Enema Headspace

Something I don't think gets talked about enough is the headspace of giving and receiving enemas. I have have experiences on both sides of the fence. One sides being the top was very involved in coaxing the headspace along or nurturing it. On the other side I've had tops that were very disconnected and almost robotic.

I can't speak for others but I love a top that's involved with my headspace, reassuring me along the way that to relax, enjoy it, you can take more water, hold it just a bit longer, etc. As well from the tops perspective I love a bottom that is expressive and I can connect with and nurture their experience.

What I am saying is don't be afraid to get involved with the people you're play with, their already most often naked infront of you, enjoy it!

I think that was very well said. Communication and encouragement in this context is a beautiful thing.

Absolutely! To give a "good enema" in my experience with family means putting myself in their place and making them as comfortable as possible by verbal reinforcement ("you're doing great, remember your breathing, just a little more," etc.). I believe the "touch" is important, a gentle non-sexual physical contact during the enema, such as light massage of the lower back or legs. As I have often written before on the site, giving an enema is also an act of caring.

I have only given enemas on occasion to my husband and daughters, so I don't know how I would feel with others. I can only judge myself based on caring for the people I love, but my family has told me that I would make a good nurse.

I was talking about this today on another post. The headspace is a critical part of our play as with larger enemas I enter a deep subspace. My wife talks me through it, but there have been several occasions where I have found myself on the toilet wondering how I got there.

I love thinking about, anticipating, and giving myself the much needed and wanted hot, soapy enemas that will feel crampy, amazing, painful and very pleasurable. I love to feel my vulva get moist as the abundance of Ivory soap makes my stomach really cramp bad. I hold a towel against my stomach to lean on. The fullness, moaning, expelling and the stinky smell keep me in my treasured enema headspace.

Hmmmm, my partner [Barb] and I have enjoyed enemas together for over 20+ years, I'm the ‘top’ but frankly we are both very much into the pleasure aspect of enemas / anal play. When taking a series ( which we do almost every weekend ) we coach each other, and massage when necessary. What a great feeling - being close. On occasion we party with a gay male couple where we have an ‘enema party’ in that situation Barb and I become the givers - always fun and they really enjoy it.

The headspace and he verbal back and forth are critical for me. I hate stoic givers and receivers. My experience over time is that enema play occurs in different scenes by different people For example there is the sensual, or buddy play, there is the medfet, the role-play, and BDSM scenes. I like to learn my partners buzzwords/phrases and desired scene so I can hit them and drive them sexually nuts. Likewise, for me there is the "foreplay" - getting undressed, being in just my undies knowing what is going to happen, filling the bag, being told I am getting an enema, as well as the discussion en process - just a little more, no, you need to take the full bag, and others. I find a scene can be emotionally cathartic verbally followed by the actual catharsis caused by the enema. I love when my giver meets me in my headspace and pushes the envelope as I like to do when giving. Others mentioned the physical touch. I love rubbing the receiver's back, edging him, fucking his ass with the nozzle, and maybe spanking him. All so good!

Headspace is an interesting description. Absolutely correct though. Certainly the procedure itself is enjoyable, but the greater part of the enjoyment is indeed inside our headspace. That mental treat is not confined to enemas, but common to nearly everything we lump into the category of erotic. I can't speak for anyone else, but I think many folks gain as much pleasure from devising and implementing their partner's path to orgasm as they do from their own. Headspace makes the difference between a quick wank, and a lifetime lover!

Actually theres quite a science to it the enteric system or gut brain is very powerful yet quite pleasurable when manually accessed! the course brain(intestines and colon) fine brain the one on top its pretty wild what can be done for extreme pleasure