The genital exam you never had?

What's the genital exam you never had, that you now fantasise most about having? What was the scenario, time, place, and who were the participants?

It could be one that should have or nearly happened, or that you now realise you needed or wanted. It could be recent, or back in your younger days. It could be a real doctor exam or ‘play doctor’. It could precede (or originate) your MedFet, or be part of your MedFet journey.

I'm sure many of us have one (or more) of these fantasies - please share!

More than the scenario or anything, I just want a general examination to focus on genitals more. I want the doctor to specifically mention them, say she's going to be examining the whole apparatus very closely, handle it for an extended period, possibly take measurements.. I want my kibbles and bits commented on, tested to make sure everything's in order, just treated with the same respect and significance the heart and lungs get.

Good point @Somebody - for many of us that would be a very appealing thing!

Sadly millions of guys might disagree from embarrassment, but male genital health is important.

To answer my own topic, the “one I never had” is a full genital exam in mid-teens, around 15. To reassure me everything was developing properly (as I hoped), or tell me honestly that things were not on track, and whether or not anything could have been done about it.

I just wanted to know where I was on the development scale, but I was too shy and scared then to ask for it, yet had already privately started fetishising the idea of it and enjoying it! The exam that broke the vicious circle needed to be involuntary, like a school medical/physical, or told to strip by a doctor.

Wisdom comes too late!

Good point @Somebody - for many of us that would be a very appealing thing!

Sadly millions of guys might disagree from embarrassment, but male genital health is important.

And female too! If anything, their genital exams need to be much more thorough… which they usually are, but not nearly as often.

I just wanted to know where I was on the development scale, but I was too shy and scared then to ask for it! (, …) The exam that broke the vicious circle needed to be involuntary, like a school medical/physical, or told to strip by a doctor.

A friend of mine has said simlarly, she wishes a doctor would just open her up, hold up a mirror, and explain each part to her. She's very inhibited but wishes she wasn't, and to me that's sad, because it's such a simple thing doctors should do, and would do if they could, and probably do outside of the parts of the world where looking at someone wrong puts you in prison and gets you on the fewer-rights-than-everyone-else list.

Well also they're too busy because everything's so mismanaged now. So I get it, no time for tutorials.

I so wanted the school nurse to examine my bits. I had a pain once which was indigestion, but it went all the way from my stomach into my groin. I went to the nurse and she had me lift my shirt so she could take a look. She then said if it contained down, she might have to examine my groin. Unfortunately, she decided it was indigestion and told me to go to the loo. Of course it went off and I didn't want to lie, so I was sent on my way.

Nearly, but not quite…

That once I've become an adult and every year following, having it standard practice for me to be only in my underwear, no gown, though I opt to wear a jockstrap instead of underwear. The standard procedure is that I lie back on the exam table, when asked by the doctor “Can you lie back for me” or something like that. To be examined starting at the neck, working his/her way down to liver & kidneys . Then maybe moving my pouch around a little to check for potential rashes caused by my jockstrap, and physically assess the pouch and assert it's a good size for my genitals and not too tight, etc. Then to tuck one arm under my body to signal my body to raise for lowering my jockstrap down to my knees in order to examine my genitals.

Then to start with checking for hernia, perhaps explaining that patients can't always tell when they have them, thus the importance of the doctor to check. Followed by a careful physical assessment of my balls, checking for lumps, and also asking “does this hurt”, etc as they palpate my balls and around my scrotum, to make sure there's no damage that I may not be aware of (and not assume that I would be aware if there were something wrong)

Lastly since i am an adult, verifying that blood can flow to my cock by working a medically related palpation technique in a way to determine that my blood can effectively flow in that direction. Maybe the minimal extent of determination is that I start to get a semi, and don't “need” to get all the way hard, unless a patient complains about difficulty geting erections. To which, a more intense study would be performed to determine if the blood has potential to flow properly.

And just like sometimes when you have a rectal exam and they see the opportunity to get a stool sample to examine it, if they see you get a full erection and seem horny enough, asking you if it is ok (or if you want to) to extract a semen sample to test for fertility as an option, no cost to you, that they can do. This way if the exam makes you horny, they can take care of you right then and there, with the understanding that “it's normal”, just like they tell you when they see you have an erection during the exam.

Maybe during this procedure, it is also part of the procedure for them to restrain my arms and legs to the table for their own safety, to make sure I don't kick either voluntarily or involuntarily, and that I don't become aggressive, especially if the doc is opposite gender. And perhaps a little psychology of not leaving there with guilt, because I was tied down and not in control of how I was examined.

And perhaps once i lie back, it is standard practice to place a blindfold on me, to mask how my eyes look during the exam to preserve the patient's dignity, and to preserve their dignity from being seen / watched as they physically examine me.

My genital exam I never had is about my childhood pediatrician exams. It would be great to be examined now as adult in the same premise of the time with the nurse and no dignity as then. During the exam I would be completely naked, doctor and nurse would do an accurate exam assessing puberal development. While examining my penis they would discuss among them about my glans adhesions, unretractability and redundance of prepuce. They would conclude only a surgical intervention may be resolutive for my affliction and despite manifest opposition it shall be done immediately. My fantasy finished with what I avoided in reality: me on the surgery table suffering stitches applied by nurse suturing my penis after a complete circumcision.

The genital exam I never had is… a genital exam.

Well, I had one in january, the first in my life, for dermatologist purpose. Akward (for me) at the moment, but very good memory now. Can't wait for my next check up next year. I will answer “yes” when asked “anything to check down there ?” (I have moles there, so it's true)

The next i'd like to have is a genital exam from my regular doctor (a female), like hernia checking, prostate checking, and testicular cancer checking. All of them would imply for me to fully undress in front of her (never done that for now). I'm soon to be 50, so maybe she will suggest this need to be checked shortly (she suggested I had a colonoscopy last year, and I had). Maybe it's the next step, fingers crossed !

I would want the doctor first to examine me flaccid; check my penis and testes while standing in front of them. Then they have me lie down in frog legs position and repeat the exam; press on my lower abdomen and feel my femoral pulses, hernia check, palpating each teste, then examine my foreskin and shaft. The doctor would do a prostate/rectal exam following, which I am sure will get me a little hard/leaking pre cum. After that, the doctor asks a number of sexual health questions and then has me masturbate for a couple of minutes to get me erect and see how I stimulate myself. The doctor would then re-examine me as before, now that I am very horny. The doctor would also do a doppler on my shaft to find the pulse and feel for it. The doctor would also sound me to make sure there isn't any obstructions. The doctor then would have me first masturbate until I came so that they could assess my vital signs and such. After collecting that sample, the doctor would provide prostate stimulation and would jerk me off until I came a second time, so that they could feel how I responded to stimulation and feel my ejaculation.

The one exam I've not experienced but would like to is a genital exam in stirrups. Probably never will (at a real doctor's office) but a guy can fantasize, right?

As a fantasy, the school doctor would have me naked and start off by measuring the circumference and length of my dick when flacid. They would ask about my sexual history and if I was using any protection and take a swab sample for STD testing. They would palpate my balls and roll down my foreskin before feeling my shaft to stimulate it to get me erect, before measuring again. They would then check the measurements against stats to let me know how I compared to other guys my age. I would then be asked to jerk off to get a semen sample for testing and to “check your plumbing is working as it should”.

This fantasy is based on what I was very afraid of could happen from a real life incident. I was 10 and masturbating in the bath. When I was done, I wasn't able to roll my foreskin back, it had gotten stuck. I started panicking trying to push and push the foreskin back, but that just made the penis grow. I was almost resigned to asking my parents to take me to the hospital (I ultimately managed to get the foreskin loose).

In my fantasy, I would go to the children's hospital ER where a female doctor examines me and diagnoses that I have phimosis. It turns out to be the same female doctor I had years before who had diagnosed the extent of my constipation. She examines me very gently as she can tell I am feeling embarrassed about all this.

I was supposed to have an examination after puberty / before adult age by the dr that circumcised me as a younger boy, but that exam never happened, nor did i have a school leaving medical, I have always wondered how those examinations would have been, and have been trying to recreate that with my metfet cravings

I was never examined nude by a doctor until I was 23. I had an issue with my foreskin that I booked a GP appointment for. The next day I got a call saying that my regular doctor was unavailable that day and was asked kf I would be okay with a female doctor. I agreed. I already had a medical fetish at the time so I felt quite excited to be examined by a woman. However, on the day of the appointment I had a flu so had to cancel. For my next appointment my regular male doctor was there, I didn't like being examine by him. He did however refer to a female urologist, the exam with her was very exciting. I have fantasised about the exam I missed though, wonder which doctor it would have been

I started showing symptoms of mild phimosis at pre puberty. I’d like a young female doctor examine the extent. She tells my parents it could go either way: circumcision or stretching the foreskin.

My parents and I opt for stretching first.

I think I'd like to have both a testicular and penile ultrasound exam. I once already had a testicular ultrasound but I'd love a combined appointment where both them and my penis would get scanned with ultrasound.

I hadn't even thought about this until someone asked me about it in private chat. The genital exam I never had was exactly that. I somehow never had any in my formative years. My original pediatrician was an old guy, and he passed away around the time that I should have gotten a first genital exam. I think I missed four years of annual physical until we found another, much younger pediatrician. And to be honest, I don't ever remember him looking down there. When I finally moved up to my first non-pediatrician doctor, he did a very quick, gloved check of things, probably just looking for abnormalities or signs of infection. It was really over with quickly. As a result, I don't have any rich memories to fall back on. Oh well.

I was never examined nude by a doctor until I was 23. I had an issue with my foreskin that I booked a GP appointment for. The next day I got a call saying that my regular doctor was unavailable that day and was asked kf I would be okay with a female doctor. I agreed. I already had a medical fetish at the time so I felt quite excited to be examined by a woman. However, on the day of the appointment I had a flu so had to cancel. For my next appointment my regular male doctor was there, I didn't like being examine by him. He did however refer to a female urologist, the exam with her was very exciting. I have fantasised about the exam I missed though, wonder which doctor it would have been

This is very similar to my experience. Also in the Netherlands. I had an urological issue and was sent by my female GP, who examined my penis, to the hospital where it was examined again by a urologist and a young female medical student, and then I had an ultrasound with a female radiologist. Especially at that last exam I had a hard time not getting an erection.