Never had an enema

I am 69. I have had a strong rectal temperature fetish, giving and receving, thoughout my life, but I never had an enema.

Rectal temperature was the norm in my family for measuring temperature for adult and children. My mother was a bit overprotective and she used to take my rectal temperature every time we thought I looked sick or just tired. She was allways nice and gentle. As a teenager, I quickly discovered I enjoyed masturbation with the stimulation of a rectal thermometer in my rectum. I still do.

I don't think enemas were popular in France in the 50's or 60's in the urban upper middle class, I never heard a word about enemas in the family circle and I discovered them at school, like most of my schoolmates I guess, when we studied Molière, a famous French play writer of the 17th century who made a lot of references to them in his comedies.

I am now a poor old bachelor and I take care of my rectal temperature alone. I have lived with a few women and some of them enjoyed rectal temperature as much as I do and I would say rectal temperature has been an important part of my sexlife. But none of them ever mentioned enema or suggested to try it.

So, I never had an enema. I don't like the idea of liquid invading my belly and having to evacuate it, with the associated cramps. I don't see anything erotic in this. I am very afraid to have, one day, to submit to an enema in a medical procedure.

I never had an enema. May be I missed something.

Hello Svensson, I am 80 + years and ALL of my family have a rural background and 72 years ago my father took me to the Doctors to ask about worms in children. I was 8 years old. I can still visulize inside his surgery. He told Dad to take me home and give my brother and myself a boiled garlic enema. I can remember much conversation between Mum and Dad while Mum was boiling this ‘stuff’ on our stove and THEN Dad told me to come to the bathroom, get totally undressed and bend over. I did as I was told but then I felt something go into my bum and something filling me (maybe). I felt that it was a total invasion of somewhere that I held private and I was extremely outspoken about it but I secretly loved the feeling. I was secretly hooked and I've have given myself many many enemas since and my enemas have given me pleasure and comfort since then. Enemas are very intimate and even better with a friend. ENJOY. regards, irrigator333

Hi Svensson. I would say if you have enjoyed rectal thermometers over your lifetime, you may be more anal erotic than you realize. Don't let your inhibitions about what an enema might feel like hold you back from trying one or two or three enemas. You may find the sensations of a warm enema quite relaxing and ultimately very erotic. Your first enema can be a small volume enema just to get started.

As I have aged I have allowed myself to explore all forms of anal pleasure once I realized that I was a true anal erotic person. I sometimes get angry with myself for not trying new things both sexual and nonsexual because you really don't know what the experience is going to feel like until you try it.

Something never tried is an opportunity missed. Don't let the clock tic down and have regrets for not experiencing all that life has to offer.

Frankly, the actual process of the enema can end up feeling like a chore, but part of the fun is the anticipation and you really do feel good afterward.

So, I never had an enema. I don't like the idea of liquid invading my belly and having to evacuate it, with the associated cramps. I don't see anything erotic in this. I am very afraid to have, one day, to submit to an enema in a medical procedure.

There is n nothing wrong with not wanting to experience an enema. You've gone 69 years without it and there is no “check-box” that you have to fill in. Enjoy what you do and don't feel pressured into trying something you're really not all that interested in. They are not “magical”.

There is nothing wrong in our decisions to experience, or not, any aspect of our quirks or kinks. The important thing is to do no harm to ourselves or someone else.

When enemas are considered, some prefer certain solutions, quantities, or temps. Others also enjoy the different delivery systems. Solo versus assisted also comes into consideration.

I would suggest that one not assume that cramping is absolute. Cramps could happen, but they are usually influenced by factors that can be controlled or mitigated.

If one enjoys rectal temps, an enema/douche nozzle may provide some similar sensations. Some addition of a warm gentle solution, enhances those sensations for many of us.

If you take the plunge, be safe, sane, and start slow. You may join the ranks of us KlisMo's!

So, I never had an enema. I don't like the idea of liquid invading my belly and having to evacuate it, with the associated cramps. I don't see anything erotic in this. I am very afraid to have, one day, to submit to an enema in a medical procedure.

I never had an enema. May be I missed something.

Enemas are like med fet, BDSM, and other kinks they are not everyone's cup of tea. You can try it if you want to. Each kink is not for everyone.

I have never found the enjoyment that many others find in enemas. They just don't hit the pleasure switches for me.

Enemas are like med fet, BDSM, and other kinks they are not everyone's cup of tea. You can try it if you want to. Each kink is not for everyone.

I have never found the enjoyment that many others find in enemas. They just don't hit the pleasure switches for me.

MissStress,

As you know, I adore enemas, especially getting them from my very Domme GF while wearing fetish clothes she puts me in (mix and match rubber suits, hood, gloves, mask, gag, sneakers). I think enemas made me discover many new and erotic pleasure switches for me I didn’t experience before sexual enemas.

The important thing is that as long as he knows your important sexy pleasure switches and hits or turns them on for you when you have sex, you’re likely to have a great time. 👍🏻❗️❗️

Eric