If You Have Never Engaged in Any Masturbation Activity With Another Man, Why Not?

I don't look at this as a gay or straight conversation. I recently saw a thread which asked if any men had engaged in some form of masturbation with another man. Although many of those who replied had done so, there were some that I interpreted as “No Way”. With the openness of this site and as much discussion about anal and penis satisfaction, I am curious why some men are not open to sexual activities that might include either watching or participating in masturbation with another man.

Speaking for myself I am hetero and even thinking about that gives me the willies. Just not in my wheelhouse I guess. More power to you if you like it. This site encompasses all different sexual activities and to each their own. Not everyone will like what you like

Yes have engaged many more times than I can count.

I’m with @Moppys_jalopy - it just doesn’t appeal to me at all. I’ve had gay massage clients, and despite occasional invitations for me to undress, or fondle their genitalia, or watch them jerk off, I just don’t find any of that interesting— Or sexually stimulating. And I have no quarrel with males who do. Now watching or masturbating with a woman, totally different story.

As a bisexual man, I view masturbation with other guys as being about mutual enjoyment. Over the years I have masturbated in the company of straight guys who simply view it as about personal pleasure and the presence of other guys was may have made it more exciting because it made it public, but not because they were at all attracted to other guys. Personally I can never separate the two. I sometimes wonder if some guy's aversion to masturbation with other guys reflects their anxiety about a sense of sexual attraction to other men. I personally believe that no one is absolutely straight. (There are certainly those who are 99% straight.) I don't judge but I really thin that everyone should embrace all sides of their sexuality/--even the 1%.

Have never done it and I have no desire or interest to masturbate with - or in front of - another male. Just not interested in men (sexually). I've had fantasies about couples having same room sex with opposite sex partners - but no male to male contact. Never done it though.

For me the closest I have ever done anything like that has been on here so far !!

For me, in order to become aroused and erect, I would need to close my eyes and fantasize about women, look at pictures or videos of women, or be with and look at or touch a woman. Another male just wouldn't do anything for me.

It's interesting that intellectually most sex acts, except vaginal intercourse, could be performed with another male, but it is just of no interest. Part of the enjoyment of sex is that a woman is interested in engaging in sexual activity with me..

I had a small amount of exposure to group activities in my early / mid teens. I guess I shouldn't call it "group" since there was only one other person at a time. Myself and a couple of my closest friends had all discovered the joys of masturbation and shared that with each other. As teen boys, of course it was difficult to go long without masturbating, so it wasn't uncommon to do so when staying at each other's houses. Over time, we became aware that the others were doing so and didn't necessarily hide the fact. Through this, we'd occasionally hear see each other, being in the same room, though it wasn't necessarily an event to watch each other.

I consider myself straight, having never had a full same sex encounter nor finding men attractive. Though as I age, I do accept some level of curiosity. Looking back, I enjoyed those times and kind of wish I had gone further with it. I didn't out of fear of reactions or word getting out, but think I would have been safe with it and my friends (at least one for sure) would have went for it.

In high school, a group of about six of my classmates and climbed under the bleachers in our gym and maturated in the darkness so we could add that to our lists of weird places we had masturbated.

We didn’t consider it a gay activity at all. Just a crazy thing a bunch of high school boys did to laugh about.

Played strip poker at scout camp a few times. Loser had to masturbate until ejaculation while others watched by flashlight. Most of those watching would start and we would all ejacuate about the same time. Glad and adult never came by.

In high school we were all still hanging out together. We would masturbate together often. We would go on camping trips, skinny dip, & JO. I don't remember anyone getting sucked, but they would often lend a helping hand 👹.

Once had a sleepover at my house. I think there were 4 of us. We all stripped & played with each other. I grabbed my dad's Polaroid and snapped some pics. Next day, I forgot about the pics & my dad (?) found them. He never said anything, but the pics & camera disappeared.

Never have but wanted to very much. I just never got enough nerve to try it or ask friends. I firgured if I asked they would say I was a freak or gay. The thing is that is what my friends probably thought as well so we never tried it but it always seemed hot to try it... But never did unfortunately