Perfect Time For a Spanking

Spanking as a real life consequence can be fraught, so I wanted to share an example of some really positive reinforcement I received!

I had picked up my husband's medication, but forgot to take it out of my purse when I got home. The next day, I took it to work with me. I texted him that I accidentally took it with me; he texted back “accidentally” and a gif of a woman being spanked. It was playful, but I also knew he was serious. We were planning ahead, so he was in no danger - but what if he had been?

So I got home and I was spanked for being careless with a loved one's health. I agreed and accepted this punishment, as I wouldn't want it to happen again!

We didn't do a lot of spanking in our lives prior to getting married, but after that, something just clicked and he's become very good at helping guide my behavior with loving but firm and frequent spankings.

I love it.

It's so wonderful that you found each other.

Perfect times are not near often enough but I would say they would always happen when our children are out of the house either at their grandparents or with friends for a predictable amount of time. Knowing that you are going to be spanked or give a spanking to your spouse ahead of time makes it particularly exciting particularly when you cannot predict when that time might be….just that it is going to HAPPEN!! Denise

I love this. I agree, it can be so hard to plan sometimes. I know my wife wishes there could be more spontaneity, but with kids it’s hard. So we often plan and the anticipation can be really great too.

I have spanked my wife for waiting too long to refill a prescription she needed. She agreed it was needed as well.

I will add further to what I consider the perfect time for a spanking. Recently, we got all dressed up for a rather formal dinner affair. I was decked out in a beautiful dress and heels. Underneath, I had on a very tight open bottom girdle with six garters holding up ultra sheer nylons (hard to find these days). I went without panties and husband found out early on in the evening and he whispered when we got home, I would be receiving a good sound spanking that did not stop with just being over his knee and use of his bare hand. I found myself thinking about the dreaded paddle and/or hairbrush being applied in rapid fashion to my bottom until it was bright red. Needless to say, when we got home (kids at grandparents), the perfect spanking/paddling happened as promised. My bottom was tender and hot for a few days but it was a pleasant reminder of the intense private moments that my husband and I had had in quite some time. Denise

@Denise you are so…😉🌹

Anytime.

Want me to be on your lap right now? Just kidding 😅😋😉

Denise a girl after my own heart. A girdle wearer, big plus for you. I love the shape of a woman in one.

As for myself anytime is a perfect time to be spanked! One time it was in the middle of the night when she woke me by spanking me with (MY spanking} bath brush! Sometimes for fore play 😃 and sometime for punishment 😃!!I love being spanked both ways! i have even been spanked when i was a good boy because she wanted to and because she can! Even though the bath brush HURTS for both especially for punishment! i want and need both and yes, we both get sexually excited, still after 45nyears!!

@Denise Underneath, I had on a very tight open bottom girdle with six garters holding up ultra sheer nylons (hard to find these days).

Wow! I loved hearing mention of girdles! Spanking too. Lucky hubby you have!

Perfect times are not near often enough but I would say they would always happen when our children are out of the house either at their grandparents or with friends for a predictable amount of time. Knowing that you are going to be spanked or give a spanking to your spouse ahead of time makes it particularly exciting particularly when you cannot predict when that time might be….just that it is going to HAPPEN!! Denise

I know that with the children very well. I like spanking and with children it is sometimes difficult to live out one's preferences. My wife had an idea, when I was at work she would make appointments with in-laws. That the children can sleep there. She didn't tell me anything. When I got home the wooden spoon and the stick were on the table. Our children have already moved out, but the ritual is still there. It's great not knowing when your butt will glow again.

There is no perfect time for me anytime I due for a spanking it will be given to me.

Whenever I misbehaved I be put over the knee and spanked bare bottom until it is tender fresh red.