Gay spas and bath houses

At a ripe old age I have discovered the pleasures to be had at gay spas and bath houses, as well as adult theaters at times.

at the spas, I am often happy just to walk around with my towel loosely covering my midsection and check out all the variety of young and old men, as well as their activities.

In the “wet” areas, the whirlpool, group showers and saunas, it is a great feeling of freedom to be sharing this erotic environment with other naked men.

Please feel free to share any of your experiences!

I'd love to read DETAILS of what you have experienced!!! I have never been to one, but would enjoy going with you sometime!!!

I would be interested in hearing from experienced visitors to these places. Can ”safe sex” be practiced in such venues? I have a strong desire to try M2M fucking as a “bottom”, since I can no longer “top” due to medical issues. I am not interested in visiting truly sleazy places. Do such places exist?

I am not personally the biggest fan of the true gay bath houses. They do tend to be very dark and sleezy.

However, I really do enjoy Korean spas and have been to a couple in several different cities in the country. Note, they are not for sex. But still a lot of fun and very relaxing to hang out in. They are all very similar in setup. Everyone strips naked in the locker room and enters a very large open area containing saunas and stream rooms along the side with various pools/hot tubes of different temperatures in the middle. When you enter, there are a wall of shower heads with no dividers or anything and you shower off in full view of everyone relaxing in the pools. Basically no one cares about any sense of modesty with towels. In the sauna and steam rooms, nearly everyone sits on top of their towel with no covering. Crowd tends to be 20ish guys at a time in the wet area, sometimes busier. Mix of everything from young to old, fat to skinny. You can pick up pretty easily on which guys are “cruising.” You get great looks at everyone when they are just sitting across from you with everything loosely hanging out. When you are alone with someone interested in one of the more private areas of the sauna/steam room, no uncommon to get hard together, compare dicks, stroke each other a bit. For instance, I was about 30 and one older guy was definitely noticing my genitals. “You are pretty well hung there, how big does it get?" I said 6.5, and he said he thought that was an understatement and wanted to see. So I got hard, he complimented me and moved next to me to feel for himself.

Along one side of the wet area is typically an area with a could like massage tables for body scrubs. These feel great, and are also done in full view of everyone else. At some places, a washcloth is placed over your genitals, at others nothing. Some places genitals are washed quickly with the loofah, one place was a little more. The fairly obviously gay attendant asked me, “Is it okay if I move some stuff around?" (clearly meaning my genitals) to which I said yes. He immediately soaped me up and I was completely erect. He washed my erect penis almost by giving it a couple strokes, then my scrotum including stretching it down causing my erection to be pulled straight up in the air, then moved on. No telling who was watching. Some places there are multiple tables next to each other, and as you progress through being on your back, left side, right side, stomach, you can get views of them lying there naked getting washed and know that they are seeing you in the same position.

Again, no sex here and even quite touches and hjs are super discrete. However, very relaxing and a great place to show off what youve got and to see a wide variety of others hanging out naked.

I have only been to one gay spa, and it is kept very clean. First time there, I was very impressed by this. I have only been there during weekdays, late mornings and early afternoons, and the crowds are small. lots of older married fellows , retired with time and curiosity to explore. If you want to upgrade for privacy, you can pay a bit more and get a small room with a cot and tv. When you walk in there is a bowl full of condoms free for the patrons, so yes, all sorts of sex is available. Generally speaking, the staff and clientele are all courteous.

When I emigrated to Canada a lifetime ago, the office where I worked was next door to a gay spa/bathhouse. It was a while before I noticed the irony of their sign post which stated “Entrance in rear” 😃

Sometimes think I should have explored it, but it was too close to the office.

Years ago when I was in the process of a divorce I saw an ad in a sex-oriented newspaper for a club in downtown New York. It took me about two weeks to work up the courage to try it. When I entered the club I was surprised that it was everything I expected, and more. A few people were dressed in pants and T-shirts but most people were naked or wearing various leather harnesses and other erotic clothing. I remember one young girl wearing red panties and no top. She had an enema bag around her neck and asked me if I wanted an enema. I asked her how much does it cost and she told me it was $25.00, so I asked her what does it include, and she said it depends on what you want. I did not want an enema right now so I just thanked her and walked away. I saw on the sides of a large open area that there were doors to various rooms that were marked Private, Gay, Couples, and Open. I went into the door marked Open and saw several couples on couches having sex, but being alone and nervous I left. In the center of the large room there was a chair made from steel tubing and it had stirrups. There was a man sitting in the chair and his feet in the stirrups receiving oral sex from a woman, and there were a few people watching. I walked around and mostly looked at everything that was going on but did not have the courage to rent a locker and get undressed and participate. I stayed over an hour before I decided to leave. On my way toward the exit, I saw a woman in the chair and she was completely naked but wore a leather harness as her “outfit”. A man wearing a thong was sitting on a small stool in front of her and performing cunnilingus on her. I really wished I could be that man, but the entire experience was unlike anything I have ever seen, so I left and drove home.

Years ago when I was in the process of a divorce I saw an ad in a sex-oriented newspaper for a club in downtown New York. It took me about two weeks to work up the courage to try it. When I entered the club I was surprised that it was everything I expected, and more. A few people were dressed in pants and T-shirts but most people were naked or wearing various leather harnesses and other erotic clothing. I remember one young girl wearing red panties and no top. She had an enema bag around her neck and asked me if I wanted an enema. I asked her how much does it cost and she told me it was $25.00, so I asked her what does it include, and she said it depends on what you want. I did not want an enema right now so I just thanked her and walked away. I saw on the sides of a large open area that there were doors to various rooms that were marked Private, Gay, Couples, and Open. I went into the door marked Open and saw several couples on couches having sex, but being alone and nervous I left. In the center of the large room there was a chair made from steel tubing and it had stirrups. There was a man sitting in the chair and his feet in the stirrups receiving oral sex from a woman, and there were a few people watching. I walked around and mostly looked at everything that was going on but did not have the courage to rent a locker and get undressed and participate. I stayed over an hour before I decided to leave. On my way toward the exit, I saw a woman in the chair and she was completely naked but wore a leather harness as her “outfit”. A man wearing a thong was sitting on a small stool in front of her and performing cunnilingus on her. I really wished I could be that man, but the entire experience was unlike anything I have ever seen, so I left and drove home.

Denver had three baths, iam pretty sure that COVID-19 and drug use is the reason they all closed.i had many very exciting times in them.safe sex was very important in there.i never have had a problem with being safe.however ,a man that I please will always have a long lasting orgasm and feeling his warm thick cum load me up is amazing.a few times I gave hours of oral pleasure and swallowed many large amounts of cum.that was so exciting too, it's very gratifying to show a guy my full mouth of his creamy sauce and I swallow it all.

I did have a visit and played with a guy that drove himself into my prostate which made me drain the most ever.going to those places can be a lifetime experience too.i discovered my body and it's very possible to ejaculate over and over, without even touching my dick.a bath is where I learned and had very amazing experiences.

It's a shame so many bathhouses have closed over the years. While it's true that a great deal of unprotected sex went on, these bathhouses were great places to engage in SAFE play in the nude with other nude men. They were also great places to meet, chat with, and become friends and partners with men of all ages and persuasions.

We have a lot of experiences alone and as couple. I have been to many bath houses and saunas in Europe. If you need suggestions do let us know. Some of our experiences was written as blog too.