Help with a new deep anal toy

I just got a long ( 50cm )taper deep anal plug.

At the moment I can take all butt maybe 5 inches, what can you tell me as to how I can take it all without blood ?.

Add 5” to your rectum! Seriously your going to hurt yourself!

Lots of lube and gently move it around until the tip enters the sigmoid colon which (in most folks) takes off to the left at the top of the rectum. I have longer toys than that and get them in way past just my rectum. Take it easy, pain is bad, and accept that there will be some days it just won't happen. But as you ‘practice’ you'll have more days when it will happen. Enjoy.

LDB, I have no trouble getting past the sigmoid, nor the bend at the top, after that it gets tight, that's what I need advice on.

Do I simply go slow, take my time ?.

Really Bob,do you need that much? What about a fat 10” ?

Well there are several things you can try.

First give yourself at least 2 enemas or even three until you get a no solids clear return. When you get a clear return, then you know your colon is clear or mostly clear. You don't want your toy to have to push through poop.

After achieving a clear return, here is a tip that I have recently tried that does seem to help getting a toy moving through the twisty chicane of the sigmoid. Give yourself a coconut oil enema- just coconut oil about a cup full and retain it. You might be surprised that it won't be that hard to retain if it's just a cup full. Also, while taking the coconut oil enema, elevate your hips so the oil drains into your sigmoid and descending colon. Now you have lubricated your colon.

You are ready to insert your toy- I would also recommend using coconut oil as lube. Slowly work the toy in until you feel it hits a stopping point. Work the toy slowly back and forth and see if you can make progress and get past your stopping point. DO NOT KEEP PUSHING IF YOU FEEL PAIN- STOP AND PULL BACK. Be patient and realize you may not get past your sigmoid, but keep doing slow advances and pull backs. If you can advance without pain, continue to go slow. This process can take 30 minutes or more.

When I do deep anal penetration with one of my colon tubes actually more of colon snake, I can see the bulge under my skin just off to the side of my left hip bone- that's when I know I am in the sigmoid and I can actually direct the tube with my fingers as it pushes through. Once through it moves easily up the descending colon.

I should also say the toy/colon snake etc. is also key. The softness/flexibility plays a big part in its ability to navigate through your sigmoid. Too stiff and it hits the wall and won't advance. Too soft and it can bend and double back and go back into the rectum. Either situation is very difficult to tell what's happening.

Deep anal penetration isn't easy so you have to be able to accept defeat on some occasions and live to try again another day.

LDB, I have no trouble getting past the sigmoid, nor the bend at the top, after that it gets tight, that's what I need advice on.

Do I simply go slow, take my time ?.

I did the length conversion wrong in my head and was thinking a 10" toy, not 20". Once I get past the sigmoid and into the descending colon, I never have any trouble until I get to the turn to the transverse colon (the splenic flexure). The difficulty there, for me, depends a lot on the diameter and stiffness of the toy. I have the best results with a medium diameter toy that's fairly flexible. I've made the turn there with 1" and 1.25" colon snakes, and have gotten all the way to the cecum with both 1" snake and a 58 Fr colon tube. This, of course, is after enemas until clear.

It may be that your toy is not flexible enough for you to do it. It may be you haven't hit it at just the right angle (it happens). You're on the right track, I imagine. Go slow, take your time, and be glad that practicing is so much fun.