreading this and no doubt when I get there I will be begging them not to do this it will be extremely humiliating for me but knowing my mummy and gf are willing to do this to me means a lot ,I've always wanted to be laughed at in public if I enjoy it that's great if I don't well that's too bad I will have to endure it

Well not really public but, it would be a “Coming out” Birthday party for me that I would be unaware of, but all of the women (only) would be! The women would all be friends of my wife & neighbors who already knew that my wife is an Alpha Female! My coming out would be me being told, by my wife, to tell everyone that i am a submissive little boy husband who needs and wants spankings to remind me to always be submissive to her and other women, if i even think about talking back! Oh and my birthday presents, after my birthday spankings, would be diapers, plastic diaper pants & diaper shirts ( onesies)! That they would dress me in, while still sobbing from my spankings, and thanking them!!

Getting my temp taken rectally, in a hotel room, and the maid walks in on us…

I think most guys will be horrified at my fantasy which is going to become a reality very soon my gf and my mum will be painting my fingers and toes then I have a pretty red dress with tan tights and strappy red sandles but I won't be allowed a wig or make up when they take me to the shopping mall ,

I hope HRH stays in Scotland and doesn't show up in the south at your mall. She'd likely drop dead as you walked past. Thomas

Well, I guess being forced to strip one way or another (could be for health reasons), in public, before some women I know and i will see again in my life.

CFNM is my kink, but it's also some kind of my nightmare in real life 😁

A cfnm scenario would do it for me

I think most guys will be horrified at my fantasy which is going to become a reality very soon my gf and my mum will be painting my fingers and toes then I have a pretty red dress with tan tights and strappy red sandles but I won't be allowed a wig or make up when they take me to the shopping mall ,part of me Will be dreading this and no doubt when I get there I will be begging them not to do this it will be extremely humiliating for me but knowing my mummy and gf are willing to do this to me means a lot

Did this come true yet? How did it go?

I'm thinking being the patient in one of those “teaching” situations with a bunch of nurses or doctors watching and/or joining in on my examination.

So far, the OP @Lovestodress hasn't been signed on to Zity for ~5 months since 2 days after he started the thread. I’d like to find out what happened too.

Eric

Oh and add to my post, while still sobbing being held to their breast to suckle to calm me while in a soaking wet diaper. Then when being changed and still in the diaper position being spanked by all the women before being put in my crib with my baba and my pacifier😃!

My wife on occassion has pantsed me. She knows during the summer when it is hot I only wear shorts, no underwear. She has pantsed me in the kitchen in front of her freinds and her mum, but she keeps threatening to do it in a supermarket. We have a rule that if she pants me I have to wait 5 seconds before pulling my shorts up.

Can't wait till summer.

I imagine the ultimate would be to be naked in front of female coworkers. Since they are people who know me but are not that close. It would be more embarrassing than female friends or partners seeing me.

@ericmacson So far, the OP @Lovestodress hasn't been signed on to Zity for ~5 months since 2 days after he started the thread. I’d like to find out what happened too.

Eric

I'm going off-topic, but I've seen this happen a number times where a person starts a thread and then disappears shortly after…. I too wonder what happens…

I'm going off-topic, but I've seen this happen a number times where a person starts a thread and then disappears shortly after…. I too wonder what happens…

There can be any number of possibilities, from a person getting an attack of guilt or finding religion, a tragedy in the family, losing a job, moving, financial problems or getting depressed with it all (as in life). Sadly the possibilities are endless.

This happened to me during the lockdowns (though not caused by them primarily). Just didn't see the point in doing just about anything anymore. Didn't get away from my home up north in the summer that year and therefore missing a vital vitamin D charge-up didn't help either.

Okay, decades back I actually experienced my ultimate public (somewhat) humiliation. I had gone to see my doc JUST to pick up something. To my surprised, he had me go into his office and said that while I was there for me lift up my shirt and let him listen to my lungs. Now, I normally never wear my feminine attire beneath clothing when going anywhere where I might be exposed; but this time I was caught completely off guard! I I was trapped and knew as soon as I lifted my shirt, the proverbial cat would be out of the bag (the top of my feminine full-cut panty would be seen!). I lifted up my shirt. I wasn't facing him. To my added surprise the doc then called for his female assistant! I have no idea why (legal protection? so they could later have a good laugh?). So now they are both looking at my back (and the top of my panty)! While I couldn't see them, I could tell he was pointing out the top of my exposed nylon panty top out to her! I figured so what, okay, now they know. But no, it gets worse - upon leaving the room, whom should meet going into his office for his next visit, but a woman I knew and whom knows my entire family! Ever since then, at any family gathering where this woman is I swear she's gives me a funny look!

Or this person just forgot about Zity. It's a possibility too 😁

Okay, decades back I actually experienced my ultimate public (somewhat) humiliation. I had gone to see my doc JUST to pick up something. To my surprised, he had me go into his office and said that while I was there for me lift up my shirt and let him listen to my lungs. Now, I normally never wear my feminine attire beneath clothing when going anywhere where I might be exposed; but this time I was caught completely off guard! I I was trapped and knew as soon as I lifted my shirt, the proverbial cat would be out of the bag (the top of my feminine full-cut panty would be seen!). I lifted up my shirt. To my added surprise the doc called for his female assistant! I have no idea why (legal protection? so the could later have a good laugh?). So now the they are both looking and I could tell he was pointing my nylon panty top out to her! I figured so what, okay, not they know. But no, it gets better - upon leaving the room, whom should meet going into his office for his next visit, but a woman a woman I know and knows my entire family! Maybe it's just me, but ever since then, at any family gathering where this woman is there and see me, she always given a funny look!

Ha ha … good one.

But just being the devil's advocate here, couldn't you have refused going into the doc's office, pleading an urgency of some sort? Did a part of you maybe subconsciously want to take the risk and see what might happen?

@agracier But just being the devil's advocate here, couldn't you have refused going into the doc's office, pleading an urgency of some sort? Did a part of you maybe subconsciously want to take the risk and see what might happen?

( I corrected some grammatical mistakes in what I wrote)… but to answer questions - I was so caught off-guard I froze; couldn't think of anything… Did I subconsciously want to take the risk… could be, but the coincidence of the other woman who knew me and my family being his next patient was just too amazing. He did not know she knew me, and she whizzed by so fast I had no time to indicate we knew each other - so the doc did not know she knew me! It was the last time I went to that doc, by the way.

Surly doc would not be able to anything to next patient?

but to answer questions - I was so caught off-guard I froze; couldn't think of anything…

That I understand. I would probably freeze too. I am awful with a quick come-back or thinking up a good excuse not to do something. It takes me a few hours to come up with anything … ha ha.

Btw, that is why my avatar is of Groucho. What I wouldn't give to have his his quick wit and instant comeback to unexpected situations.

@agracier What I wouldn't give to have his his quick wit and instant comeback to unexpected situations.

Oh, so true! This was my problem (no comeback, not fast on my feet) with women - Could never come up with a sexy retort to something they would say.

@Secret_sub Surly doc would not be able to anything to next patient?

I wished - This doc liked to talk about funny/unusual things he'd run into; and I would now fit that bill 😮

Oh I can think of a few!

Maybe the worst would be lying naked on an exam table as the doctor’s hand examine my most private areas, then opening my eyes to see that a group of colleagues and friends are standing around the table watching everything.

Ties my tummy in knots imagining that.

Hi

I found your reply to my post again tonight and it has caused me to ask if you would like to chat/write ???

The 13-year-old age is very sensitive

Another boy in my class and I were dressed in the girl's uniforms for Halloween.

Very much similar i think to your birthday party.

Mother's motivation and the setting, going to our school party at the gym, after trick or treat...well!

I would love to share public humiliation stories, especially about being dressed in clothes that called attention etc

My best

Jamie