Hidden but absorbant

What is the best diaper to wear under pants in public without people knowing and still absorbant?

Unless the diaper you are wearing is so thick that it inhibits natural movement or you do things to help people notice, I can assure you that nobody will notice you are wearing a diaper (nor will they likely care) I wear 24/7 and speak from experience.

having said that I would avoid some of the most absorbent diapers such as Abena's Abri-Form X-Plus and Tranquility's ATN only because they have allot of absorbent material in the front and if you wear tight(er) clothing this could likely become more noticeable especially when you sit down.

some of Abens other diapers such as the Super and Plus are good choices. you might also try Molicare's or Tena's. this is however a bit subjective and your body size and type as well as the clothing you wear will all play an part. the best suggestion I can give is to try sample packs, these usually cost between 2 and 8 dollars and offer 2 diapers.

some sites that offer samples:

http://www.xpmedical.com/index.html

http://www.cheapchux.com/index.html

http://www.continenceconnection.com/index.html

http://www.bambinodiapers.com/shop/

It depends on what you are wearing. You have to put on a loose pants or skirts.

Moreover, you have to practise on walking as normal.

I use tranquilty slim and they work well for me

I use Abena M3s. A diaper wearer's wardrobe needs to adapt, though. M3s provide the performance I need, but because of the resulting thickness, they're slightly too large to fit comfortably (although they do fit without difficulty) under pants in my undiapered size. My overnight and extended wear diapers are thicker yet.

I would recommend you choose your diapers and then start sizing new clothes purchases around them.

Currently I'm using attends diapers with two bosster pads for this reason. This works well for me.

As we know, when diapers become more than a bit wet, they become heavy and weighted down, making it more than a little obvious. The solution I use is to acquire women's shapewear panty briefs. You can find them here: https://www.herroom.com/shapewear.aspx

Here is my favorite in beige: https://www.herroom.com/rago-513-high-waist-panty-brief-panty.shtml

I recently purchased a package of Always Discreet panties. I've used their pads in the past and they work very well and hold an amazing amount of fluid. These aren't very thick and are nice and tight fitting. I've gotten them pretty wet and they are holding up pretty well and have swelled up some but would never be noticeable under clothes. (shvedsissy on skype)

I wear the abena M4, or the tranquility atn with a booster pad. Both of these products work very well.

I use cloth contour diapers and plastic panties. Very effective but need changing frequently. They are only good for one wetting.

Hey Deanne,

For future reference when purchasing cloth diapers get the good ones! Just kidding

Order from Babykins Jenny is the only cloth diaper place I know of that 10 years ago for a 5 dollar up charge added double soaker , doesn't realy make a diaper that much thicker but huge increase in effective absorbentcy , she doesn't just do it down the center crotch she does it to the entire garment !she makes some nice diapers , mine were all from Jeanie & Howard at Angelfluff who are also awesome before during and after any possible purchase , but that one "trick" got me som realy nice double soaker boosted contours .

I cheated i ordered high rise contour diapers, night diapers,boosters, plastic pants ,200 onesies, and 30 pair of custom diaper pants at the same time it was christmas in july when stuff started arriving, unfortunately I was still concerned with strangers knowing I was IC then , today they can keep there diaper shame to themselves , as well as peanut gallery commentary, I don't advertise but I don't cower in shame because life is too short when you consume yourself with others comfort disregarding your own .

ABU's preschool diapers are cloth backed, so they're more quiet and discreet. Wouldn't wear them with super tight pants, but they're easily concealed.

I think you should probably just pick pants that fit comfortably over your diapers.

The best diaper to wear or combination of diapers, is the ones which fit your needs for absorbancy and time you'll be in the same diaper.

A thin diaper which leaks is still more obvious than a thick diaper which holds up to the task, yet being more bulky.

Dress appropiate and no one will notice, at least not those who doesn't know what to look for. Those who knows that will be able to tell no matter your choice.

If you want hidden diapers that work, buy bigger pants.

I just tried the new North Shore Mega Max disposable diapers. The maker of these diapers claim that can be used for 12 hours before needing changed if not soilded along without the sagging. I find that they are what they claim. They are thick but not real noticeable at first. They do swell up the wetter they get but without the sagging.