The fleshlight gets too intense when orgasming

I would like to use my fleshlight properly.

Problem is: I have a hard time with dosing the stimulation during orgasm. It gets far too intense. Any ideas?

A flashlight is best used when you're alone in the dark and there's no other source of illumination.

If you have a hard time dozing off after stimulation during orgasm, turn off the flashlight….you're right, the light can be too intense for sleep.

I've never tried a fleshlight, but don't these things have intensity settings? If they don't, er, why the heck not? If there are fleshlights with intensity settings while yours doesn't, maybe you should invest in another one? Otherwise, maybe only use it with batteries that are almost depleted? Or throw it away and use your own hand while you find a suitable replacement, whatever that may be?

@Blackbarlow There are many types of internal textures. For less stimulation, choose a sleeve that is smoother or larger. The type and amount of lube that you use also changes the intensity. I've had dozens of different models of sleeves, some which are very pleasurable and some that are not. Have fun & play safe.

BTW Fleshlights are just a brand of masturbation sleeve. They don't use batteries or make light.

BTW Fleshlights are just a brand of masturbation sleeve. They don't use batteries or make light.

Technology has taken over - there are battery operated and rechargeable fleshlights, some are even controllable by phone apps - remotely. They pulse, vibrate and probably make music to help set the mood!!! 😄

https://bedbible.com/automatic-fleshlight/

https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/sex-toys/male-sex-toys/male-masturbators/p/-blowmotion-real-feel-vibrating-male-masturbator/a45662g82238.html?irclickid=Q56wD5SMRxyIRY6XoW24CWWOUkDwBjzu3VCDVs0&utm_source=Impact&utm_campaign=221109&utm_content=hawk&utm_medium=affiliate&irgwc=1

Wonder wave, one of the simplest textures, is a very satisfying sleeve for beginners and regular users alike. It works really well with astroglide gel.

Oh. I could actually create a similar thread as I bought Tenga Air-Tech Gentle and I tried it yesterday for the first time. The toy took me by surprise and I ejaculated really fast. I was impressed though.

Today I used condom to decrease sensitivity. It was a struggle but I managed to keep it under control by also being really slow and contracting pelvic floor muscles as soon I felt the moment is coming.

So my solution to a problem. Go slow. Be in the present. Use condom. Kegel exercises.

I bought a flashlight. Don't know how many features they have but mine is a simple tunnel made of soft silicon rubber. I suppose if I was to fill it with warm cold cream it would feel like the real thing, but like facing a dead person, passive, no interaction. My problem can't get it up enough to penetrate the device. I wish it had a suction option. The hoseman1