What are your feelings in a genital exam?

Pediatric examination were the most psychologically invasive I had to overcome. A major role is done by the anticipation and submission. I was dreaded to have my underpants removed and see my body completely naked in a medical context. Seconds after my briefs were completely removed and my genitals appeared completely exposed to the doctor are the most intense for me. I felt a very special mixture of embarassement, fear and excitement. Anticipation of the touch made me contract every muscle. When finally doctor fingers reached my genitals I tried to remain completely still and cooperant, he generally started separating and palpating my testicles then retracting the penis and finally spreading and examining my anus. The manipulation brought to me a mixture of pain due to the gentle squeeze of testicles, sexual tickling during the penis exam and a feeling of violation and complete exposure during the anal exam. At the time I dreaded the procedure but I remember details with excitement and I am sure it provided the basis for my medical fetish.

I love both giving and receiving genital exams. I have had a female GP for years and love the slight fluster she and her ‘witness’ nurse get when I react to the touch.

In med role play I love the power exchange when I am examining a patient, male or female, and they react to my lingering touch and probing fingers.

When I had my first genital exam as a young teen, I did not expect it so when the doctor told me to lower my underwear I was quite surprised. I felt shy and embarrassed and also judged. I also felt awkward just standing there with my genitals exposed while the doctor performed the exam.

For a later exam, I expected the genital exam but I still felt weird about it. Expecting it made it somewhat worse. I was quite nervous.

Usually don't mind except for the urologist. Standing there half dressed. Awkwardly..

I get an erection every time. I used to feel embarrassed as a child/teen but alas, no more. If my genitals get handled I am gonna get hard. The big head cannot always control the little head (or in my case the not so little head. 😂) The plumbing system works quite well, thank you.

During my childhood genital exams I remember feeling paralyzed-it was almost a surreal state because the doctor moved so fast. I went from being fully clothed sitting upright on the table as she made conversation with my parents and I to laying on my back pants bunched up around my ankles underwear down around my knees. I remember feeling so embarrassed and awkward as her cold hands gently spread my thighs apart touching every inch my scrotum. Often precum leaking from the head of my penis sometimes shriveled others erect. She didn’t miss a beat and kept conversation going with my parents and me as if nothing was happening - sometimes slowing down her speech as if she was possibly a bit distracted by what was between my legs. Finishing up by sliding my underwear back up and then guiding me upright by placing her hand under my back or shoulder. These exams were always done barehanded. As I was upright and beet red faced she would conclude with reassuring words about my health as she would walk over to the sink wash her hands and then turn around and tell me I could get dressed and parents could check out at the front.

Hard to say exactly what my feelings were. I always felt some anxiety and nervousness going into the exam knowing that I’d be asked to undress to my underwear and would have my genitals examined. I wasn’t very comfortable in my own skin back then. I was 18 when I had my last exam with my pediatrician. It was a very thorough exam and when it came time to lower my underwear, I just remember feeling a bit embarrassed. Probably because at that point I began to not like male doctors, so exposing myself to him made me a bit uncomfortable. I had a varicocele repair in 2017 and had numerous genital exams leading up to it and afterwards. My last one was with a female endocrinologist, and by that point so many doctors both male and female had examined my genitals that I lost any sort of modesty and no longer felt any anxiety, nervousness, or embarrassment from it.

When I was a kid, I endured examinations of my foreskin. At first I was scared, because I knew my cousin had been circumcised after such examinations had pronounced his foreskin too difficult to retract, and I thought my mother could want to have me circumcised as well. In later years I no longer feared this fate, but I became very embarrassed. I was glad when it ended.

When I was 19 I endured a palpation of the testicles during a military induction examination, and I was pretty embarrassed (female doctor, and at that time I was shy around females).

For a real exam my thoughts are usually focused on hoping it’s over quickly and that the doctor doesn’t find anything. I have a clear mental delineation between real and play exams.

I am always looking forward to pulling my underwear down to be checked out down their.

Hopeful there is nothing wrong and hoping to not get an erection.

If it’s a play doc I’m excited, if it’s a real exam I feel nothing, just want it over with quickly.

I am male and always very embarrassed when it comes time for the genital exam. I'm always very nervous even before the genital exam because I know the genital exam will be coming near the end of exam. And I was always worried I might have an erection. After the entire exam was over and I was out of the exam room, I always felt very excited about what had just happened.

I do not remember my doctors’ appointments when I was a little kid very well; what I do remember was screaming, being held down for immunizations, the taste of the oral Polio vaccine, and the scraping throat-culture tests from time to time. Nor do I remember regular/routine visits, but surely I went to them at least regularly because I was always up-to-date with the vaccinations that were required for school.

However, I question that too….

When I was in the fifth grade, my class went on a field trip at a roller skating rink. Long story short, a classmate and I careened and I broke my wrist. My mom picked me up and I did not go to school for a couple of days (pain!), but I did not see a doctor about my injury until about a month later when my arm was clearly more than a sprain.

I had one physical in my senior year of high school when, for the first time since I had developed, I was examined. The exam was cursory - I was fully clothed or, if I did have a gown on, I kept on my undergarments - included my first breast exam (I only remember cold fingers underneath my shirt… and embarrassment). I do not remember even any glances under my panties, nor was it deemed necessary as I had never participated in any sort of intimate relations at that point - I had not even had my first real kiss yet. I am sure I would have recalled that if it happened.

When I mustered up enough courage to go to the gynecologist for the first time, my focus was placed on what was going to happen with the speculum exam. Any external genital visual exam happened quickly and unbeknownst to me… or I was so concerned with the entire contents of Everything Else that it went completely unnoticed on my part.

In fact, it always does. It’s done quickly enough not to catch my attention, as I am completely anticipating the internal exam.

I'm normally a bit nervous but that goes away when my urologist is examining me. For my exam in July, I am going to request to wear a gown since it would be easier since he'll be giving me a prostate exam as well. I'm also gonna ask if I can be examined lying down as well. I don't think that'll be a problem. You guys think that's a fair question?

A bit of brief hesitancy and once lowered a combination of exhilaration and submittal with my genitals in their care and control.

Nervous and a little scared I might get hard.that would be very embarrassing I have a feeling

As a child, it was embarrassment and shame. The doctor rarely suggested lowering his underpants. Most often, she did it herself, completely unexpectedly and without making secrets for the office. In adulthood, things are not so simple. On the one hand, it is unpleasant for a man to show his genitals, and if the doctor is a woman, then this causes embarrassment.

Very embarrassed, but slightly excited. I have been to nude events previously so people other than girlfriends have seen my vulva slit before. However the lady at the clinic gets to see inside the slit and examine the middle pink bit. She then also gets to put 2 fingers up my vagina.

It feels like she gets to know all the secrets that usually only a gf gets - what my clitoris looks like, what shape my hymen is, how tight my vagina feels and that I have one minora slightly longer than the other.

The physical sensations I experience during a genital exam are butterflies in the stomach and tingling in the genitals. Emotionally, I experience feelings of embarrassment and arousal, both equally intense.

“So, please lay down, pull down your trousers and underpants, i have to check your penis and testicles..” Always a mixture of strong embarrassment and a little bit of arousal afterwards.

I had a virtual genital exam several hours ago… was touching myself the entire time… so wonderful, mmmmmm

A sense of coldness. Also praying there is nothing wrong,

It's mixed feelings for me, the anticipation of those words. “Please lower you pants and underwear so I can have a look" is exciting but when I actually hear them ,the feeling of embarrassment hit's me. I start thinking and hoping that I don't get an erection as she's examining me.

I always feel a mixture of fear and excitement. I'm anxious because it feels embarrasing to be so exposed, but at the same time, the sexual part of my, with a medical fetish(!) finds that exciting too. I also feel a little dissapointed that I can't ‘enjoy’ the process a little more, knowing it'll be over so quickly.