Bi Sex in a swinger club

A few years ago, my female partner and I visited individual swinger clubs and we had a lot of fun doing it. I found it a pity that sexual activities between women were very common, but that even putting on a hand with another guy was absolutely taboo. I would have liked to have massaged the testicles or licked the anus of a guy who was fucking my partner. A little sucking or being sucked in between would have been nice, but like I said, that was absolutely taboo.

What experiences have you had in swinger clubs?

One of my biggest fantasies is to be involved with a MMF threesome! I would love to masturbate the guy's cock as it is sliding in-and-out of our female partner's sopping wet vagina, and also lick his slippery-wet penis as it was moving in-and-out of her! After he cums inside of her, I would help bring her to an orgasm by lapping his cum from her dripping wet vagina & clit!

I did not experienced it but I would love to be fucked in the ass by the husband while I should be working on his wife, orally or fucking her vagina or ass…..

@dar1359

Now that is my idea of a fun night!!!

We went to a number of swinger clubs, and bisexual females were expected. Not the same for men, MM sex was forbidden. So we stopped going and organized our own parties.

We went to a number of swinger clubs, and bisexual females were expected. Not the same for men, MM sex was forbidden. So we stopped going and organized our own parties.

That's discriminatory!!! 😡

Completely agree, i would like the same out of the experience.

No swinger club experience, but I have been to a few parties where almost anything could go. Just one exception (a guy who would not let me touch and play with his tool although his girlfriend was wide open to anything), other than this, I have taken and given lots of excitement to boys and girls.

I am not familiar with swingers clubs in US, yet.

But most swingers clubs in UK had dedicated bi days, especially for bisexual men, since interactions between females became very common.

Of course, consent is always required, so before trying anything, one should ask. As like with anything else.

As for MM sex being forbidden, I heard that apparently some clubs had such rules, but personally I have never visited them.

On other hand, I had plenty fun with males and not on ‘bi days’. The only issue was that on ‘normal’ days there were much less bi males.

This was not in a swinger club per se but a male strip club that my female partner and I attended several times. We went to a private room with a male stripper she selected; in this case the stripper asked if I was bi-sexual. While I did not perform any acts on him, I got the feeling it was definitely acceptable. We did have some incidental contact and I did place his penis on my partner's mouth and breasts.

My husband and I have been to sex clubs that cater to male/female couples in Europe - UK, German, Belgium and France. Sex of any sort in public spaces between men was strictly forbidden. Women with women was fine in public spaces, perhaps even encouraged. An interesting double standard if there ever was one. Live public sex shows with two or more men were a usual Friday or Saturday night entertainment show. The expectation was that sex between men took place in private rooms and their wives or significant others would be with them participating. Now and then we would stop in at a gay bar. One place we went in the Netherlands was not for the faint of heat! I saw some things I did not think were possible.

Dita

This actually goes back decades as I understand it, I read an article a while back about a fancy old swingers club that had a rule that said men could not be alone in a room together.

Mainstream swinger culture as I understand it also seems to reproduce the biases of society at large, girl on girl is ok, guy on guy is not, and even edges into weird racial territory with cuckold fantasies often fetishising black men in the bull role.

Ah - times gone by! I’ve posted on this topic elsewhere on Zity but I will agin here. Years ago NYC had a very well known swingers club. The ruleswere simple enough Admittance was limited to only male and female couples - no single men or women. When entering there was a bar and a set of lockers. In this room you could shed clothing to whatever extend was comfortable. Most retained their underwear which I thought was very exciting. Next to the bar was the mat room. The floor was covered in mattresses. Here the rules for admittance were equally simple - absolutely nude. You could exchange partners after a polite request, simply watch or get it on with your partner. It was great fun and everyone was polite.