What are your feelings in a genital exam?

Men (or women) : What are your feelings at a genital exam?

Another discussion asks women how they feel about the first touch of a gyn exam

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What are you feeling anticipating the exam? When the examiner says, ‘lift your gown and show me your genitals?’ or whisks off the gown exposing you? When s/he is doing a visual inspection? Then finally touches you?

Its not very often that that has happened to me,but when it did i just lifted the gown and let the doctors do what they have got to do,be different in a play doctor role.

I've had the occasional “well you're having ____ problems so I'll want to check your testicles” situations where I'm just like “okay cool” and drop the pants and lift my shirt slightly so nobody's groping around blind. Not much special feeling there.

For a regular exam though I'm usually naked and on my back, and it feels quite nice being touched in that position. Though it's always far too brief, generally just turning it to the side to make sure there's nothing immediately obviously wrong. That plus the ol' turn head and cough. I would certainly not mind a much more thorough touching and examining of such an important appendage. At least spend as much time on it as women have spent on their breasts checking for irregularities there.

Secretly I like every minutes.

Embarrassment during it usually and being anxious before knowing it's coming

No special feelings now but 20 years ago I felt confused. That was due to poor sex education. I was confused because no matter the sex of the medical professional touching me it felt good when they touched my penis, and scrotum. I didn’t understand why because I was taught that only the love of my life (once you are married) could make that happen.

I know better now.

I have a huge love/ hate relationship with genital exams. I hate actually having them done on me, but absolutely love every other moment of them.

The best part about them for me, is the beforehand. The anticipation is absolutely the best! I have a whole cocktail of thoughts and feelings going on in my head. Anxiety, dread, embarrassment, excitement, arousal, fear, nervous energy, curiosity, vanity, … you name it and I'm probably feeling it. Just thinking about getting an exam stirs up all these emotions and more. Calling to schedule my physical takes it up a notch or two and takes immense courage on my behalf. Then every moment that passes and brings me closer to my appointment elevates it all further. I am a complete mess the day or two prior to my scheduled exam. It is pretty much all I think about as I drive to the doctor's office.

Nervous anxiety, dread, apprehension, and embarrassment over what is about to happen is what consumes me immediately prior to the big reveal. When the doctor actually gives me the instructions to stand up for a hernia/ genital exam, my stomach is in knots and my head is spinning. It's almost an out of body experience. At the time, it is not a good experience. It feels mentally, physically, and emotionally exhausting. I feel so on display and judged as I reluctantly lower my pants and underwear for the doctor's awaiting eyes. Everything about these moments is awkward. I feel very vulnerable and exposed as I stand with my penis and scrotum on full display, the center of attention. It's very intimidating with the doctor sitting inches in front of me putting on the gloves and visually inspecting and comparing my genitals. The entire time that I stand there on display being examined and touched is embarrassing for me. Always has been, probably always will be. Call me a wimp, a baby, whatever. It's just the way I'm wired apparently.

Once the doctor finishes my genital exam and stands up, I'm still embarrassed because I haven't been told to pull up yet, so my pants are still bunched up around my thighs and he/ she is still staring at my genitals. But there is a brief moment of relief that I survived and it's over. The sad, scary, exciting part is when you hear them say, “I do need to check your prostate…” and the whole internal process starts all over again as I shuffle over to the table and bend over!

After the exam and I leave the doctor's office, that's when the arousal and excitement really begin to escalate. I absolutely love to replay the whole experience in my mind. I try to recall all the details and feelings and relive the experience over and over again. The genital exam is the basis for many of my masturbation sessions.

I often get anxious if a woman nurse practitioner or doctor is doing the genital exam because I’ve gotten erections in the past which are quite embarrassing. I was recently in the ER due to a recurrence of one of my hernias and I had a female doctor that brought in her scribe that was about 20 Years old. She sat down directly across from me and typed in all my information. The doctor then told me to remove the gown and lower my underwear please. I asked if the scribe could wait outside and the doctor said she’s a trained chaperone as well so let’s proceed. I got up and removed the gown and lowered my underwear as asked and the scribe looked on as the doctor did a full exam. My penis enlarged but fortunately did not get totally erect.

It has clearly changed with the passage of time, different providers and different approaches to this aspect of the examination. At the present time, there is an acute sense of anticipation, largely with the doctor I have now, knowing he will examine my genitals and do a rectal/prostate exam. While I may feel self conscious even embarrassed, I know it is for my own good and am appreciative that he does this rather swiftly. As a teen, there was an absence of self confidence when the briefs came off. Then, it was pure dread and fear of the spontaneous erection. Both of these concerns are now diminished. I do admit the when speaking about this on Zity, the affect is hardly passive, and for this, it's pleasant or pleasurable! I guess it's a aspect of my experience that is changing with the passage of time.

Since it's a big part of my med fet story, I love genital exams and hope to receive one at every full physical and/or urology visit…which does not hardly ever happen any more, sadly. Doctors these days don't do them as often as they used to. I do get nervous, sexually excited and wet, but not usually erect, due to being nervous. I usually masturbate after my genital exams, in the doctor's office bathroom or at home. When I was younger and knew I would get a genital/rectal exam from my female PCP, I would often audio record the exam with a little tape machine in my shirt/coat pocket so I could relive the experience accurately later. I'm sure there might be some opinions on the ethics of that amongst our members, but in the interest of being truthful, there it is. I do not and will not see a doctor just to expose myself or get examined, and I do not try to manipulate my providers into touching my genitals without a medical reason (fortunately, over the years, I have had valid reasons to get them--infertility, infection, general health, etc.) This can be a ‘touchy’ subject (pun absolutely intended!)

I don't really think about it. She starts with my boobs and is talking to me the whole time. I have to switch from thinking about summer and all to take my mind off my sister and her girlfriend teasing me all the way there. I'm not the only one they tease. They tease my sister's girlfriend's niece as well all the way there and all the way home. I'm glad there is such a short wait in the waiting room. By the time she is down to my vagina I am usually thinking and answering the questions she is asking. I mean she will throw in, "everything looks fine." She will ask questions about what we have planned for the summer. Ask if I am happy school is out. While she is checking my boobs she will ask if I have had any tenderness. When she is at my tummy she will ask if I have been having normal BM's. Then for my vagina, she will ask if my periods are normal, and any problems there. Then when she does the rectal she will ask if I have had any bleeding or any problems with constipation etc. So I really don't have time to think about what is going on or about to happen.

My external genital exams as a teenager are a major source of my medical fetish, and that continues to this day.

First, I should say that getting the “all clear” from my doc is primary to any fetish interests. After all, that's the reason I'm there.

That said, I do enjoy the exposure, the feelings of submission to the exam and the provider, and the physical sensations. And it's even more arousing to have a nurse/MA, and of course Dev, there watching. The gender of the provider doesn't matter. And for me, receiving an external exam without a full pelvic exam is just as arousing as a full pelvic, perhaps even maybe a little more so.

I don't get to worked up about it during the exam, however after is a different story 😉 Recent exams have been with moments of exposure then covering back up. The last genital exam I stood up undid my pants got a testicular exam then was done. Kind of anticlimactic.

Going to the doctors appointment is very dramatic for me. As a child, my mother would make the appointment. If you have read my previous posts, I would go to the doctors several times during the year. I would go every 90-days for a “growth & development” exam from 12yrs old to 18yrs of age. Then in between if I had a common cold or was sick from something.

Everytime I knew when the appointment was going to be in advance, I would know about 2-3 days prior and for those days, I would be super anxious and have anxiety attacks. The day of the exam, I was very nervous especially if it was for my “growth & development” exam.

The worse part was before the doctor came into the exam room. I was asked to get undressed (and back then it was tighty whities, Hanes undies) The nurse did the usual weight, height and anal temperature and blood pressure and then my mother and I would wait for the doctor. For some reason, I would try to calm myself down and my mother was no help ensuring me that everything will go as planned.

Once the doctor arrived, he would chat with my mother as if I was not there, ask her questions about my development and my inspections at home. He would have me lay down and check my stomach and palpate my lower abdomen and place his hands underneath my waist band, I knew what was coming and my penis would be getting hard. As the doctor removed my undies, he would instruct me to spread my legs, he would do the tanner stages, check my pubic hair growth…feel my penis from the base and move his hands upwards. He would rub my frenulum and I would always have pre-cum. All I did was look up at the ceiling tiles as I would feel him feeling my penis and I would ejaculate.

Sometimes I would be standing in front of him while he would be sitting in a stole, with full exposure, my mother would see him feel my erect penis and balls and show her my growth and point out my erection to her and he would then feel my penis and I would ejaculate as well.

It was very embarrassing and this experience lead up to my enjoyment for medfet.

The older I get every year the more anxiety ridden it seems to be as there always is more liklihood that the doctor will find more and more things wrong with me in a real exam, and the genital exam is no exception. My nerves seem to always get the better of me.

However, those feeling are entirely different in a play exam where one can just relive the excitment and the fun of an exam as how we remember it in our younger days. In those days you just knew the chances were almost nonexistant that he doctor would find anything actually wrong and you were just left to enjot the exam to the fullest. Those were the glory days of a physical exam process and it is now only in a play exam that one can recature those intense and wonderful feelings.

I get nervous in the anticipation that it could happen. Once I lower my pants and underwear I seem to relax and enjoy it though.

Not sure. It is what it is. Arousing in hindsight to know I'm not the only one who's examined this way.

All kinds of emotions. I’m embarrassed, shy, anxious, turned on.

Very embarrassed but excited at the same time

Very embarrassed I would say. As a boy/teen I used to get constant erections during exams, which made me feel even worse.

Dont get hard, dont get hard, dont get hard. ok try two fingers then

Anxious because I start thinking about it beforehand and nearly always at half mast before it starts. By the time it's over I'm fully erect. Dr says, "Are you excited or just happy to see me."

I literally think about it for days before. It is highly anticipated for me and the thing I look forward to it probably far too much. I dont get hard; in fact the opposite I shrink up a bit. I sort of wish I would chub up slightly so it wouldnt be so small when the doctor sees it.

The situation is completely different for underage patients, who are almost always forced by the medical office requirements or by the will of their parents or guardians to have a caperone, who is also very often of the opposite gender. (…) The most common object in such situations are boys who are accompanied by their mother, who in most societies is the main health and hygiene caregiver.

I fully agree with what you wrote. The most embarrassing thing in adolescence was the presence of my mother during the pediatrician's genital examination. I felt then treated like a little child. I was not ashamed of my mother. During this period, she often saw me naked on various occasions. The most embarrassing thing was that she was present at the medical examination.

I dont get hard; in fact the opposite I shrink up a bit. I sort of wish I would chub up slightly so it wouldnt be so small when the doctor sees it.

I have the same, since puberty my penis has been shrinking during the examination. Right now I'm excited when they have to show their genitals for inspection, but the penis is shrinking.

I go every year for my wellness and never been naked! I put a gow on and everything off but when it’s stirrup time and that’s just part of the exam but when he starts feeling your vulva and spreading you open I don’t care for that! You know what I don’t know how people get excited over that because nurses and doctors it’s just another ass to examine and it’s ne mentioned! They see so much they could care less! They may make fun of you for being so silly getting hard!

I don't get any special feelings during the genital exam, but it is definitely my favorite part.

“Gee, I wish this could last a few seconds longer.”

Unfortunately, the genital exam tends to be over almost as soon as it gets started. So I'm typically trying to take in all the sights and sounds and feelings, knowing it will be over in a matter of seconds.

I have a decent size benign cyst on my left testicle of about 1 cm by 2 cm and my current doctor has never so much as felt it.

It happened to me only once, at my dermatologist'

I wasn't sure it would happen but was afraid to, so some stress. Especially when asked “anything to see down there ?” by the young lady doctor. I hopped things would stop here, but they didn't. I had to show everything eventually, with heart beatting way too fast.

So big anxiety at the moment. But very good memory now, few months later.

Four years ago, I made a bad fall while skiing, on the beautiful descent of Val Veny.

In the following weeks, a very annoying small lump developed between the perineum and right thigh, to the point that, one morning, I was having difficulty walking, so I went to the emergency room in my city.

When my turn came, I was taken to one of the examination rooms and, to my amazement, there was a female doctor who, frankly, could have been one of the models I usually photograph, a male doctor and an assistant girl, also pretty. For the exam I had to take off my jeans and boxers, I was made to lie on my right side, with my left leg raised ... Basically I was completely exposed. I remember saying something like "This is my Dante retaliation ...", while the female doctor gave me the ultrasound examination of the area. There was a moment of silence, then I explained that, as a hobby, I take pictures of female artistic nudes. We all laughed. The examination did not reveal anything other than an internal hemetoma, which in a week, with the help of a cream, was reabsorbed, fortunately.

All in all it was an embarrassing exam, but a fun one.

When told they are about to be examined taking on a feeling of submitting whether examiner is male or female. Fretter