@Vicki_V said,
Absolutely! To give a "good enema" in my experience with family means putting myself in their place and making them as comfortable as possible by verbal reinforcement ("you're doing great, remember your breathing, just a little more," etc.). I believe the "touch" is important, a gentle non-sexual physical contact during the enema, such as light massage of the lower back or legs. As I have often written before on the site, giving an enema is also an act of caring.
When my siblings and I were growing up in the nineteen fifties, our grandmother taught mom's two younger sisters, to take care of us when they reached their preteens. I was six, the older girl twelve, and her sister eleven. So, to us, the girls were more like siblings than aunts. Grandma, having made them responsible for our evening bath, which included enemas, and the occasional spanking. In the beginning, the girls gave us enemas laying naked across their bare lap. As they held the nozzle in place, they rubbed the small of our back, while the warm soapy or rinse water filled our colon. If we got too wiggling around to much, they'd tell us, "There's just a little more. Try and hold on." If the same thing happened, while we were holding an enema, they'd tell us, "You're almost done. Just a little longer." All while, giving us a good back rub.
The primary reason, grandma gave the girls responsibility for our evening bath, including enemas and occasional spanking, was twofold. First, was to give them practical experience, taking care of children under her supervision. Second, they gave one another enemas when needed, during evening bath time. Making it convenient for them, to give us enemas at the same time. So, we not only witnessed our siblings being given enemas, but the girls too. Letting us know, our two young aunts received enemas, just like we did.
When I was nine, they switched from giving us enemas laying across their lap, to the knee chest position. At the same time, they also switched from the adult rectal nozzle, to a long-curved douche nozzle, like we'd seen them use on each other. Once that happened, they not only rubbed our back, but starting rubbing our stomach as well.
The thing about the girls, they were closer in age, and more like older siblings, than aunts. Making it easier to talk to them openly, about things, we wouldn't bring up with either mom or grandma. However, there was a downside, when they had to spank us, for one reason or another. Mom or grandma would tell them before bath time, which of us needed a spanking. Meaning, one or all of us, were going to get a spanking before his/her enemas. Something the girls had mix emotions about doing. But something, I can definitely testify about. They could both do a number on our bare bottoms, making them good and sore, when required to do so.
Our grandmother was a retired RN, and kept a close watch on her two younger daughters. Especially when it came to giving us enemas or a spanking. We'd occasionally overhear grandma asking them, how we were doing, when they gave us enemas or had to spanked us. They'd tell her, if they had any issues, then ask, how she would've handled it. That too, had a downside, overhearing their conversation, let us know when we were in trouble ahead of time. Knowing which one, or if all of us were in trouble, and going to get a good spanking.
Communications meant a lot, when we were growing up. Some of it good, some of it bad. But either way, we knew what was going to happen and why. And that was especially true, when it came to getting a spanking. Enemas on the other hand, were a different story, we all like enemas from an early age. So, we looked forward to them, because they tickled our anal erotic itch, we all had.