Do women become more bisexual as they age?

Well this topic of men becoming bisexual later in life has been discussed quite a bit on the men's side and it's fair to say its more commonplace than many would imagine. Often the reason a man wonders outside the marriage is that the wife doesn't want or is not interested in having sex so he seeks sexual gratification with other men. A significant factor for seeking out other men is because it's easier / less complicated to hookup with another man than getting into a relationship with another woman. Now there are lots of other scenarios and possible reasons middle age men seek out sex with another man- too many to get into. Certainly me and others have speculated these men were always bisexual and started acting on their bisexuality when the sex at home dried up.

So the question for the women is…

Do women who have been in a marriage for some time and have reached their middle years become more interested in having sex with other women?

I would be curious to see the reasons for and against as to why this is possibly happening or not.

I'm 35, and started to kinda want a woman to dominate me.

I started my exploration at 18 or 19. And while I enjoy people, overall, I enjoy more private company with other women over the company of men. Just a preference. I mean once in a great while a male will catch my attention, for a moment.

I'm obviously not a woman so take this with however much validity as wished.

I have often encountered the phrase/saying ‘lesbian until graduation’ … so I wonder how this fits in with the question.

I'm obviously not a woman so take this with however much validity as wished.

I have often encountered the phrase/saying ‘lesbian until graduation’ … so I wonder how this fits in with the question.

My original question was posed to see if there are parallels with men who say later in life they become interested in having sex with other men. This seems to occur frequently with men so the question is- does this happen for women too as they reach their middle years. There are many factors that may trigger this to happen for men. I am curious how women might answer this question.

Almost 60 and still have no interest in any sexual encounter with another female.

I like male cocks.

I like to be fucked by a real cock.

I get excited by my sub's touch and caressing.

So a big No for me.

I've been with men since I became sexually active. I conformed to the way my family & society says I was to get married to a man & pop out a couple of kids. Lately though I am starting to wonder what it would be like to be with a female. I still like cock too.

I’m not married, but actively dating and having sex with men and no, I’m not the least bit attracted to women. Had an opportunity for a little casual play with a woman friend a few years ago, but I simply had no interest, and I don’t see that changing. I’m not sure this is a phenomenon in older women, but I do think getting older can lower inhibitions and pique curiosities to try something new that appeals. Sexual orientation appears to be quite fluid for a lot of people.

I'm not attracted to women, but I am curious how if would feel, taste when licking a nipple, getting hard in my mouth. How a pussy tastes, looks , feels, I'm curious, but not sure I would want a woman to touch me, I'd like to be the one to explore that playground.

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I'm not attracted to women, but I am curious how if would feel, taste when licking a nipple, getting hard in my mouth. How a pussy tastes, looks , feels, I'm curious, but not sure I would want a woman to touch me, I'd like to be the one to explore that playground.

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@Wolfgirl66 I'd wager you've friends who would love to let you explore to your heart's content. 🌹

I know of a few yes, some very beautiful wicked women 😜

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I certainly hope that I would become bisexual with age!! For one thing the two sets of identical plumbing do not match up as intended and well…..just not for me….too much fun with my husband. That being said, I do admit being a bit curious as to why and how it happens. Denise

Not sure that it does in same way with men either. Perhaps people become more accepting / stop denying it as we get older, society view on it has made it more acceptable and as we get older and see we arent here forever so why not be true to ourselves.

I think its case more truthful rather suddenly becoming more bi

I think it's the other way around. I think young girls tend to be more bisexual. Younger, both males and females tend to do a lot of experimentation. With some, it stays into later years

I don't actually know. I'm not really attracted to other women in that sense but I'm attracted to people who are attracted to me. So if a woman was really attracted to me, I might be willing to see where it goes but I don't really seek that out myself or take any initiative. This really hasn't changed at all.

I have never had a lesbian experience, but I feel under the right circumstances I would. I'm talking the planets would have to be in perfect alignment. I would like to suck on her breasts and vice versa. I would like to be the recipient of oral, but I don't know about giving it.

If anything, maybe you might be more willing to try something as you become more confident and comfortable with who you are as you get older but no, you have to at least be inclined that way.

I don't see myself becoming more bisexual as I age. Oral, fingering, boobs, and kissing another woman do not interest me at all. The only thing that sometimes creeps into my fantasies is scissoring. Now and then I watch some scissoring porn to get it out my system. lol

My sexual orientation as a straight woman seems to be set in stone since before puberty. No changes in the many years since then.

I do have to wonder, though, if there are other factors that might make older adults more prone to engage in bisexual, kinky, extramarital, or other non-vanilla sexual activity.

Maybe as they age, they care less what others think of them and therefore are more inclined to go after what they want or are curious about.

I also wonder if their actions change when they no longer have kids at home who might suffer some negative consequence if the adult activity came to light.

And of course once a person retires, they no longer have to worry about what their employer has to say about anything.

For those who lose a partner, there's also a freedom to act without judgment or cheating.

I used to live in Barcelona for a time. It's relevant because this is the capital of homosexuality (m and f) in Europe.

It was here that I saw L couples at first in sex shops (they have great sex shops) then on the street... A few takeaways:

- the couples I saw were not particularly attractive; usually one was butch and 35+; on average they seem to worry less about physical appearance than hetero women.

- the dynamic appears to be - they move together early in the relationship but sex doesn't happen often (Spanish people like to talk, call it a gossip collection)

- I got the impression that many couples have at least one partner coming out of a failed hetero relationship (just a hunch, obviously I didn't ask).

- Male homosexuals are much, much more frequent than female. Gays are barely noticeable - they are so frequently seen.

- Also, sadly, it seems male gays take much better care of their bodies than male heteros - the former work out (on the beach there is free use fittness equipment largely used by gays) whereas the later usually sport paunches and stamp their cardio-disease card regularly with greasy food, alcohol, smokes and late nites out.

Obviously, just my observations, I have no stats to back this up. Would welcome corrections and comments.

I’ve been a straight male my entire life, so I’m not sure what would cause someone to become bisexual later on, unless they were before, and it finally came out.

So the question for the women is…

OP is asking for women to answer this, not men.

At the age of 24, I was in a marriage that should have only lasted 2 weeks but after 4 years was coming to an end. With that I had a choice, admit defeat and move back home with my parents or suck it up and go on by myself. It was my good fortune to meet a woman who was almost as bad off as I was. While she was 30 years older than I, her husband, a college professor had a stroke and had passed on. And she had a run down home she needed help fixing so she could sell it. I was offered a place to live in return for helping fix up her house.

It was not long afterwards that she and I became lovers and she introduced me to love with another woman. She was very shrew, had a lot of connections and helped guide me thru my divorce which turned out with my ex getting taking to the cleaners and did he ever. And over almost a year, we became wonderful lovers.

The house was fixed, sold and she moved on. I returned to college and entered the dating scene and soon discovered that men where not very nice, buy me a burger, wanna screw? So while I still dated men, I turned to women and a much better experience. As it turned out, I did meet the right man and have now been with him for 25 years. End of story?? No

At my 25th year high school reunion, I run into a girl who had been on our soccer team. We struck up a conversation and agreed to meet someday for lunch to which I thought would never happen. Well it did and it turned out we had a bit more in common than I thought. Since then she has become my bestie, we like to have lunch, thrift shop, go to the casino and just enjoy each others company. Now the question you are asking, does my husband know?? Yes he knows we have become good friends.

As far as where I live, I have very few close friends. We lived in town some years ago, had a lot of friends, they moved on. I do not associate with my co workers, have done a few things in the neighborhood, about it. With my husband’s position, I tend to keep a very low profile. Yes women do enjoy the company of other women and we take advantage of it when we are able to.