Dominant emotion of your medfet

Hi, I find it interesting that you're here, I'm here, we're all here to masturbate (apologies to the 1% of you who just come here to “read the articles”). We're like a club of masturbators and we all assemble in our own little spaces with our own little phones (or tablets, or laptops or desktops) and we fantasize about our own little fetishes while we manually stimulate our own little penises or vaginas until we (hopefully, if all goes according to plan) have our own little orgasms. We're the gleest club in town we have more glee than Glee.

Anyway, enough of that. On to my question. What emotion would you say best describes your biggest masturbatory fantasy? Embarrassment? Fear? Anger? Sadness? Am I right with my assumption that the dominant emotion is embarrassment? Or is that just me projecting? I know i really get off from the embarrassment associated with my high school sperm donation for the pretty female doctor fantasy.

For me it's all about the embarrassment or humiliation of being in the unfamiliar (play) medical situation of being examined naked . This I feel, stems directly from my real childhood experience in hospital.

Embarrassment has absolutely nothing to do w/ it for me.

My medfet emotions as patient are mostly embarrassment about being examined naked and more, leading to excitement and pleasure at the humiliation.

As a medfet doctor. it's curiosity and sometimes jealousy about the other guy's size and how much he's into medfet.

For me, vulnerability. What will happen to me if I am nude? Will the doctor make me feel pain or pleasure? Maybe the doctor will be inappropriate and take advantage of me.

My emotions do have something to do with embarrassment and being very reluctant to undergo any kind of examination or procedure. But at the same time I imagine that the reluctance isn't really dominant because deep down I wish for nothing more. I suppose I want to be forced by someone else to undergo something I long for, but daren't initiate on my own.

My medfet fantasies and experiences as a patient don’t center specifically on embarrassment or fear, but those feelings aren’t too far off from what I’m feeling – you might say they are in the right neighborhood. I’d say that the key feelings are exposure, vulnerability, and loss of control. In the other role as a play doc, I’m generally looking to induce these feelings in my patient and experience them vicariously while also enjoying seeing him stripped down for my thorough exam. It all boils down to varying degrees of power exchange – my other kinks (e.g. bondage, spanking, prison roleplay, pervy coach, etc) have similar elements in them and can be combined in lots of creative ways.

Anxiety I wanted to be worried about what the hell's going to happen I don't know why I like anxious sex but it it's my favorite.

Might be that the fact that I just don't give a shit and I I didn't feel it most of my life as far as other stuff I just don't have anything really scares me and anxious about what's going to happen during sex makes me horny as hell

This is an interesting thread.

I think embarrassment is definitely a big part of it for me and actually the fear and anticipation of that embarrassment.

The loss of control and the power dynamic are also a big part of it and linked to the embarrassment because the doctor can make you discuss intimate things and undress and “assume the position”. He has authority to embarrass you.

@chrissiewilliams23 I think you got it. The power of the doctor of make one do very intimate and humiliating things is what drives the emotions.

Actually, I do like to read the articles, as you put it. I think the psychology of sexuality is more interesting than most of the porn we all have access to (which is either over the top, poorly done, or acted out by women I am not attracted to [and I have a pretty strict threshold to what I am attracted to]).

Now on to what you really wanted to ask: my biggest fantasy isn't even a medfet fantasy, per se. It is simply to be fellated. Specifically in a tongue swirl blow job. And the biggest emotion that goes with that is a huge physical release (which could well bring on a bunch of emotions. I'll never know. I am what some people call a “cripcel”).

But my biggest medfet fantasy? Probably just bedroom sex in all its forms, but with her wearing her transplant or COVID mask the whole time she doesn't need her mouth for anything. Again, a bit of release, but also dominance. In my fantasy, she willingly submits to everything I want, but ultimately, it is all about me getting my sexual release from her. I'll admit, though, sometimes I do have a fear about things not going right: me not maintaining an erection at the right time, her faking anything, etc.

So:

@chrissiewilliams23 answered the question beautifully. The only thing I can add to it is that some people shouldn’t have that power.

I’m here to masturbate figuratively at best. Due to my T8 spinal cord injury, I’ve had absolutely (no) sensation or voluntary movement bellow my rib cage in now over fourteen years. My only still functioning sex organ is my artistic brain. I’m mostly here to share my art illustrations for the rest of you to possibly and hopefully get your rocks off with, or at least be a fantasy assist.

I do actually enjoy reading the posts here, and as a very visual person, I really enjoy some of the photos.

I find what I am ‘into’ to be purely electric raw erotic and often reminiscent. (It has absolutely nothing to do with emotions for me).

Like others, I, too, read the articles. We all masturbate, therefore; the embarrassment does not play a big role for me. I know many are up tight about their bodily functions and thus, we find the thought of doing something that either through your religious beliefs or your parent's mis-guidance is not supposed to happen either at all or with others a taboo activity. In actuality, I enjoy masturbating or being masturbated but others a wonderful sexual experience and not an embarrassment. The stories here can be interesting but I must admit they have never led to masturbation. I envy those who can be stimulated in that way.

For me the biggest emotion is attention on me and the necessity of it being for my health.

Is erotic passion an acceptable answer? I love getting carried away by it all and getting inside my own head so my orgasms flows through me.

Bithesea

I feel the same way a you do about masturbating. I do it not because it is considered to be taboo,but because I like to do it. I do it whenever I can do it. When I do it, I do it to completion. As I have said, when I am about to cum, I hold one of my hands to the tip of my penis and allow all of the cum that comes out of me to first land on my hands. I then hold the hand with the cum on it to my mouth, lick it all of and hold it for a moment in my mouth. After about ten to fifteen seconds I swallow it all down. I have been know to do this two or three times a day on some days. It all depends on the time I have to do any masturbating. I do like the taste of my own cum very much.

Albert

The main feeling for me is one of vulnerability, along with excitement at what's happening. The doctor is fully clothed and probing and prodding me whilst I'm stripped down to my boxers. In a way there's a sense of embarrassment, but when I'm dressed that way I'm not wearing any less or am less covered than I would be if I was on the beach.

The vulnerability comes from knowing I'm almost but not quite, naked and knowing thay at some point my boxers will be coming off and I'll be fully naked, but not quite sure when.

The enjoyment comes from having a feeling like I'm a subject for the doctor as I lie there being felt all over or listened to, or sitting up and them going all round with there instrument it's, whether it's a stethoscope being touched all over me, or the light shining into my mouth, eyes and ears.

Feeling nurtured. Humiliation is a big one too. Feeling like the center of attention for example in an examination.

Like others, when I'm masturbating the fear of being caught and exposed is one of the dominant feelings I have. It's not that I don't want to be found out and exposed, because I do enjoy the stares from others when they're watching me, so I guess shame is another emotion I'm feeling.

I often feel i'm doing something bad when I'm masturbating. My mom caught me a few times when she unpinned my diaper in the morning to help me get ready for school. She noticed the cum on my diaper and pee-pee when she cleaned me and told me I should try to stop wetting my bed and meet girls instead of touching myself under my diaper during the night. Even now when I have my hand under my diaper and my fiancee sees me I get a little scared or embarrassed that I'm being naughty and she will tell me to grow up.

For me, it's totally tactile. I am nearly nude and know that at any time soon, I will feel someone else's hands on my bare skin. I have no fear of being naked so that doesn't come into the situation. In fact, for one dermatologist, I was asked to remove all my clothes and I was given a small paper sheet to cover my lap. When the doctor came in and shut the door, the paper sheet blew off and she merely kicked it out of the way and began asking me questions about my skin condition. The nurse with her looked at me in alarm but relaxed when I smiled back at her. It was a very thorough examination with a lot of time spent around my pubic area, with me loving the feelings I was getting from two women looking at my naked body, and the doctor's hands all over my naked skin. It was totally non-sexual but I was feeling VERY sexual from the perfect exam. I didn't get erect but I could tell that it was about to happen and I enjoyed that feeling. She stopped just as I was losing control and I was relieved/disappointed. Yes, for me it's always the tactile feelings I get from the exams that I like the most.

Well, it will be difficult for me to describe the dominant emotions during acting out, but I will try to do it and explain everything as it should. (Still, Russian is my native language)

The first emotion is care.

Yes, care is it. Just because I am still a doctor, and as my boyfriend told me today, he spoke to me formally several times because he sincerely believed that his attending physician spoke to him, although the situation was not at all the same.

I was in his apartment and we were doing some kind of inspection. Why some kind of? Because so far we have agreed that I will not watch his body, but this is only for now. We need to build a deeper connection with him, and I can do it, I'm sure.

The second emotion is responsibility.

After all, in my opinion, doctors are the people on whom the most difficult task lies - saving human lives. And it's rather unusual to feel like someone who can do anything with a person. And that's ... pretty cool. This is my favorite feeling to be honest.

The third emotion ... It is actually difficult to describe this feeling. I would draw an analogy between a firefighter and a rescued child. This is what the actual firefighter feels when the rescued person feels safe, in shelter, in refuge. And this person looks at the firefighter as a savior. I do not know what this emotion is called, and if you can name it correctly, then he is a great fellow. 😄

And the last emotion ... Well, I won't call it emotion, but just the fact that you are in physical contact with a person can turn me on. Not always, of course, but in most cases it is quite possible.

The way your patient looks at you ... It's unforgettable.

For me, the most prominent “fascination” (arousal) I experience is when I know I am seeing someone experience the emotions which cause them to become electrified with arousal. It's particularly fascinating when I know the embarrassment, vulnerability, exposure and other commonly negative emotions are ultimately what that person is yearning for. As difficult and embarrassing as being examined, or punished, or peeing etc in front of others may be, the person it's happening to is obviously affected by it in a very sexual way. This only compounds on the initial vulnerability and exposure they were feeling, because now others will know the full truth, that this predicament is ultimately something they brought on themselves.

It's powerful to imagine someone having a very emotion filled orgasm, as they are experiencing the most intense vulnerability and embarrassment.

For me, the most prominent “fascination” (arousal) I experience is when I know I am seeing someone experience the emotions which cause them to become electrified with arousal. It's particularly fascinating when I know the embarrassment, vulnerability, exposure and other commonly negative emotions are ultimately what that person is yearning for. As difficult and embarrassing as being examined, or punished, or peeing etc in front of others may be, the person it's happening to is obviously affected by it in a very sexual way. This only compounds on the initial vulnerability and exposure they were feeling, because now others will know the full truth, that this predicament is ultimately something they brought on themselves.

It's powerful to imagine someone having a very emotion filled orgasm, as they are experiencing the most intense vulnerability and embarrassment.

You have captured to a tee how I feel when I go potty in my diapers and rubber pants in front of someone who knows and can see what I'm doing and how both aroused and humiliated I feel as I wet my diapers like a naughty child wetting his pants in front of his teacher, or a teen going wetting in front of his girlfriend.

Control both in fantasy and in reality is the driving force for me. In fantasy it's fine, in reality it's intoxicating when a competent, intelligent adult woman puts her self under my control, when she does what I instruct, when she allows what I perform.

An interesting question. However, feeling or describing sexual or other emotions is at least once-removed from those emotions themselves - which are always a given of our animal natures. That said, they may still have recurrent or typical features. I have said here previously that my medfet seems based on my having undergone (submitted to) childhood surgery, and seems like a compensatory mechanism for my lack of control then. Also, there is an element of fascination in seeing (and feeling) one's body react to sexual stimuli. A simple example … l used to think my nipples totally unsexual (whatever l read or heard). Now l'm fascinated (that word again) by how if l just lightly stimulate each one separately with a finger, it quickly becomes erect! That phenomenon l find/feel to be sexy!

- Ken

In short, in common with others, it's feelings of vulnerability, submission, exposure and embarrassment which it stirs up for me and which appeal. Different scenarios may have a different mix of each of those.

A feeling of abnegation; I totally let myself go into my body's needs and feels, and wish I would have some orders to follow to dig deeper in that feeling.

Also yeah to the masturbation online club 😉

Abnegation? Do you renounce, reject and repudiate your body? Or totally the oopposite- be led by your your body's needs and imperative and surrender to them? If I can tap in to that feeling in somebody then that surrender opens the floodgates for those masturbatory orgasms -and increase their intensity.

So Yeah! to the online masturbators club (or even master baters!)