How big and deep do most the anal lovers insert ?

My wife has fisted me deep...too the elbow deep. I am on my Knees’, when I am using toys to explore depth, for some reason I am able to Take 20 inches . She can go from ½ to the elbow But when I am on my right side with my left leg pulled up to my chest she can go to the elbow there no resistant ,,, I have been doing anal for about 30 years… My Question is how big and deep do most the anal lover’s insert …I am thinking about buying a new toy

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This is what I am looking at ,,Her hand is about 3inch wide and it fits great… but this toy is 3.6 inches wide at the largest ring….Any comments your input is greatly appreciated …Thanks

I would be willing to speculate that you are in a very select group when it comes to taking 3 inches of girth through your anus. Yes, we do have a select group of members here who are into large anal insertions, but that is still a relatively small percentage of the general population. Going beyond 3 inches is quite huge. I can only approach two inches in width and that is by doing several enemas first and then building up with successively larger dildos to my max of about 1.75 inches in width. I would say I am above average compared to non-anal players but maybe only average for anal enthusiasts. My point being is if you are in the 3+ inch club, you are in the upper, upper percentile of anal insertions. The rest of us couldn't imagine going there. If you want to go larger, I would imagine you are experienced enough to use the same techniques that got you to where you are now. But there is always a risk of a muscle tear which would be very bad.

Now a few thoughts on depth. Depth is an easier feat to achieve. Many of us have had colonoscopies and the scope goes all the way to the end of our colons which is measured in feet. But for anal players going to end of the colon is still very deep and most don't get that far. I have a colon snake from Silicone Nozzles and I have gotten it to the bottom of my rib cage in my descending colon or probably about 20+ inches or so. This snake/colon tube is about 1.5 inches in width. It easily moves through my colon after I have done a series of enemas to clear it. Making it that far is my max. If the person fisting you is going elbow deep, I would imagine they are in your descending colon and likely they have straightened out the bends in your sigmoid colon they as push through it. I have seen porn videos that show huge anal toys inserted and the bulge of toy is more to the center of person's abdomen and doesn't follow the natural curved path of the colon. That is a little frightening to me. My colon snake navigates through the colon and its bends so it is not stretching it out of it's natural shape. So if you are using something like a colon snake then depths of 20 inches or more is quite achievable as long as your colon is clear of poop. If you are going deep with huge width then that could be problematic and you could damage your colon so be careful.

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Thanks for those kind words ..I have had a couple Colonoscopy over the last 5 years no Polyps so far and the Doctor has never said a word about my large colon ..I do a good wash out about 3 times a month I believe a clean colon is a good colon…My wife is a vegetarian or vegans what ever you want to call no meat,fish,eggs and only a few Fruits and vegetables …she 5 Polyps …Thanks again …Live long and enjoy Anal as long as you can…..

I have easily taken 18", I like it long and deep, not into width. I want to go to at least 30"

I love the feeling of being stretched and nice and deep having my full ass worked.

I do not typically insert anything (except my clean out nozzle) into my anus. The physical side of anal penetration is probably less than half the equation for me. i'm a total bottom gay guy and started inserting things into myself at age 7, i guess that was just my personal sexual discovery that all kids go through in their own way.

As i got older, 'topping' myself did nothing for me, indeed, it left me feeling something big was missing (beyond the physical lol). What i have learned about myself is that "big and deep" is dependent on the desires and needs of my Top. Part of my bottom/sub nature is being receptive. Which is not to say i do not have those needs/desires to be penetrated and opened on my own. but those wants/needs 'respond' and are dependent on a Top Who wants/needs to penetrate and open me to find fulfillment (so to speak).

For me, depth and opening are about the psychological desire/need to mold and be molded, open and be opened, penetrate and be penetrated, all intimate forms of connection and bonding. There's a sort of possessing and ownership that happens, and the sub/bottom in me that responds has a built in place to be possessed/owned/occupied? by Him.

So, for me, "big and deep" is an expression of connection between two opposites who have chemistry.

Max length: 16 inches / 40cm

Max width: 2.3 inches / 6cm

Be safe ..... and stretched

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Quite stunning and if any of you can explain how to get that empty, never mind negotiate all those curves, I’d be more than happy. I’d love to take the next step with snakes to get precisely that toy further inside. (I can probably get half of mine in)

Back to the original question, I can take about 19” if it’s a slightly flexible dildo, 16” or so at 13.5” circumference so long as it has a little give and about 25” with lots of taper and flex, like Asmodeus. I’ve managed a little more than that with snakes but that pretty much seems to be it.