If I could only get one speculum which should I get?

Let me start off by saying that I for certain reasons it would be unfeasible for me to accumulate different types of speculum so I will only be able to get one. Now I'm not into med-fet which is why I've put this topic in here but I do have an interest in speculums due to their ability to open up orffices for non-medical reasons too. I am aware of about a dozen types of speculum and I think I'm considering either the graves or the collins or possibly even the cusco's. Furthermore I will be using it in both her vagina and anus (obviously not in the same session). I'm aware that there are rectal speculums specifically designed for the anus but as far as I know vaginal speculums can be used a well.

Graves would be choice if limited to one. Most important person to ask is your gf. Get online go through the types and see what she thinks.

Go metal of course. Consider size if intend to use it vaginally and rectally.

Ok so this is an interesting question.

I'd ask, for starters - you say you're not into medfet - so where does your desire for a speculum come from? Most people here would view a speculum as a medical implement. Good fun, lots of kinky ideas. You say you want to “open up oraffices for non-medical reasons” - and therein lies the rub - are you looking to create a sense of fear (in which case a Graves is probably the best bet)? What about a sense of fullness (in which case a 3-blade/matheau is probably most correct)? The most width (Collins is probably your best bet)?

In any case, be safe. A large graves/collins is probably way to big for most to be used anally. A smaller collins, however, is reasonable versatile….but again, it is going to heavily depend on your needs - or more specifically, the needs of your sub.

Ok so this is an interesting question.

I'd ask, for starters - you say you're not into medfet - so where does your desire for a speculum come from? Most people here would view a speculum as a medical implement. Good fun, lots of kinky ideas. You say you want to “open up oraffices for non-medical reasons” - and therein lies the rub - are you looking to create a sense of fear (in which case a Graves is probably the best bet)? What about a sense of fullness (in which case a 3-blade/matheau is probably most correct)? The most width (Collins is probably your best bet)?

Well if you want to know I don't think there is really anything else like a speculum. I think they are very kinky since they can be used to give better "access" inside or to stretch out or give a feeling of fullness as you say to whoever I'm using it in.

Buy quality. I am not a big fan of flimsy disposable scopes and speculums. In metal, there is also a range of quality. For example, in vaginal speculums; I have purchased metal ones that seem to be the quality of dinnerware at a cheap diner. I then purchased better products that are almost like works of art. The high quality stuff is easy to clean and with smooth edges is much less likely to pinch tender areas and adjusts much more easily. This type of product will last you a lifetime.

I will definitely be buying a decent metal one. Honestly I don't like the idea of anything plastic touching the genitals because plastic is unhygenic and a breeding ground for germs plus if you get a low quality one the plastic can leech into the body. I would be interested in knowing which specific type of speculum you prefer.

Metal Graves speculum is THE one you want. Final answer. I have done 25-30 pelvic exams per day for 30 years and I can tell you that a metal Graves Speculum is the gold standard. Plastic speculums are really sub optimal.

Grave's it is then.

I would recommend a Pederson. it does not have the ‘swell’ at the end like a Graves does. so it is actually much easier to get in. and whichever kind, get a small size

I forgot about the Pederson that's a good point there.