Anal sex during periods

Sometimes people mention anal sex specifically during periods. The idea seems a bit weird to me - if you are worried about the mess of periodic blood, you should be worried even more about the mess of fecal matter.

Have some women or their partner done this here? What were the reasons?

Sometimes people mention anal sex specifically during periods. The idea seems a bit weird to me - if you are worried about the mess of periodic blood, you should be worried even more about the mess of fecal matter.

Never had messy anal sex (well very, very seldom- and even then not gross)……period or not.

Why should someone be more worried about the mess of fecal matter versus menstrual blood?? Some may feel it's less likely to get “dirty” having anal- even if they didn't clean the poop-chute first. Some may just be more sensitive to gettin dirty with blood than poop. Usually (at least in our case) there was less risk of getting dirty by having anal; although we really didn't mind either. We even went from vaginal to anal during her period.

Knowing the “primary” purpose of that little hole I know there is a possibility of messy anal, so what! That's what soap and water are for!! It's not happen often to me with ladies I've had anal with but when it has no big deal, it's easy to get cleaned up.

@ToyPlayer, @Gwhap: My point is that if you are worried about menstrual blood, then you should be even more worried and waste. And if you use an enema to clean the waste before anal sex, you may also use a douche for sex during periods. And if you can clean after anal sex, then you can clean after menstrual sex.

So I still don't get this idea, expressed by some people, of having anal sex specifically during periods because the vagina is supposed to be unusable.

I had an ex that loved sex during her period! It was different, but we always took a shower during or right afterwards!

@gwhap Poop contains bacteria, which, if entering the urethra, can give a urinary tract infection.

@gwhap Poop contains bacteria, which, if entering the urethra, can give a urinary tract infection.

True. I never mentioned ATM or anal to PIV, whether having a period or not. Men can get UTIs as well, but I never got a one having unprotected anal sex.

I had a girlfriend that preferred anal during the height of her cycle. She was too uncomfortable with vaginal during that time, oral was fine with her but she still wanted to get her release during the period. As the flow slowed we would engage in vaginal and then jump into the shower together ( she loved having her hair washed) to clean up but wanted anal after an enema cleanout which led to almost no mess most of the time and she was able to climax as well which helped with the cramps.

So I still don't get this idea, expressed by some people, of having anal sex specifically during periods because the vagina is supposed to be unusable.

@Pecan_nutjob we had sex during my period because the chance of my getting pregnant was pretty low. We both loved the feel of skin on skin, yes there was blood for lubricant in.

Anal sex was for the middle of the cycle.

@MissStress My wife used to like extra lubrication for sex during periods if she used tampons, because the tampon, removed just before sex, dries the vagina.

There is very little risk of a mess with anal sex. If you understand how the body works. Unless you currently have the urge to go there is usually little to no fecal matter in the rectum where the penis would be thrusting into. Fecal matter usually stays in the lower colon until it is ready to be voided. Many people have anal sex without the aid of an enema without mess for this reason.

I think perhaps menstruation can be a convenient excuse to enjoy a little back door play.

Well, some women can be sensitive inside during periods. And not all men are able to understand and keep the slow pace. Pounding hard and fast, which is cool any other day, might just hurt.

Besides colon can be cleaned and you don't have to expect mess for some time, but the blood would continue driping throughout the whole process. For those, who are too embarrassed/uncomfortable to get dirty, that might be the reason.

And yes, cover HER desire to have anal sex with HIS desire to have any sex is a good reason to calm down shy girl's mind 😃

In our case, my period is just a calendar marker signal for my husband to have anal sex with me. He is a blood hound so it is the perfect time for him to initiate something.

Dita

My hubby seems to have no issues during my times but he's worried in hurting me because there is blood. We do bring out the plastic sheets and plenty of change mats.

I am often very horny during that time a nice sex actually helps it out.

Whilst we have done anal during wifes period by 3rd day its not that heavy and often will still have vaginal sex.

Day 1 she is rarely in the mood.

Both my husband and I agreed early on that sex of any time during the monthly visit by “Aunt Agony” is a time to recharge your batteries so to speak for when she leave town!! lol. Denise

I personally have never had any issue with a woman's period. I have done PIV and oral sex both on women during their periods. Most of the time, I find that the women are grossed out by period sex, or are dealing with so much pain that they don't want sex of any kind. My current wife (when she still had periods) used to say that I must be part vampire. She told me that I was the only man that she had ever met that had no hangups about period sex. We still have great sex, even though she can't have periods anymore.

My wife always enjoyed having Anal Sex during her period. She loved having an Anal Orgasm. The feeling was to her liking.

My Ex was never into anal sex, she was such a fu**king prude. Hence the reason she's my Ex. 😁 Although we did have sex when she was on her period, that's why we had red bath towels.

Anal sex was for the middle of the cycle.

This is not the first time I have heard of this as a reason…in fact I assumed it was more common a reason than periods actually, if only to avoid pregnancy.

Ah ! This was one of our fantasy sex which we made real.

My wife on her periods feels more horney and we have heard about doing anal during periods, so we decided to do it. (Prior to that we never had anal ), we arranged enough lubes to put and to avoid faecal mess or mud coming out she pottied cleared her bowels and cleaned her ass hole well.

We then had an experience of lifetime.

When I was a teen there were jokes about going up the muddy path when the river runs red… I remembered these this evening, searched the forum in case this had been asked, ended up on this thread, and noticed few answers from women even though it"s more a question for them than for men!

@Jacana I think there's at least 1 other thread on this as I have a memory of responding to it. For me, no. If I wanted sex and I was on my period we had sex. You put a towel down and wash up after. Some of my better sexual encounters with my first husband were when I was having my period, I used to get very horny at that time of the month about 2 days into it.

@Nurse_Phillips Been there done that as well. Messy indeed, but as you say that's manageable. Certainly, going up the arse is way more complicated…

I suspect most people who repeat the joke about the red river and the muddy path have never done it anally!

I've RARELY encountered any fecal matter mess when having anal sex with my wife.

We've often had anal while she's on her period, for two reasons: The first, she definitely doesn't like the mess, and since we've only a couple times had even a LITTLE mess with anal, that makes sense. Second, she seems to enjoy it more when on her period. She says her vagina just doesn't feel as good then.

We have never had a messy anal sex experience. We have had anal because I was on my period and it is great but I like it when he takes me from behind. We never let my period hinder our regular sex.

Depends on partner. I’ve had some who do not want any kind of contact during cycle. Others welcome period sex, and others anal play is the only thing they’re comfortable with.

A former girlfriend used tampons and she didn't like vaginal intercourse during her period. When I got very horny on her, she handed me a tube lubricant and said "do it where I don't have a period".

I’m not a fan of any sort of sexual activity while I’m on mine. I’ve heard tons of anecdotes about how it can help with the pain and all kinds of stuff but the idea just grosses me out, always has.