At the age of 24, I was in a marriage that should have only lasted 2 weeks but after 4 years was coming to an end. With that I had a choice, admit defeat and move back home with my parents or suck it up and go on by myself. It was my good fortune to meet a woman who was almost as bad off as I was. While she was 30 years older than I, her husband, a college professor had a stroke and had passed on. And she had a run down home she needed help fixing so she could sell it. I was offered a place to live in return for helping fix up her house.
It was not long afterwards that she and I became lovers and she introduced me to love with another woman. She was very shrew, had a lot of connections and helped guide me thru my divorce which turned out with my ex getting taking to the cleaners and did he ever. And over almost a year, we became wonderful lovers.
The house was fixed, sold and she moved on. I returned to college and entered the dating scene and soon discovered that men where not very nice, buy me a burger, wanna screw? So while I still dated men, I turned to women and a much better experience. As it turned out, I did meet the right man and have now been with him for 25 years. End of story?? No
At my 25th year high school reunion, I run into a girl who had been on our soccer team. We struck up a conversation and agreed to meet someday for lunch to which I thought would never happen. Well it did and it turned out we had a bit more in common than I thought. Since then she has become my bestie, we like to have lunch, thrift shop, go to the casino and just enjoy each others company. Now the question you are asking, does my husband know?? Yes he knows we have become good friends.
As far as where I live, I have very few close friends. We lived in town some years ago, had a lot of friends, they moved on. I do not associate with my co workers, have done a few things in the neighborhood, about it. With my husband’s position, I tend to keep a very low profile. Yes women do enjoy the company of other women and we take advantage of it when we are able to.