Sex toy in ass for relaxation?

When I was between partners I would sometime find it hard to sleep and to relax - one thing that really helped was using a smallish (2-3 cm) sex toy in my ass. It wasn't so much sexual (though could be at times) as comforting and I would sleep with it in. Anyone relate to this or have similar experiences?

I can definitely relate to what you are saying. There are times when stress or other factors will build up to where it's hard for me to relax. One of the best ways I have found is to use a vibrating dildo. If it's during the day, I will drop my pants and undies, put some lube on one of my favorite vibrating dildo's and put some lube on my rosebud hole, bend over and slide the device into my slick anus and then start the vibrations. I will lay down on top of the comforter for five or ten minutes using the different vibrations until my tension goes away.

If its at night then I will get completely undressed, lube one of my vibrating dildos as well as my rosebud hole, lay down on the bed, and insert the vibe and start its moter running and spending ten to fifteen minutes letting it melt away my stress. I will slide it in and out a few times before I take it out and take a shower. If I am going to sleep with something in my tush I will use a small butt plug.

I agree… I've always found playing and toying to be relaxing as well as stimulating. Sort of like meditation where you focus on something positive and other thoughts and cares float on by.

I wore my butt plug to mohs surgery. It was great. It gave me something to focus on other than the slicing and dicing on my arm and back!

I wore my butt plug to mohs surgery. It was great. It gave me something to focus on other than the slicing and dicing on my arm and back!

Okay, at least so far that wins the award for the most unusual situation or purpose for wearing a butt plug I’ve ever read.

Eric

Yes, I can relate with that. I use to have a very stressful job which impacted my sleep. When I had a bad night I would get up go into the spare room, insert my prostate massager and drift off to sleep. Amazing stress buster and the next day I felt invigorated ready to take on the world.

I wore one of my favorite plugs when having prep surgery for a dental implant. Took my mind elsewhere.

I have never tried sleeping with anything in my ass but have been thinking about trying it out, i recently brought a butt plug and can't wait to try it out.

I have never tried sleeping with anything in my ass but have been thinking about trying it out, i recently brought a butt plug and can't wait to try it out.

Start out for a few hours and work your way up. You can also try ginger if you want more sensation. The heat stops when it comes out so you can find out if you like it. You can also go somewhere with the plug in. A naughty secret only you know. Have fun!

There are indeed long periods when I use a plug virtually every night. It can be sexually arousing if you allow it to be, but it can also simply be relaxing and pleasant, especially while falling asleep, in the ‘twilight state’ between being awake and fully asleep.

If you do this often/regularly, you may even not notice you are wearing a plug when you wake up, especially with a smaller size, which I'd recommend for sleeping as it will accommodate better.

I wear a butt plug almost all of the time and love it and I think that relaxation is the key

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It surely helps to relax to have a plug in your ass. The deep breathing, the relaxation of the anus do impose a relaxed state of mind, too.

I guess relaxation and sex toys are not together for me….i tried to sleep plugged but the feeling of being full didn't let me sleep at all. I admire people that can have this type of fun!

Za

I guess relaxation and sex toys are not together for me….i tried to sleep plugged but the feeling of being full didn't let me sleep at all. I admire people that can have this type of fun!

Za

Try a smaller plug or if you get up to pee try starting later. If you are already sleepy it could help.

I guess relaxation and sex toys are not together for me….i tried to sleep plugged but the feeling of being full didn't let me sleep at all. I admire people that can have this type of fun!

My sub isn't a fan of sleeping plugged. He just feels too full to sleep well. Plus he worries about the plug coming out if he were to relax too much. He knows I wouldn't like a dirty sheet because he didn't hold his plug.

My sub isn't a fan of sleeping plugged. He just feels too full to sleep well. Plus he worries about the plug coming out if he were to relax too much. He knows I wouldn't like a dirty sheet because he didn't hold his plug.

@MissStress, why not properly tape the plug into place so it doesn't involuntarily slip out during the night? *evil grin*

@MissStress, why not properly tape the plug into place so it doesn't involuntarily slip out during the night? *evil grin*

@PunitiveDaddy I had not thought of that. I could sew up a “harness” to hold it into place this coming winter. *Gets to thinking on that.

Another option is use a strap-on on your partner; when finished, leave it fully penetrating them, and reverse the harness to hold it in.

My guy works out of town alot. He controls my orgasms and won't let me cum when he is gone. He states he wants me to save it up. He will allow me to wear a butt plug. Its not as great as anal sex, but its better than nothing. ; )

When Im watching some nice anal videos, I have a long flared toy or a silicone butt plug in my butt. I cum very hard and like the feeling of my butt hole clamping down on the toy. I put a towel in my chair and sit on the toy. A little wiggle every so often is a nice feeling. I like walking around with it sticking out of my butt. Love to see girls walking too with a butt toy in. I know right where to pat them on the butt hehe.

For me I've never slept with one, I don't find its presence more relaxing than not having it in. Wife was the opposite though and certainly has left them in post sex over night.

I can relate. For me, toys can serve many purposes one of which being, essentially, an adult version of a pacifier (dummy for my Brit friends) - I’ve slipped my favorite plug in many times before bed after a crazy day and, while I know it’s all psychological, drifted off to sleep feeling at peace.