Can you be an online sub to master or domme?

Can you be an online sub to master or domme?

Why not? From what I've noticed and read, online D/s relationships aren't rare. They do differ a lot from their real-life counterpart, though, for various reasons (the possible time difference, the frustration of not being able to see the other person face to face and to touch them, the honesty that's not as easy to gauge as in real life, etc., that sort of thing), but when all parties are really dedicated to make it work and set up realistic expectations, there's no reason for such a relationship and dynamic not to work.

If you search the posts here, I'm sure you'll find people who have established on-line Dom-sub relationships. IT's not uncommon. Here are a couple of links.

https://www.michellefegatofi.org/post/online-long-distance-bdsm-relationships

https://domsubliving.com/long-distance-relationship-rules-worksheet/

There are also a number of threads here on Zity about online medfet/roleplay etc. From a search for “Online” in the title.

https://en.zity.biz/index.php?mx=forum&ox=search&ssy=online&titleorbody=1&user%5B%5D=&maxage=&searchit=Search&mux=eyJ0eXAiOiJKV1QiLCJhbGciOiJIUzUxMiJ9.eyJpYXQiOjE2NTYwMjA0MTIsImp0aSI6IlwvVnlyb0piQ3dSc25LdnQwUElaOUdwOHgzXC94R3NMUG5xYkYwYWN2TUhwRT0iLCJpc3MiOiJ6aXR5LmJpeiIsIm5iZiI6MTY1NjAyMDQxMiwiZXhwIjoxNjU2MDMxMjEyLCJkYXRhIjp7ImF1dGhpZCI6ODI4ODgsImF1dGhyb2xlcyI6WyJtZW1iZXIiLCJ1c2VyODI4ODgiXX19.Of4XZTiKNPn4Kal4Tdgzxc1TbSyOpl-XT1V4hE5S0aRiCMhCs27BmhbgSyAU7XYOVT_iUuM-YLXI5W1Vqs5d-Q

Online D/S relationships can and do work but only if both parties are honest. They rely heavy on trust.

In my humble opinion, no.

Yes they can.

If there is trust, transparency and respect between both people.

But it also means hard work from both sides.

And if these are there, such a relationship can last for years and years and give joy to both.

Talking about my own experience so far…

I believe it could work for a while but would probably simply dissolve over time. But, for some it it is a great option...I might try it with the right Dominant person.

When the participants are truly dominant & submissive I think the bonds would help keep the relationship going. Just discuss what each side is wanting. The comments mention the importance of trust, respect, and hard work., I totally agree ! I’ve had the opportunity to see these relationships work. Amazing.

I think it is possible, since I have had a number of short online relationships and a couple of much longer ones. There are limits and you will never match the sort of control that can be exerted over someone in RL. The bottom line is that as long as each party is getting what they want (or are satisfied enough with) it is real.

Can you be an online sub to master or domme?

Yes you can. It just has to be negotiated how it will work and how things will be handled, between consenting parties. So both people involved are getting what they want/expect from the online relationship.

I know of one couple from Zity.biz that started their relationship online and it has since moved to a long distance relationship.

So discuss the possibility with the other party so that things can be open. You both can say what you want, need, and expect from the relationship. Possibly have discussions periodically so that changes or adjustments can be made if needed.

This is America, you can be anything you want to be.

This is America, you can be anything you want to be.

It is? Dammit. Everything I learned about world geography is wrong.

You absolutely can! There just needs to be💯communication between both parties. There also needs to be full transparency & trust between parties. My personal preference is a IRL D/s relationship but sometimes online maybe the only option especially if distance is a factor 😈⛓️

Yes you can. I have a dom on here whom calls me frequently and we have done lots of talking but not just sex. The sex is spectacular on both ends and I’m happy with this, but would love to meet him in person mmmmmmmm

Lucky Dom @toshe63 .

Simple answer is, "Of course you can."

You could even find such a partner on Zity, in the chat rooms, if you find a like-minded person. In the end, it will depend on how you and your partner feel about the online way of doing things.

I concur completely with the comments made by toshe63, chelle300 and MissStress. I had such a relationship, and I can honestly say it was a wonderful 8 years and I have absolutely no regrets whatsoever.

The common ingredients voiced to the question, "Can you be an online sub to master or domme", were communication, negotiation and transparency. All of which are, I would say are essential in any relationship, be it online or in the flesh

For those in doubt, dont knock it until you have tried it

Certainly. It takes a lot of concerted effort and tons of communication and openness, but it can work. My Dom and I have been at it for 3 years, roughly, and have only met in person twice.

Sure you can if both parties in it to pleasure the other

I tried that many years ago, it was quite fun!

I don't have the experience of some people but I've certainly enjoyed some online scenarios where I have felt completely submissive to the other person, where they controlled what I was doing on my end of the virtual relationship... to the point of real intensity, sometimes orgasm, depending on what we're doing. Very very satisfying and fun, which is why I'm on Zity.

For me I think not simply because it might lose it’s spark after sometime like every long distance relationship there has to be a face to face meeting or else it would just be some type of fantasy with no real connection or ending

For me I think not simply because it might lose it’s spark after sometime...............................

Even in-person relationships can lose their spark. Not all, but many do to the point where they become nothing more than a mundane situation. As with everything, there are positives, negatives, pros and contras

A situation whereby, you will never know until you have a go

On line does not work. It has to be in person to work. That simply Online is just silly