Maybe an odd question

Can someone who already needs to wear a diaper, have a diaper fetish? Does the necessicity override the fetish? I have recently met a woman who needs to wear a diaper as she has a disability but swears that she enjoys her diaper wearing and that she is always aroused when wearing it and pooping in it. Any opinions on this?

I can't think of any reason, logical or illogical, that would preclude someone who has to wear a diaper for medical reasons from having a fetish for it. Many people with medical fetishes need to see doctors for real medical problems, so why not diaper wearing/use?

Not sure what “override” means when comparing necessity with fetish. A person who needs to wear a diaper needs to wear a diaper for cleanliness/medical reasons and the fetish for sexual/erotic reasons. Now, if the fetish were to be that the person could only enjoy sex when wearing nothing but a pair of sox, then one might override the other, but only at specific times when one or the other is not needed to accomplish certain goals.

If she likes wearing/using diapers, and you like her wearing/using diapers, just get out there and enjoy it together.

Just my opinion.

When I became incontinent it left me a choice between a catheter or wear diapers 24/7. I hated the choice of both of them. I chose to wear diapers because of my lifestyle. As time went on I became used to the daily routine associated with wearing diapers 24/7. I also became very comfortable wearing in public at work etc.

Now it been over 10 years of wearing 24/7. I do consider myself as a DL. So to answer the question, yes I started out as needing diapers for a medical need and then later became a DL who enjoy wearing diapers.

My thoughts are if I may share. The underlying fetish or like for diapers comes to the individual only by chance situations. This was not my blossoming of the DL lifestyle, I always loved diapers. We have many friends that are also into diapers. They discovered them in one or more of these chance situations.

One other situation I have not mentioned is bedwetting which ends in nighttime diapers. Individuals with Medical changes and abilities lost due to disease or an injury accident have diaper awareness thrust upon them. A very tough situation for the newly diapered folks to cope with. Their diapers are a true curse to them at first. Soon it develops into enjoyment with the diaper experience. The change to enjoyment is helped greatly by the care given by a significant other.

All of our lucky brothers and sisters who enjoy their diapers are hard-wired from birth. Mom, food, soft warm diapers, and lots of love plant a great future fetish seed in our sexual futures. These are the folks I think I fit in with. Mom and my six sisters did not spare the diapers for me.

Naughty Elf said: A very tough situation for the newly diapered folks to cope with. Their diapers are a true curse to them at first. Soon it develops into enjoyment with the diaper experience. The change to enjoyment is helped greatly by the care given by a significant other.

Very well said Naughty Elf. This is exactly what happened to me!! The only difference is my wife left me when I had my back injury which led to incontinence.

So I went through the CURSE of the big life change by myself. I do have a few Zity friends that also fits in this category also.

I look at this way, if I'm wearing a diaper 24/7 because of a medical need. Then make the BEST OF IT, HAVE SOME FUN AND ENJOYMENT if possible!!

Sometimes you have to make the best of a situation. I am completely urine incontinent and mostly poop incontinent. However, when I became incontinent, I discovered how much I loved diapers and I didn't even know it.

Sometimes you have to make the best of a situation. I am completely urine incontinent and mostly poop incontinent. However, when I became incontinent, I discovered how much I loved diapers and I didn't even know it.

Very well said, I want to add from my previous post. I DONT LET MY INCONTINENCE CONTROL ME. After I became incontinent it did change my lifestyle a little bit.

However I just go on living my life enjoying wearing diapers 24/7. I learned a long time ago having incontinence issues isn't the end of the world.

My diaper fetish developed over time during my pre-teen and teenage years when I wet my bed and had to wear diapers and rubber pants at night. I don't really think of my bedwetting as a medical problem, but perhaps it was, since my younger sister also wet her bed until 12. Mom took me to a doctor once when I was 12, this was in 1958. and I'm not sure how advance medical knowledge was regarding bedwetting. The doctor told my mom there was nothing wrong with me and I would stop when I was ready. I was also starting puberty at the time and learned the joys and intensity of sexual arousal wearing and wetting diapers. I don't think I was born with a diaper fetish, but developed it from masturbating under my diapers and rubber pants during several very impressionable years.