@Smoothnylon143
Hello David,
Sounds like the new boyfriend may have Peyronte's Disease. A Curve in the penis that makes scar tissue. …
Caveat: I am not a doctor, nor do I play one in a Netflix series. For medical advice, consult a licensed doctor. My comments are based on personal experience, consultations with real doctors, and reading relatively trustworthy internet sources that provide information on this issue.
Gwen is right - vaginal intercourse should be put on hold until both partners get checked. However, specialists (urologist and gynecologist) may not need to be consulted if primary care physician(s) can offer advice/treatment. But, if patients want to see a specialist, that is up to them. I suggest PCP first because specialists and their treatments, are generally more expensive. But, Gwen is right - hold off on vaginal/penile intercourse until cleared by a doc. Spotting could be due to other causes, (STI's such as Chlamydia , a cancer, etc.) so be on the lookout even after being cleared for sex.
I have Peyronie’s disease. We first noticed it about a year ago, and it has stabilized. As with the majority of men who are diagnosed with it, the symptom (curving penis) came on with no prior injuries or identifiable cause. The curvature of the penis is caused by a build up of plaque tissue in one area - the curvature does not cause the plaque. Neither of us experience pain or other adverse indications during or after intercourse.
Scar tissue (plaque) is a method the body uses to protect against infections, so it is doubtful it is “unclean”.
Peyronie's disease can go away on its own, be treated, or, depending on severity, be left alone and will be a life-long companion.
All that said, Gwen is still right - see a doctor; both parties.