Does anyone else wish they got more spankings growing up?

Now that I am older I like the things I hated as a kid - having naps and getting spanked.

I was spanked regularly as a child. However, as some have yearned already on here, I yearned desperately for a calm, collected ritual to having my ass grabbed up by a mentally ill mother who often spanked me for reasons I have no idea about. Obviously I did something, but often times I didn’t know what. My father on the other hand, the few times he spanked me, always would pull me over his lap, wait a few minutes to cool down and then spank me. Those were the spankings that made the biggest impression and did the most good. Particularly one memorable one when I was screaming about having the tangles brushed out of my hair. He calmly pulled me over his lap, lifted my night gown, and spanked me with my own hairbrush. I was probably in third or fourth grade.

I think I got exactly the right amount although they could have been spaced out better. I really only had a 7 year period of getiing spanked the earliest I can remember being at the age of 7 and the last one at the age of fourteen or maybe fifteen but I think I got more than half of them when I was 12. I can't remember being particularly naughty when I was twelve at least no worse than at other ages. Perhaps it was just that I was cuter at that age or perhaps it was due to tranitioning from short to long trousers at about thirteen.

I don't think they were ever particularly harsh punishments although many of them made me cry which for me was more humiliating than getting a spanking in front of a class of my schoolfriends. I can remember only a few of the alleged misdemeanors I was spanked for and I cant remember how severe each one was. I can remember geting spanked in front of a class of 11 year old kids when I was fourteen and the teacher asked me if he needed to tell me what it was for I said "No Sir" and I think he assumed I knew what I had done wrong but the truth is I really didn't care what rule he thought I had broken. I knew one of my ex teachers socially in later life long after corporal punishment had been done away with in Uk schools. and I mentioned to him how random these punishments were. he said it didn't really matter who was punished for any particular misdemeanor so long as somebody was seen to be punished for it. because the it had more effect on the behaviour of those who were witnesses than it did on those who were spanked. so perhaps the excess at age twelve was simply because I was a handy scapegoat who didn't appear to be particularly traumatised by getting my bottom whacked.

At the time I didn’t want spankings so I’m ok with what I got. Now enemas, on the other hand, I enjoyed even as a young child and wish I got more…. And that mom didn’t stop giving them to me by the time I was in my early teens. Thinking back to some of her friends at the time…. I’d likely have enjoyed getting spanked and enemas from some of them, too!

I was never spanked in my childhood or youth !! - that wasn't a common part in my parent's household, and i was and be ok with it !! - because i am not in the meaning, that body - punishment's can be a good form of education !! - there will be much more other form's !!

Spankings as a child were never fun or enjoyed. I was spanked as a child always on the bare bottom with a bare hand for minor offenses and with the wooden paddle for major offenses like lying, stealing, or disrespecting parents.

The spankings were never administered in anger, just for correction.

So, as a child, I never wished for more spankings. However, having learned at the age of about 55 that I love having my wife spank me, I wish I had developed a love for spankings as a child and that I had gotten more spankings.

One time I played with a childhood friend and we took turns spanking each other on our bare bottoms. I wish I had done that more with that friend and with other friends.

I was never really spanked as a child. My mom once had me bend over and smacked my bottom with her slipper, and even that was only one smack. I wasn't sure whether I wanted to provoke her do more (is that it? It didn't hurt...) but I kept my mouth shut and let it go. In retrospect, I now now that deep down what I wanted her to do was pull down my pants and haul me over her knee, and let me have it. I also think, looking back, that there were a couple of times my parents kind of felt that they would like to give a good spanking, but that in those instances I was a bit old for that (mid-teens).

I do wish that I had been given a few of those spankings though, probably would have done me some good.

I wish I was spanked more as a teenager and for sometimes spanked at 15-16, which I wasn’t in reality. I am sure now it would be cool to recall those memories. I am also surprised why we didn’t practice playful spankings with friends when we were playing a game of house.

Probably not. Definitely not from my parents!

At times, I had fantasies of being spanked by certain people or in certain situations. Almost all involved young women spankers or girl classmates. For example:

My french teacher topped the list. She was about 25 and very cute. I often fantasized about her bending me over the desk and paddling my backside. Ditto for her even younger and cuter student teacher.

A young aunt also was a subject of my spanking fantasies. After I saw her spank my little cousins, I couldn't get out of my mind's eye the image of me over her lap, my jeans and undershorts down, being spanked with her delicate hand.

Whenever I saw a girl outside the principal's office, presumably waiting for a paddling, I fantasized being there with her so that I could see her going into the office, hear what was going on in there, and then seeing her emerge holding her bottom and crying. It seemed worth getting a paddling myself in exchange for seeing her before and after and maybe hearing a bit of her paddling.

I'm probably fortunate that none of those fantasies came true. I doubt they would have been as fun for real as they were in my fantasy life.

If my parents would have spanked me the way my wife spanks me, then, yes, I would have loved having more spankings growing up. As it was though, I didn't like my parents spankings with the bare hand or with the paddle, both of which were on my bare bottom. They hurt, as was their intent, and I tried to avoid them.

My wife, on the other hand, gives me great spankings. She starts off with light smacks to get the blood flowing to warm up the buns and then, only when I can handle it, she increases the intensity. It takes about five minutes to properly warm the checks, and then she can pretty much thrash away and it's all good . . . unless she is using the Delrin cane.

She can't go all out with the Delrin cane for two reasons. First, it just plain hurts more than any other implement, even when I'm warmed up. Well, actually, if I am warmed up and about to orgasm, she can lay it on full force, but that has only occurred twice in 10 years.

That said, the second reason she can’t go all out with the cane is because the cane is long and flexible and she simply can’t control it very well at full throttle so a few errant strikes end up on my back or down on my thighs where the skin is thin and sensitive. And, of course, those areas have not been warmed up, although I think they would hurt too much even if warmed up due to the thinness of the skin. Additionally, those areas are not calloused like my bum that has been getting a steady dose of spankings from my wife for over 10 years now.

No, but I do wish I'd played more spanking games (and doctor) growing up.

@drooaygah , did you play sometimes doctor or spankings as a kid?

Kulemh; alas I did not. Did play some show-and-tell which was great.

There's a part of me that wishes I had been spanked (or punished in some way) for things I got away with as a kid. I certain could and did get into mischief but cautious about covering my tracks. But I was also sensitive and therefore would have unresolved feelings of guilt if had avoided a spanking when I surely would have had my parents found out what I had done. I described one such situation here:

https://en.zity.biz/index.php?mx=forum;ox=display;msg=1452727

There were times were I would return home from play not sure if my parents knew what I had been up to. Even if my reception at home was normal, I'd jump a bit if the phone rang, concerned that the parent of a friend or neighbor was about to report what I had been up to.