Why do you like wearing diapers?

Good grief CindyM, that's abuse in my books. What a terrible thing to do! What is she thinking!

This is pretty easy. I had to wear thick cloth pin on diapers with plastic pants for bedwetting. I always wet at night, usually multiple times every night. At the time having one older and 2 younger non bedwetting brothers I endured regularly ridicule. The bedwetting alarm system was tried for a couple of weeks when I was 8 or 9 but all that did was wake everyone up except me. The following mornings my brothers would comment how they now got to hear when I was wetting my diapers. I also had plastic mattress covers under my sheets because I would regularly get soaked and leak.

I hated wearing diapers and was always told if I could go 3 nights in a row dry I could try sleeping without a diaper. At about 9 or ten I was allowed to pin on my own diaper and thought it would work to take off my wet diaper early in the morning and put on a dry one to try and trick my parents. Of course I really didn't have a way of hiding soaking wet diapers so of course they got found. That meant I now had to go back to having my mom diaper me before bed and was also required to not take off my morning diaper until it was checked. I was told if I had to go pee I just needed to pull back the edge of my diaper and go pee.

Of course this also meant spending mornings waddling around in a wet diaper waiting for my mom to get up. My brothers loved watching this also. Anyway I was told I could stop wearing a nighttime diaper when I entered high school. I was so relieved I no longer had to wear pin on diapers. I no longer had to lay spread eagle at age 14 on my bed watching my mom pin me in my diapers and making sure the edg of my plastic pants were tucked in well to try and keep leaking down. Now I had to deal with waking up in the middle of the night floating around in a huge pee puddle. Wet sheets, wet blankets, wet pillows, and wet pajamas. I actually hated this much worse than the diapers that actually did what they were supposed to do.

I would never admit it but I secretly just wanted to have my diapers back. I put up with the nightly and morning mess for about 4 years. My room really smelled like a bedwetter's now. I hated stripping it down and putting dry sheets all the time and would often just let my sheets dry out during the day and sleep and wet the same sheets over again. When I did this for 3 days or so the smell was pretty strong. I got used to going to sleep with that pissy smell around me. Anyway at age 18 or so I got smart and put myself back in my diapers. What a relief. When I have more time I'll repost about my daytime accidents.

I wear cloth diapers because I like the feel of them - nice and warm and comfortable. They fill your entire lower region and not just the middle like the paper ones. I wear a close-fitting pair of plastic pants pr two over them to keep them from leaking if I pee in them. In addition to that, it gives me "power" over when and where I go -- don't have to ruj to find a bathroom when I got to pee while doing something. I only wear them at home. Sitting in a soaked diaper can also be a treat - nice and warm. i wear a plastic sauna suit so any leaks won't damage the furniture.

i have also been on medication which has had me up fiur or five times a night, which means little sleep. With a diaper, i can sray in bed, pee, then drop back to sleep rather yhan get up and run to the bathroom and end up wide awake.

I originally had to wear protection after prostate surgery. I just knew about the incontinent aisle at Walgreen's. I started with Depends pull ups and moved on to pads as I grew more continent. Eventually I only needed pads for some stress incontinence.

I came to this site for the Med Fet but gravitated to the Diaper section.

I only wear when my wife, who does not know about my diaper wearing is out of the house. I found 2 medical supply stores and have bought Tranquility ATN and these Molicares. I hide them in a tool box in our shed. Yesterday I bought a pair of Salk Sani-Pant pull ups from the medical supply store and are wearing them over my diaper.

I like the feeling of my "junk" being confined in a tight diaper and wetting in them. I never mess.

Even though I think about diapers and wearing a lot, I would not like to wear 24/7. I do not know how much I would wear if my wife found out and was OK with it. It is more special because I am so limited in my wearing. I really have not figured out what i want from wearing in the future.

I just love the convenience when i travel. Getting stuck on a LA freeway and going 2 mph needing to go is no fun. I have bladder urgency if setting for hours driving and trying to find a bathroom when you have to go RIGHT NOW is no fun. I also have diabetes and am on diuretics for legs swelling and have to pee 4 to 5 times a night. By wearing a diaper at night i no longer have to get up and can just pee without even moving.

For me I was a bed wetter until I was 8 to 9 years old and kept in nappies every night. The final thing that got me completely hooked was seeing my cousin bein put in nappies and plastic pants for being a bed wetter when I was about 18. it has developed over the years and I now like to be treated like a sissy baby and forced to wear nappies

Im a dl because i like the comfort and security of dieper knowing that if i have an accident not to worry.

For me personally, wearing diapers is mostly a medical thing as I need them although they also bring me a sense of comfort and soothingness that I haven't had since I was a child and this helps me to relax as specially whilst I am asleep at nights or during my frequent nap times.

I am a 37 year old man, yes you heard that right an adult but crack through my tough exterior and you'll find a child of sorts as I have psychological reasons to wear diapers as well,although I don't consider myself either an adult baby or a diaper lover.

I wear them mostly to prevent any potential embarrassments but also because I feel good in them and nobody's going to change that yes I might feel and look babyish but thats because I feel most at ease in my early childhood mode as I didn't have a great time growing up as specially because of bullying and other reasons.

I don't judge myself as a bad person for wearing them because I am not hurting anyone or doing anything illegal so why should I be ashamed by something that helps me?, anyway I think society nerds to wake up to people like myself who have hidden disabilities in my case severe Autism and or Asperges syndrome as we are not all pedophiles or criminals for living our lves.

I hate people who don't know me judging me or others like myself as they are the ones who need to grow up, bullying needs to stop and people need to stop hateting as all t does is hurt innocent people who do not deserve to be treated like criminals or aliens from another planet.

Yours sincerly

Chinababy888.

I didn,t have much option when wetting the bed.

Ah, the greatest question of them all!

To be honest; I really struggle with this stuff. On one side I like to just leave it for what it is and enjoy this fetish to the fullest, without wasting time on the why, how and what.

While on the other hand I’m a curious person who wants to understand every lilltle thing in life in general, and even more so when it comes to my own life.

Maybe I’m scared of finding out the reason for my fetish and that it will change the way that I practise, and look, at it. The way it is now is fine with me. But I can not say if it will stay like this for ever.

My diaper behaviour has changed (no pun intended) over time, and I expect it to change a bit more as years will go by.

Spike

Is there a difference between some-one whos loves wearing Diapers ,and some-one who loves only wearing Plastic Baby Pants ? Ive read many statements about adult use of the Diaper /Nappy ,and wetting & pooing in them ,and in all honestly they are all true honest statements ,Does that mean adults who loves wearing Plastic Pants only . must only have fetish for Plastic ?

Diapers are comfy and kind of relaxing for me but the sexual aspects of being diapered is what I like the most about this fetish.

Lovejoy, you asked "Does that mean adults who loves wearing Plastic Pants only . must only have fetish for Plastic ?"

I can't speak for anyone else, but it does for me.

I wrote a reply to this question on Quora.com I hope it helps you a lot. When I was 12 I was put back in diapers for medical reasons. I was scared to death and found the only people who were able to help me were DL?TBs. I am not a DL but it hurt me a lot when my DL friends told me how badly people looked down upon them. I wanted to help them and started doing research to find the answer as to why they liked diapers. What I found I posted on Quora. I hope it helps to give many of you some reassurance that there is nothing wrong with you. I hope it is okay to use urls here too.

There is a lot to this question that good child psychologists are well aware of but many others are not.

This is about what is known as the Transitional Phenomenon and the Transitional Object . This phenomenon is something that all children experience and certainly not something to be taken lightly.

I do not normally reply to posts about Adult Diaper Lovers but after thinking about this I’m thinking I should, because an adult DL is normally a child or adolescent DL first. This is not about Infantilism you are always a diaper lover first.

First let me reassure you there is not anything wrong with you. Yes this is very normal for some boys and girls, though not as prevalent in girls.

There is nothing that you should be afraid of. This is much more common than people realize.

This phenomenon happens to a child in infancy.

This is about the baby’s first personal possession the first comforting possession known as the Transitional Object that helps the child to console themselves during times of anxiety, when the mother is not there for the child, and is carried with the child all the way through adolescents. And yes a diaper can very normally be that first possession. Just as easily as a teddy bear or a blanket. This is not something to be ashamed of or afraid of. All children experience this phenomenon.

It is not unusual but not something people know much about.

Do not shun your child for this. This is about the bond between the infant, child and adolescent and the mother that is crucial to good healthy development. (This is not about regression.)

This is something very important throughout a child’s life.

Please read my reply at the following post. Please read all of it, it is very informative.

How common is it for a 12 year old to like wearing diapers?

My reply is, Why do boys become Diaper Lovers?

https://www.quora.com/How-common-is-it-for-a-12-year-old-to-like-wearing-diapers

It is a long post but try to read all of it. The last part is just as important as the first.

Some people would call this a fetish but the doctor whose paper I referenced my reply from did not feel that liking diapers in childhood nor adolescence constituted a fetish although it was possible to develop as an adult.

For a person who is a diaper lover wearing diapers is not in itself a fetish. When wearing them takes on a more aggressive nature in affect for sexual gratification that is when it becomes the fetish. When it comes to Infantilism this is a paraphillia which is a derivative of the fetish. You are always a diaper lover first.

It is important to refer to the usage note of the following url.

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It is important to notice that the term can be and is also used to imply "less mainstream sexual practices" but without necessarily negatively implying any dysfunction or 'wrongness'.

I like Better Dri with a doubler as first on the list , or North Snore Superflex pull-ups if I think I might "mess up" in public. Love the thick feeling, and the amount of pee they absorb, usually 12 hours worth, when they gets wet and heavy. Am a long time underwear fetisher, but last two years came to like diapers. They give a nice calm feeling. My Psychiatrist thinks there is no reason not to wear them if i gives me pleasure, nice fo me and doesn't hurt anybody.

As being incontinent, and consider myself a DL. It no longer bothers me wearing diapers. I much prefer wearing a diaper for the protection that I need due to incontinence. I could use a catheter and carry a pee bag around everywhere. I hate catheters and all the aspects of using them 24/7. So to answer the question why I like wearing diapers.

1) They provide the protection I need.

2) They are so much more comfortable wearing then using a catheter.

3) It's far more easier to conceal a diaper than a pee bag for my lifestyle.

4) Diapers are pretty much painless unless you get diaper rashes. Inserting a catheter isn't so painless.

5) I never got an infection from wearing diapers, catheter YES.

6) Wearing diapers allows me to be more stress free from infections, leaks, and the protectionthat is needed for my lifestyle period.

I stopped wondering about the ‘why’ question. It hit me one day, that if I keep asking myself this very question I denie myself a certain amount of fun, simply by wasting time on Looking for an answer I’m never gonna find. In addition to that, I have a lot of possible ‘trigger events’ that may have caused this fetish/kink/hobby/lifestyle, that I would get lost in my mind and memories. The more I accept my diapers, the less I care about the answer to; ‘why?’.

Spike

I sat down about six years ago, started up Word for Windows, and began trying to answer that question and it's turned into a "book" that's now about 90 pages long!

The the first chapter of it (about 18 pages) pretty much covers all the memories and early feelings that somewhat explain it. (The rest of it deals with my early experiences, how I learned to love it but also went through years of the "guilt, binge & purge" thing, how I reconciled it with having girlfriends and a normal straight sex life, how I finally accepted it, found a wife who accepts it, then the rest of it details some of the fun I've had with it over the years.) One of these days I may publish some of it, either here or in an e-book or something.

But essentially I think it comes down to a few things: As a young baby I was sick and spent much time in the hospital, when I was finally OK and came home, it was springtime, sunny, warm and I was in diapers. I think this is why I absolutely love wearing my diapers when it's warm outside and why I always want to be in them after getting through a difficult time in life.

Another part of it is that I was supposed to have a younger sibling who died during birth, for months we all looked forward to having a baby in the house then we didn't. I think this is where much of my fascination with other kids' younger siblings in diapers came from.

And the final part of it was living next door to a girl my age who intentionally peed in her pants all the time, this fascinated me to the point that I had to try it myself. That's when I started becoming attracted to the way it feels to be in wet clothes and the way they smell.

Then there was the event (well documented here in other posts) where I visited my aunt / uncle and my two-year-old girl cousin who was still very much in diapers and out of curiosity, peeked into her diaper pail and fell in love with the way they looked and especially the way they smelled.

Everything since then just built upon that, then with the advent of puberty it became a very sexual thing for me. That led to more experimenting with all the other aspects of it, something I've been doing since!

I am suprised I have not responded to this question, but like most I have no idea why. I have had a pee fetish since around eight years old and always wanted to wet my bed and pants but with strict parents I only did it a little. Around 11 or 12 I started looking at baby diapers and plastic pants in the Wards and Sears catalogs, also the medical needs section. That is when I started to make my own diapers and plastic pants and when I turned 16 I ordered real diapers from the catalog. I can only think of why is because I was potty trained before I was two and I wasn't babied much by my mother.

Yes that's another thing I meant to mention below (that IS in my "book") -- my mother was a "germ freak" who went around with a bottle of alcohol and tissues and wouldn't let me touch anything until she "killed all the germs" and because of this, she had me out of those "germy old dirty diapers" when i was 2. And I've always thought that I was NOT ready to give them up and her making me was yet another reason why I love them so much now! Making up for lost time, as it were (though honestly I've probably now made up for it ten times over...LOL).

Wearing diapers is just kinda special, not another feeling like it. The crisp freshness of a new disposable, the crinkle it makes as its slipped on, and the soft padding on the inside feels like heaven on the genitals. Now in a full warm and wet diaper, its all even better than before. The security I suppose, the noises and smells. Everything.