Who has their diaper care supplied by spouses?

Reading through the posts here I would like to know how many of us have allowed our diaper care to be provided by our spouses or family members? Being a kink myself there has always been someone around to help me. This may sound sexist but it seems diapers in the family always seem to fall to the wife or mother in a lot of cases.

For the first 17 years of my life my mother changed my diapers until I was able to stop wetting my bed. She insisted on doing the diapering, convinced that I would hurt myself trying to pin my diapers on and also wanted to be sure my pee-pee and bottom were clean and powdered. For the next roughly 40 years I rarely had anyone to diaper me and had to do it myself and kept my love for diapers secret from almost everyone, but for the occasional girl I met and told about my diaper fetish. Then I met a girl who is now my wife and she has been diapering me full time for the past 10 years. She told her mother about how I wet my diapers and so now my mother-in-law also changes me when she stays with us. I much prefer a family member to provide my diaper care than having to do it myself.

I do sometimes and more lately because of “the sniffles” where many of us have to work from home. Instead of wearing a discrete pullup that has to be regularly changed by myself, I now use a thick style nightntime nappy complete with plastic pants that I have on for the entire working day.

Getting your spouse to nappy you is rather intimate and they can do a much better job than you nappying yourself so there would be no leakages at all.

Sometimes there are bonuses which are often for the weekends as time is available, is that he sometimes shaves my “south pole” region.

Blessed are the caregivers of the World. Mothers wives families that love us even through the difficulties we must endure.

Wife suggested diapers for my bedwetting and now insists that she put them on for me before bed. Nothing makes me feel more vulnerable/exposed than laying on the bed being diapered.

Wife suggested diapers for my bedwetting and now insists that she put them on for me before bed. Nothing makes me feel more vulnerable/exposed than laying on the bed being diapered.

Laying naked in front of my wife, or when a teen, my mother, not only makes me feel so vulnerable, but even more so, aroused. My pee-pee gets hard, love when she pulls out my baby wipes and cleans all my private parts, then powders me and pins my diapers on. More than once I've had to be cleaned and wiped again before she had a chance to pin my diapers on.

My wife is in charge of diapers and diaper supplies. This is her responsibility. She takes good care and pride in purchasing and making sure that it s well stocked.

My Mom was very much like that when diapers were involved. Many new Moms would come to her shop and buy cloth diapers and supplies. Mom would just have to see and check the new baby's diaper. I always thought she was pushy and rude but people loved her attention. You just have to love a strong-minded Woman of Her Castle, God helps if you break the rules.

Early on in my disability my mom changed me ( and it was a source of many hours of good hearted ribbing as my mother adopted me many years after I was out of diapers , so I would joke with her “ I wasn’t going to let her be a mom and not change diapers even if it took me more than 40 years to do) my mom has since died and I have a professional aide who changes me for a living .

My supplies is my problem she will ask do you need any.

It was first my wife who insisted and suggested that I put on plastic diapers and panties for my bedwetting and that she me put them on before going to bed. In addition to making me feel more like a baby , than laying on the bed and having my diapers powdered and pinned down every night. At first feeling so ashamed and vulnerable to have my diaper checked wet every morning like a baby. Since I've been in diapers full time for six years, now when she pulls out the baby wipes and gently cleans my privates, then powders and pins my diaper and puts on my plastic panties, I've become the baby most excited and happy in the world.She begs good care and to buy my diapers and my diaper supplies.👶

It was first my wife who insisted and suggested that I put on plastic diapers and panties for my bedwetting and that she me put them on before going to bed. In addition to making me feel more like a baby , than laying on the bed and having my diapers powdered and pinned down every night. At first feeling so ashamed and vulnerable to have my diaper checked wet every morning like a baby. Since I've been in diapers full time for six years, now when she pulls out the baby wipes and gently cleans my privates, then powders and pins my diaper and puts on my plastic panties, I've become the baby most excited and happy in the world.She begs good care and to buy my diapers and my diaper supplies.👶

That's so sweet. I have the same feeling when my wife changes me, wipes and powders my pee-pee and butt hole, pins my diapers on and pulls on my rubber pants. Feel just like I did when my mom did the same thing for me when I was a teenager.

If I may I would like to add another little question to this thread. With our same-gender couples who assumes the diaper care needs? Maybe it is shared equally, but that's my dumb-ass guess.