Guys, what's so special about a shemale?

Ever since a colleague told me about a vacation adventure in Thailand, I've been curious about the topic. A young woman offered to accompany him. When intimacy broke out in the hotel late at night, it turned out that he was dealing with a shemale. When I asked what happened next, he wouldn't give me an answer. But he said that he had never met such a pretty "woman".

I would be interested in who has already had experience with shemales:

• was the shemale only passive or also the active part?
• who gave or received a blowjob?
• who penetrated whom anal?
• where was the difference to a real woman or man?
• would you like to repeat the adventure?

@curtina

Shemales are fairly common in countries like Thailand, as they are in other Sth Eastern & Central Asian nations. As these countries have a predominately low GDP & economies that are still growing, it often gets down to the necessity of money

Tourists are just a means of supporting themselves as are the many young girls who frequent the bars by night.

They (shemales) are known to inhabit the “girlie” bars & are as you say. . . some are quite striking. . .so much so that one can be easily “fooled” into believing they are female.

Clip from the movie “Hangover 2”. Guys visit a ladyboy bar in Bangkok and one ends up having sex with a shemale. He's was drunk/drugged and didn't remember it - she describes it to him and explains that's why they call it Bangkok and not Bangcunt. The shemale actress is Yasmin Lee - a Porn Star. (skip to around 37 secs)

https://de.xhamster.com/videos/transvestite-prostitute-scene-in-a-movie-7714530

This bar is actually a stopping place for Servicemen traveling through Bangkok.

I've had friends who went to Rio in Brazil for Carnival and had a great time. They had to be told later about their adventures. “Drunk and Stupid is no way to go through life” Dean Wirmer “Animal House”. Life's to short to live without love.

To Me I dont care about a shemale ! WHO CARES!!

“Drunk and Stupid is no way to go through life” Dean Wirmer “Animal House”. Life's to short to live without love.

Similarly I was told in the Navy - it's OK to be “fat, dumb and stupid'!

@That_Australian

I screwed up the quote in my previous post: It's “fat, dumb and happy”. - fat dumb and stupid is redundant!

@gwhap

@That_Australian

I screwed up the quote in my previous post: It's “fat, dumb and happy”. - fat dumb and stupid is redundant!

lol . .😁

Clip from the movie “Hangover 2”. Guys visit a ladyboy bar in Bangkok and one ends up having sex with a shemale. He's was drunk/drugged and didn't remember it - she describes it to him and explains that's why they call it Bangkok and not Bangcunt. The shemale actress is Yasmin Lee - a Porn Star. (skip to around 37 secs)

https://de.xhamster.com/videos/transvestite-prostitute-scene-in-a-movie-7714530

This bar is actually a stopping place for Servicemen traveling through Bangkok.

That was hilarious. 😁

Hate to be stupid but what is a shemale?

Hate to be stupid but what is a shemale?

@WannaJ You're not stupid. 😀. A shemale is a transexual that still has male equipment. A male that dresses and may actually live as a female, but still has male organs attached. Also referred to as a ladyboy. To many I think shemale or ladyboy are derogatory terms.

https://www.pornpics.com/tags/cute-shemale/

Quite a surprising number of the (legal) sex-workers who work from store-fronts in my city are shemales. These brothels are all legal and concentrated in a relatively small area of only 3 streets. By convention or by-laws, they have a sign in the window advertising/notifying that they are males in female attire because otherwise one would not really know except for a few small often overlooked signs (like having an Adam's apple, but this is not what customers in the area look out for really … ha ha).

Previously, some 20 years ago when these one-person store-front brothels operated in about a dozen or more streets, the she-males didn't advertise their gender and this often ended up in misunderstandings with aggrieved customers. Not every male client who inadvertently chose a very striking looking female looking male, was happy about it. One of my friends was what is a ‘juge d’instruction' (investigating judge akin to a sort of public prosecutor) and she sometimes accompanied police to investigate the more serious complaints about mistaken sexual identity. Few in law enforcement had much sympathy for those who felt they were duped into choosing a sex-worker of the same gender. It's what came from being too drunk or too full of lust.

Now, as for what's so special is that outside of a professional role as a sex-worker, a shemale's partner has what is often considered the best of two worlds: a body that resembles that of a female except for the genitals, but with (presumably) the same kind of mentality and psychological make-up regarding sexuality and emotional attachments as males themselves. It is supposed to make for better compatibility, if one can get past the genital issue.

By convention or by-laws, they have a sign in the window advertising/notifying that they are males in female attire because otherwise one would not really know except for a few small often overlooked signs (like having an Adam's apple, but this is not what customers in the area look out for really … ha ha).

Not every male client who inadvertently chose a very striking looking female looking male, was happy about it.

Some transexuals are absolutely stunning - one would never know the difference visually.

Now, as for what's so special is that outside of a professional role as a sex-worker, a shemale's partner has what is often considered the best of two worlds: a body that resembles that of a female except for the genitals, but with (presumably) the same kind of mentality and psychological make-up regarding sexuality and emotional attachments as males themselves. It is supposed to make for better compatibility, if one can get past the genital issue.

Not sure I would agree with that. There is something special about a male-female compatibility and relationships for a straight couple. Also, I've heard (cannot substantiate this), that gay men look down on transexuals.

Also, I've heard (cannot substantiate this), that gay men look down on transexuals.

I suppose you can find groups of people who look down on just about anyone else.

But that said, I too have read often enough that some/many masculine gays do not care much for feminized gays. They prefer full masculinity in their partners (like in Tom of Finland illustrations) and feel that men shouldn't imitate females.

But then again there are enough men who do like feminized males because they are attracted to a female body and feel no attraction to a fully masculine body.

But that said, I too have read often enough that some/many masculine gays do not care much for feminized gays. They prefer full masculinity in their partners (like in Tom of Finland illustrations) and feel that men shouldn't imitate females.

But then again there are enough men who do like feminized males because they are attracted to a female body and feel no attraction to a fully masculine body.

There is a transitioned member here who went to gay bars and met up with a few guys before her SRG. She said it wasn't a great experience because she was considered to be too feminine. Now she has transitioned, and is happy and comfortable with herself.

At the rsk of a continued derailment, I personally have experience with gay men and how they react to me in lingerie. I found that bi men have no issue, on the other hand (pun intended) gay men tend to turn their noses to me in drag. Not all but enough to know that quite a few want nothing to do with me.

Back on topic: Guys, what's so special about a shemale? For me, shemales are no different then crossdressers/transvestites/sissies as long as they wear lingerie. Mmmmm crossdressers/transvestites/sissies - oh my!