Parental mistakes

My daughter is 15 years old and the other day she found my ergo soft large butt plug and asks me what it is for?. I did not know how to answer so just walked away. I'm sure she knows what I do with it. She know I enjoy to “clean my bum” her words not mine. I wonder how many here have similar experiences with their children finding their sex toys and if it maybe impacted the child and their sexual curiosities?

I'm just wondering – is it really the best strategy to just walk away without a thing when your child asks you a question, no matter the type of question? I mean, couldn't you have at least answered that it's one of your personal things, for your private moments, and that you were sorry for not keeping it in a better hidden place, etc., that sort of thing?

I had a conversation much like that with her. Thank you for your offer.

Ah. Since you had written that you had just walked away since you didn't know how to answer, I assumed that nothing else was said on the matter after that incident. My bad.

The only toys I do not keep locked up are massagers and I definitely use them on my head and neck in front of my kids. That way they just sort of think I am trying to loosen up my muscles. I also keep my locked up stuff in my closet. I have warned my kids knock before you enter a room if the door is closed and don't go digging through my stuff. If they find something odd or see something they don't want to see, that's on them.

I keep things I don't want seen in my room.

Like Nixie small massagers were not hidden away and used for muscle ache however when kept disappearing and winding up in other peoples bedroom purchased more so had they had their own.

I had a friend come over to visit once and she brought her 13-year-old cousin. Like I have said many times we run around here nude. So when she knocked at the door I looked at the camera and told her just a minute. I had to get dressed really fast because it was hot outside number one and number two I wouldn't want to be walking around nude with them. Anyway, I was in my kitchen getting them some drinks when I saw her cousin walking into my room I said loud and pointed to my room (toys). So she stopped her and told her to head the other way across the house to the guest bathroom. The door was closed to save on cooling and I saw her take a right towards my sister and her girlfriend's room. I said aloud again (toys) and pointed to the way she had gone. But this time I walked fast from the kitchen to the hall across the house and opened the door to the guest bathroom.

It was pretty funny. I know she was wondering why I was almost yelling (toys). I had a few in my bathroom that I had washed and they were on the side of my dressing table. I also know how my sister and her girlfriend are. They leave toys out laying wherever when they are done. I know this because I have had to go in and find a toy more than a few times before.

Her cousin probably thought I was crazy. But she never asked any questions. The friend of mine that visited was not shocked because we had a few good times before that day. We laugh about it now.

Wow ! Nice topic, but you can't control their ingenuity to get what they want, even if you tried your best. Cable TV Parental codes didn't stop mine. Nor did a padlock on our toy cabinet, as they found a key. Had 2 girls a year apart, and another 3 years younger. Thinking back, they all found their sexuality by snooping, sneaking, or learning from the others.

Enemas: They all got their share growing up, but on Saturday bowling night we would come home to hear about our oldest spending 2 hours in the shower and not watching them. On several occasions while getting ready to take a shower, I found a damp enema bag not where we usually put it, but under some towels. Asked my Ex if she…. No, she said.

Toys: One of them, or all, found the cabinet key. The “ Magic Wand ” was out of it's place. My Ex's vibrator was too, as well as finding lubricant on the anal and vaginal attachments. We drew a mark on the lubricant bottle as well as placing our toys in a position that we both saw. Then the enema bag. We didn't say shit, but put it in a spot in a corner / under certain towels, and waited.

The next bowling night we came home to check after they all went to bed. Guess what ?? Bag was again damp. The wand, vibrator, and attachments were moved out of place, but my stupid kid(s) forgot to remove all the lube. Which BTW, was below the tell tale line on the bottle.

We / I raised 2, maybe 3 sneakers growing up. One, the oldest am sure that she is a Klismo when talking to her as she says that she has the same bowel problems growing up as a kid. The middle one always liked either being naked under her gown / PJ's, showing off to her sister's BF. The ( Special Ed counselor's ) said that she had a masturbation issue in class's.. She also blurted out on a few occasions about our toys to the counselor / us.

As far as the youngest…. Who knows, as she was a premature baby. Now at 5'1 and almost 40, who knows about her interests and having 2 kids.

As far as the other 2, think me and my ex already knows

I learned that no matter how hard you try, kid's will figure it out.