What should I do about this dilemma

Well, I have a live-in GF. Before she moved in I told her about my diapers. I was hoping she eventually would get involved some way or at least try. Well, I wear them in front of her, but she does not recognize them or say anything. She said she hates the smell of urine. I cannot smell it and she would say if she did. She wants basically nothing to do with anything. We really have nothing more than like a roommate type relationship. There is no intimacy to speak of, and sex is non-existent. Anyone been in this sort of situation before that can lend some advice??

I assume the diapers are a choice, a fetish, and not due to a medical need. If that is correct, then you need to decide which is more important, her or diapers. The decision is yours, you know her feelings

Unfortunately, I don’t think that relationship will survive without some compromise on both sides. You two need to address the issues you each have and decide where to go from there. Good luck!

I think you have a live in room-mate, not gf.

Might want to look elsewhere for a gf.

Since there is no sex, you have a room-mate. She was probably a room-mate from day one. If you want a girlfriend, then it is time for you to remove the room-mate and go look for a girlfrien!

Yup. Not hard to see who is exploiting who here. Who pays the rent? Shared?

Time to move on…..

Look if she was girlfriend before moving in. Decide what you want from the relationship. Than talk to her about your fetish wants and need. And see if she there, if not I would ask her to find a new place. If she wasn't girlfriend before moving in, she is using you and stringing you on. Tell her to find a new place to live. Cause you don't want a user.

@1tallbaby2 said…

I have a live-in GF.

There is no intimacy to speak of, and sex is non-existent.

Girlfriends tend to have sex with their boyfriends. Roommate's do not. I feel someone is just a roommate. But I do not have all of the information you have. You have to decide if that is what you want from a relationship. What you are willing to have and not have. Are willing to continue with no intimacy or acknowledgement of your diapers?

Good luck with what ever you decide to do.

I was in diapers , not by choice 24/7 for 5 or 6 years and was very worried about the smell myself . i used air fresheners and baking soda and worked hard so that it wasn't , couldn't be offence to any one . Two people to this day will not come in past my door even though I'm have a catheter now because in their own mind it reeks of urine . I and many other's that visit me know better . So if she is as you say i don't think you will ever change her mind .