Speaking when having sex ?

Do you speak when you are making love? What do you speak about?

We do the usual bedroom talk or if its role play then whatever it may be

My wife and I seldom spoke during sex. Every now and then we'd do a bit of modest role-playing where she pretended to be engaged in first-time heavy petting with me, halfheartedly resisting having bra and panties taken off, clenching her thighs or shaking about and talking about how 'she wasn't allowed' to do such things.

But usually we were silent. I could see her close her eyes and mouth silent words, probably retreating into a silent fantasy scenario of her own.

Nary a word,,. beyond an occasional “Love you….”. My wife gets deep into her head when we are “engaged”…and she is a screamer. Soft moaning as she is becoming aroused; VERY vocal and PROLONGED screaming as she enjoys a very long climax. Then quiet and off to the arms of Morpheus. (While we have some distance between our home and that of our neighbors, in the summer with windows open a bit I have more than once been concerned about them summoning the local constabulary…..hmmmmmm.)

I tell my sub what might be happening to him in the future.

A forced enema after he orgasms. He has no interest in enemas after an orgasm.

Getting an enema outside under the summer sun or moon.

Having to wear a vibrating butt plug while put shopping.

Having to expell outside while I watch.

Getting a role playing “colonoscopy”.

Are a few examples.

No talking, my wife is in some sort of world where sex is dirty. Even though she likes me giving her orgasms, it's still dirty in her brain.

No talking, my wife is in some sort of world where sex is dirty. Even though she likes me giving her orgasms, it's still dirty in her brain.

Ask her why she thinks that.

Ask her why she thinks that.

C'mon, it's not a good idea to make a wife talk about something she doesn't want to talk about. That is a recipe for discord.

There are many things that are often best left unsaid or not asked about.

@agracier

C'mon, it's not a good idea to make a wife talk about something she doesn't want to talk about. That is a recipe for discord.

There are many things that are often best left unsaid or asked about.

I'd give you 100 likes for that but they only let me give it once.

@agracier I'd give you 100 likes for that but they only let me give it once.

Ha ha … for instance while my wife loved, even needed a finger up her anus to climax when having sex, even though she enjoyed and expected it, heaven forbid there should ever ever be any open talk about anal matters at all. Even when watching an episode of ‘Sex and the City’ that brought up the subject was enough for her to walk away in disapproval.

So you learn never to mention the subject again. A disapproval of the naive assertion that things can always be made better/solved by talking about them. Just another one of life's lessons to learn through experience.