Jerk yourself while getting fucked?

What bothers me about most gay porn is that the passive man has to masturbate himself while he is being fucked. I love to lend a hand with my passive partner myself. It is much more loving and more cooperative. What do you think about it?

Although I have yet to experience a real cock fucking me, I agree it would probably be more intimate and better to have my top handle my cock while I am taking his cock up my butt. I‘d also like him to give my large boobs some serious attention, too, while he is in the “pile driver” mode and when he is shooting his load into me.

When I was in my teens several of the men that fucked me would jack me at the same time and those orgasms were some of the most powerfull of my life! I thought that I would never stop cumming! As they continued to pound me thru my orgasm!

Although I have yet to experience a real cock fucking me, I agree it would probably be more intimate and better to have my top handle my cock while I am taking his cock up my butt. I‘d also like him to give my large boobs some serious attention, too, while he is in the “pile driver” mode and when he is shooting his load into me.

That is the way to do it! Instead of idle hands, give your partner a good grope! I would rather have someone play with my nipples than have their hands just grabbing my waist.

I came hands free many times from recieving a strapon or from a shemale

I do agree that it is great to be wanked while someone is fucking you. If I am fucking someone I want to wank them at the same time, and have them push a finger up my arse. It is a waste of feeling just to hold on to them somewhere.

What positions do you use for that? Doggy seems difficult.

Don't know what i'd do or how i'd feel if i were being fucked by a man, as it's never happened. But i'd possibly like to try before i die .

I think it’s too awkward position wise for the top to be holding my feet in the air or even harder when it’s doggie style to also jack me off. Most subs get off pleasing the top.

Doggie or bent over is my usual position when my wife is doing me with her strap on. A reach around is nice but awkward for her and distracting. I'd rather her concentrate on giving me a good fuck. I'm quite content with jerking off. Using a vibrator works nicely too.

I like to wait and see if I am going to reach an anal climax before I get interested in masturbation. When on my back with my feet in the air, I've had the man jack me and it felt great but it made me reach a climax before I had a chance to totally enjoy being fucked. I think each situation is different and the men should do what feels right at the time. Why settle on only one way when “variety is the spice of life”? The chemistry between the two men is what is important and not a set rule. And now I'd like to see what it feels like again. It's been too long.

I do sort of like while being fucked to just cum naturally. The senses are all heightened at that point it should be a powerful orgasm on its own.

It depends on the position that I am in. When l'm in the doggie position it is hard for me to stroke my cock but it is nice to have my partner reach around and stroke me. But if I'm on my back, legs spread out it's easy for me to stroke my own cock and I can control when I come. The best part of this though, in either position, is that feeling of his cock moving in and out of my ass.

As I was getting fucked the man would give me a “reach around” and masturbate me and we would both cum at the same time!

Imagine the guy getting fucked in a 69 with another guy. A 3-way where all 3 cocks are getting some at once.

I've had it both ways and I think I prefer the guy fucking me play with my cock.

If I was erect before anal penetration (by plug, dildo whatever), then jerking can produce an orgasm. If I already was penetrated and had a few assgasms, then I'll be soft and no amount of jerking will trip me over, it just gets in the way of stronger sensations stemming from my butt.

This is an interesting topic because often when I am being penetrated I am not hard. I get hard toward orgasm but while a guy is fucking me I think the stimulation is so centralized around my anus. I like the guy to use my hole while I jerk off, I can control the speed and pressure.

There is nothing like a organism while getting fucked . I found the best way is to have a 3 rd sucking you off at the same time . Did it once and it was great hope to find someone to do it with again soon