Ladies - Age at first orgasm

Ladies, I have been reading about at what age people remember experiencing their first orgasm. It seems the stories are all over the place as to age. Some studies recount women recalling their first perceived orgasm as young children, and many women remembering their first “O” as an adult. The women with whom I have been in a relationship that was close enough to discuss this had a broad range of memories. I remember my first at the age of 8 or 9. I am curious what your experiences have been.

Sorry to interrupt! This is a great question and I just wanted to point out that he is NOT asking HOW you got your first orgasm, BUT WHEN. Not incriminating since a lot of little girls get-off on vibrations from a car seat.

I know a lot of people are judgemental, but I hope one day we will be able to tell everything about our sex lives so everyone can feel normal. I think of myself as "normally aberant", and proud of it. ;-)

Around 17 or 18

I was about 8-9.

Had my first when I was about 11 years old.

I had my first orgasm when I was 13 years old and right away I wanted more.

13

Late teens. I was in bed with a slight cold and put my hand in my knickers to feel around as it always felt nice. I pushed back my lips and rubbed the tip of the middle pink bit and it just felt better and better then suddenly oh wow my first orgasm!

First from another person was my first gf. She did my first penetration and really hurt my vagina and stretched my hymen (she pushed 2 fingers up hard). Then to make up for the pain she swirled her big tongue over my clitoris and I came in less than 2 minutes!

Around 11. I had been touching myself pretty regularly for as long as I remember but around age 11 it started to feel different. More intense. Almost like I needed to sneeze is how I remember thinking of it - and then one time I ‘sneezed’ and was like OH! I thought I had broken something or hurt myself. Luckily I had a cousin I was very close with who was able to explain what happened. Well I was hooked from then on. The Buzzcocks (Punk group from the 70’s) had a song Orgasm Addict. That was me.

It was before I hit puberty, I think I was 9 years old.

I think it was at about 12

I was 13. My girl cousin told me I “probably had an orgasm” when I told her about it. That started a lot of internet searches and self-exploration. I’ve never really stopped!

I was 13 and playing around in the bathtub… except I didn't stop when it started to build… and then well the rest is history…

I had my first orgasm in first or second grade. It was definitely in elementary school because I remember the classroom.

I know I had orgasms humping pillows and blankets before I knew what was happening. But my real first was when I was 12. I was supposed to be spending the night with a friend but her father got sick so they dropped me off on their way to the ER. I went in through the carport door. As soon as I got in I heard my sister moaning. I had heard those moans many times before. I thought my sister was having nightmares. We shared a room. If we were talking on the phone or something we could get in trouble for we would leave the bedroom door open some so we could hear when Mom and Dad drove in. So as I got to our room I saw my sister naked masturbating. I stood and watched for a few minutes until she noticed me and freaked out a little. Then she called to me to sit beside her. I went in. I was sitting beside her. I was watching her slide her fingers in and getting them wet and then moving them back to around her clit. She talked me into taking my clothes off and getting on the bed beside her. She was showing me what to do. She knew that if she got me to do it also I would not tell. That is when I had my first knowing orgasm.

I was about 14 did not realize what was going on at the time but it felt really good asked my sister who I am close with and she explained what happened

I can recall having “funny feelings” in early childhood - where I might be sitting in pants that were too tight and I’d get a fluttery or “jumpy” feeling underneath me. I certainly wasn’t aware it was excitement/arousal and I don’t ever recall it getting to the point of climax… but who knows, I didn’t know what it was at the time.

The first time I can actually remember achieving an orgasm knowing full well what it was… it was a bit nefarious in retrospect. It was the early ages of the Internet (so I was probably 13?? I definitely wasn’t any older than 15) and public chat rooms were still a thing (A/S/L anyone?!?). Some random guy messaged me out of the blue and probably propositioned me for cyber sex - though, as other things I’ve posted here will suggest, I was completely oblivious to the sexual intent of the request. I sure didn’t know what I was doing and had no concept of the act(s) involved to engage. But I was curious. So I spoke with him for a bit and, basically/succinctly, he told me how to masturbate by rubbing my clit until I came. I didn’t do it right there and then (probably much to his disappointment) but I tucked that knowledge away in my young mind and later that night… Well. His “advice” most definitely worked.

@timitrue OMG a/s/l! 🤣 Were you a ‘mug’ on Yahoo or did you use AOL?

Love it! Did that being back memories tho I was considerably older

@Nurse_Phillips - I was on AOL! What a wild time to be a young teen girl left alone to explore the Internet. 😂

I have always touched myself, but the 1st orgasm was just some months before my menarche

5th or 6th grade. I don't know how old that is.

5th or 6th grade. I don't know how old that is.

That would be 10 or 11 + or minus depending on your birthdate.

Pre-kindergarten. I had trouble falling/staying asleep. I discovered thus “trick “ which would cause all my muscles to tense up and when it passed , I fell right to sleep. I didn’t know what it was until high school.

@Nurse_Phillips I love your stories. I sneezed? With me, it was more like an eruption! I wasn't sure what happened but I couldn't wait for it to happen again.

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@tmitrue Another great story about the first O.

Here is my story and I am sticking to it.

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@ddell2 you know that rising tide of ‘OMG imma gonna sneeze’! 🤣 hey I don’t know about you but I can sneeze pretty violently lol

@Nurse_Phillips Excuse my ignorance! I missed the analogy. My bad!