Are the labia being short changed?

When I was a kid and first learned about the clit's small size, I felt so sorry for the girls! I wondered how they could possibly get much pleasure from that little thing, as I compared it to the head of my dick. But as the years passed and I got to watch the women have amazing orgasms, and I took note of what I was physically doing to elicit those reactions, it seemed like I could touch the women almost anywhere and make their eyes light up. (Did I mention I tend to exaggerate?) It was amazing that they could react so strongly to so little stimulus - when all they had was that little clit!? How?

But then I quit ignoring the obvious and started paying attention to those sweet pussy lips and the amazing way they tremble (resonate) at most any touch, and carry those vibes directly to the clit. They "dance" with the clit so well I gave one woman a climax and my fingers never got within 3 inches of the lips or clit.

Of course my mild insanity may have misled me, so I thought I would ask the experts on female anatomy: Good women, Are the labia being short changed? Are they as amazing as I believe they are?

Not sure whether my labia are being short changed, but I was absolutely fascinated to learn my clitoris is much more than the tiny (visible) bit & is all packed away inside

Hmm I'm really not sure. I always start by stroking the majora when I finger a woman. If she has an outie then I avoid the sticking out pink bit, if it's an innie then I also gently run my finger up the slit. The girls with outies wiggle their hips side to side to try and force contact with their clit and the innie girls push up when I stroke their slit to try and get my finger through the slit onto the clitoris.

I like playing with the minora too, wiggling them side to side, gentle tugging, sticking my finger tip between them to separate them, and again after a little while they push up as they want fingers inside.

It definitely feels nice having mine played with but it is third to clitoris stroking and fingers inside my vagina.

As I understand things the sensory nerve endings which relay pleasure feelings are most concentrated in the area of a woman's clit, but many are present in the labia and G spot ( which is probably stimulating the base of the clit). I presume that men have similar number of nerve endings which are distributed more widely. Certainly personally I notice that my glans and frenulum are very sensitive, but I love pressure at the base of my penis and deinitely having my balls tugged. The scrotum being the male equivelant of the outer labia. For both sexes of course the mind and all the other sensory inputs vision, hearing and smell are involved with overall arousal

The foreskin is equivalent to the inner labia. Thin sensitive skin on the inside and normal skin on the outside. Both foreskin and inner labia have similar sensory nerve endings and bring on similar sexual sensations.

@bobsin Isn't the clitoris equivalent to the glans and the clitoris hood equivalent to the foreskin?

I'm unsure what tissue inner labia grow from and the mapping to male genitals. Any embryologist here?

Probably yes. During foreplay, I prefer that my partner male or female play with my vulva and inner lips before inserting fingers in my vagina or rectum. I hate it when a partner goes directly for my clitoris! I need a good warmup first! With a man, I prefer to have my clitoris fingered or sucked on just before penetration. Too much clitoris stimulation leads to me having an orgasm leaving my partner behind.

Dita

The clit you can see is legit just the tip. The rest extends internally down both sides of the vulva so, yes. If you’re ignoring the rest to focus on the ‘clit’ you’re short-changing her. Play with all of it.