Anal sex.

Anal sex seems to hurt these days as I get older in my 70s, I never had any problems in my earlier years into late 60s Why is that should I be stretching my rectum out with toys,dildos? Any ideas?

As we age our skin becomes less stretchy and we suffer from more aliments (hemorrhoids etc). We also become more aware of new sensations. Use Lots of lube and relax relax, relax.

Lube and relax! you have to work it in easy!

I've been using lots of Lube and relaxing as well. I am also slowly but surly using toys that expand my anus. It's working, butt it's a slow process.

Thanks for giving me an idea, @codjer. I've been inactive seven years. Maybe now's the time to start investing in anal toys. Hope the solo initiation's not too painful.

A couple of nice, warm enemas to clean and relax the playground, then lots of lube, start small and work up in size as it's comfortable to do so. It's not supposed to hurt, so enjoy and just be grateful that practicing is so much fun. ;-)

It could be hemorrhoids. I've only been penatrated twice, the last time, was last week by a zity panty friend. I believe the pain I got was an irritated hemorrhoid. I'm familiar with irritated hemorrhoid pain and that's what happened to me. I believe that I would/should not have had the pain otherwise since I can take a butt plug bigger in diameter the he was (FYI he has a regular size cock and I like it very much {in case he is reading this LOL})