Being with a Switch

I have never been with a woman who was a switch, but the thought more than intrigues me. Perhaps it's just pushing against one's boundaries, all that we have been brought up with in our cultural experiences, but it certainly takes trust, imagination and accurate role-playing. I'm saying that from the outside, looking inwardly, forming my own expectations. I think that once a person goes there and submits to someone else's desires, fantasies, and role-reversal, it will settle out some. But, with all things sexual this is a large playful pastureland.

I would like to experience it, sounds exciting.

Honestly I prefer being dominated, butt my last 2 play sessions with a friend he wanted me to dominate him. It was fun.

I am a sub first and foremost but my Dom does like me to switch occasionally and I am enjoying it. Might have to change my username to “ secret-switch” one day. lol

I am a sub first and foremost but my Dom does like me to switch occasionally and I am enjoying it. Might have to change my username to “ secret-switch” one day. lol

Or secret squirrel.

Switching is exciting, broadens the horizon and creates trust.

I am all about exploring and experiencing new things. I enjoy “switching things up“ occasionally and will take on different roles depending on the scenario. I had a play partner that wanted to explore her dominant side and for a couple of months. When we met and played I was her submissive and did as I was told. It was truly one of the most refresh experiences I ever had. To this day, I enjoy a chat where we can both “switch up” the traditional roles and talk about things that we never thought we’d try.

I am more on submissive side, but I do like to dom, too. Said that, I have no interest in switching roles with same partners. I just see some as dominant and other as submissives. And to make things more complicated, often my perception is aligned with others roles. There are many dominants that I would rather dom myself than submit to, and some subs I would gladly submit with.

All above aside, playing both roles gives better experience in each role. I guess knowing it from both sides.

I like to be submissive sometimes but dominating is more exciting and fun

I was a sub starting out many years ago. Then I turned into a switch . But now prefer being the dom but will switch for the right person.