Sissy baby girls

Hello now Im not in NO way knocking the sissy babys but can ANYone please explain to me why if your not gay or ect (NOT SAYING YOU ARE GAY IF YOUR A SISSY ) you like the idea of being in dresses and being a baby girl ? Some of the pics I see of the sissy babys well go to EXTREMES and I wouldnt even dress a real babygirl the way some sissy baby girls dress ?

Im not knocking ANYONE or there lifestyle Im only asking so I can learn not to Hate .

To start off I'd just like to ask: why do any of us like the things we do? Why do we like diapers? For some it stimulates a sexual feeling, others think it's just fun to wear them, and some just don't know why but they do anyway. Correct me if I'm wrong but I think it's the same thing with dressing up as a sissy, maybe they think it's fun and maybe sexual but maybe they have no idea why, they just do it because it makes them feel good and that's what counts right?

"Im only asking so I can learn not to Hate ."

how open minded of you...

Well i dont like being a girl or want to play one but i think that most would like it becasue the diapers a submissive type deal and the idea of being forced into a dress by a dominant other would be along the lines of embaressment and submissive. so i dont know why they like but they do and who are we to preach to them . why do we like diapers? who cares dont hate nobody here man we are all good people wether they are gay or straight or diaper lover, or adult baby , cloth, disposable, WHo cares realy live and let live !!!! my neophew is gay and hes a bad ass kid so to say hes a sissy he would kick the shit out of you for it hes a 6th degree blackbelt and kick boxes for fun hes no sissy but he is gay and i love him no matter what he is or does . so daddycrue do you still hate sissy boys or do you just not realy understand the fetish they like? either way i dont think they hate you becuase your dominant and they are not and dont undertand your point of view!! so from one straight baby boy whos no sissy dont hate anyone here man we are supposed to all have one thing in common and thats the diapers gay or straight !!!!! thanks for reading and i dont hate ya for your point of view at all i just think you dont realy understand their point of view on things

Whoa wait a min Mamas boy you need to RE read my post I said NOTHING at all about hating anyone I was Only asking to LEARN not hate or ect please re read what I asked , I ask to LEARN not to hate if I came on here and bitched at the sissys that would be one thing but I didnt , I asked to be taught something I didnt understand about the lifestyle , if you look at it its just like a question so say like why do people like cloth diapers instead of disposables , see cause people wanna know and learn , Please resend your comment cause I am in NO way bitching about the gays , others here started that .

So please anyone else who reads this READ MY POST CAREFULLY Im not here to BASH Im here to ask so I learn

Daddy

Oh my bad imsorry it sounded read like you wanted to learn not to hate!!! that sounds like you already hate and dont want to anymore!!! like i said its no biggie to me either way !!! no harm done glad we cleard it up !!! And i dont care im still not wearing a dress no matter how bad ive been !!!!!! 😁

I am not gay nor do I have anything against gays but I do drees up at home as sissy baby girl. I just wish that I could do it outside as well. I love the idea of having my thick bulky cloth diapers and a pair pink or yellow or ever pink or yellow frilly/nursery print plastic panties showing from under my very short sissy baby dress that my mommy picks out for me

I'm a straight nappy wearing male, but do like to dress as a baby girl some times. I love all the frilliness etc. Personally I think it's just extra escapism. Whilst sucessful in my life I have very few outlets where I can get away from being me and the stresses that go with it. This is why I htink I like nappies as I find wearing them very calming and comforting.

The sissy side I think is just a way of stepping even further away from the busy stressed out man I normally am and thus leaves all the troubles and concerns behind too.

The fantasy of being forced to wear sissy clothes I think comes largely from the fact that if you are forced by someone else then you can't feel guilty about making the choice yourself.

Just my opinion but it makes a lot of sense to me.

BB.

I'm not gay, and I'm not a sissy. I have tried the whole cross-gender thing before, and I did kind of like the way women clothes felt, the pantys feels so good when they huge your body, and the dresses and the nylons really full fills the whole role of being a cross-dresser, but its not something I would do in public, or around women, but if I had a girlfriend that was sort of strict, but loving at the sametime, and really wanted to know what it would be like to have a baby girl, but not actually get have one yet, and she wanted to use me to satisfy her needs, I would most defenetly obey her every command, and wear what ever she wanted me to wear.

I again am straight but I love dress as a sissy baby girl for a change (excuse the pun) 😄. The other thing is that usually baby boys don't get the chance to show off their diapers and plastic pants very often and that by wearing short baby dresses can show off my thickly cloth diapered and my many different plastic pantied bottom to all the mommies and female babysitters out there, And I think that a bonnet or two makes me look and feel more babyish

I believe some of the reasons maybe due to the fact that boys baby clothes are less attractive in allots of ways. Some are indeed very cure, but for the most part kind of boring. I think some male children see things like woman and girls making a big fuss over the baby girls clothes, and want some of that attention. There too, is the part of being humiliated and made to where girls clothes. That is also a great way to have attention paid to ones boy self. I'm sure there are lots of other things involved here to bring on the feelings. Some are little things, and plant them selves deep in our minds, some are very clear and up front. Whatever they are, acting on them or playing them out don't always mean what someone Else's label or idea of that applies.

I am a straight married man and have a wife that does not like my diaper wearing but as I stated before in a different post, she gets extremely excited seeing me in panties and will buy them for me.

In our society, men have watched girls and women get pampered, wearing pretty, sexy, lacy clothing and we are resided to wearing jeans and t-shirts and uncomfortable cotton underwear. While most men do not wish to be a woman or dress in womens clothing, the idea of having the fantasy of occasionally being forced to dress as a baby girl, school girl etc. is nothing more than sexual fantasy. Everyone no matter if they are woman, man, gay, straight or whatever have some kind of sexual fantasy.

For me, my sexual fantasies, my love of diapers and panties is merely a way to release all the built up stress that comes with life. Wearing diapers and having fantasies is much more relaxing to me to help with my stress than going out drinking or doing drugs and even costs less when you think about it. So, I make no judgment on anyone no matter their race, sexual preference or what they care to do in their spare time because I would hope that in return no one would judge me for my preferences.

So, that is how I learn not to hate. Who am I to judge and hate all these different things people do to enjoy themselves when I to have my own things they may not like. At least here I can talk openly with everyone and can pretty much be assured I will not be criticized or judged.

Talkabout - that was some good stuff in your post, I like the way you put it / that we all have our own little thing /

I think trying to understand some one is is a really commendable thing.

sexual orientation or preferences has nothing to do with being a sissy baby , even 80 to 90 % of all cross dressers are straight males. I don't know if it is passable to understand why some one would like doing a certain thing and not another. I think it comes down to asking that person why, then you may understand why for that person. But to ask why and expect a generic answer , you ask too much. It would be the some for AB/DL , they each have their own reason for wearing diapers.

An example : I love being a girl baby because when I was 4 years old my mom and dad broke up. I and my brother had to go with my dad and my sister staid with my mom. Now for me , a 4 yr. old, I thought that "if I was a girl I could have staid with my mom" The connection made perfect sense to me. So for the rest of my life I was left with the desire to be a girl. And for other reasons like all the things girls get to do and wear and the attention they get and from my perspective , girls seem to have easer in life then men.I grew up being straight but now I bend a little bit both ways. As I said in an other post , it helps me to feel more like a real girl.

Thanks Laura. Growing up in my family I watched my sisters continually get pampered with nice clothing top to bottom while I was rewarded with mostly rummage sale clothing and hand me downs. When I was much younger I would occasionally sneak my sisters clothing out of their rooms and dress myself in them trying to imagine how it would feel to be pampered that way. As I grew older I grew out of my resentment but never lost the love for panties and how great the felt next to my skin.

To this day though I have always wanted to build the courage to dress as a woman for Halloween (so I have an excuse) with a nice thick diaper under my skirt/dress that will last me through a night of drinking. But unfortunately with my job and position it is something that will never happen locally.

Diapers began with less trauma than for most so I'd say my first experiences were as a diaper lover. I liked the sense of security once I was diapered but I also liked the notion of being "lovingly" diapered by my mom. When my aunt began making me wear girl's clothing along with the diapers there was an intense feeling of humiliation and embarrassment that translated itself into submission which attached itself to my love of diapers. The more feminine (sissified) translated and merged into becoming more submissive or girl like (with apologies to girls). When I found myself alone with the opportunity to fondle myself, but now wearing girl's clothes, the textures (silk, nylon, taffeta, chiffon, etc.) began adding to the "notion" of being feminized and thus the intensity in both my sexual arousal and gratification. A fetish is all about senses and you've got six if you add your imagination to the other five. It should also be noted that we all do this by degrees.

Rubs

Sissy 2 Baby

Ah yes, the girly clothes , wetting my diapers, the humiliation==

I enjoys it all-- but not all the time-- with me, I was both diaper disciplined and dressed as a baby girl at different

times- I think I somehow linked humiliation with attention.

Also I liked the security of diapers and was difficult

to potty train--- I'm still a big baby and enjoy it without

analyzing it too much--- sometimes a big sissy baby.

I have on occassion tried to figure out why I like what I like. And sometimes I think I came to some conclusions. But the truth is I just like to pretend that I am a baby and all that goes with it. Sometimes it's sexual but often times it's not. I also go through the guilt as I'm sure many of us do.

I sometimes like to fantasize about being forced to wear diapers and sissy baby clothes. I don't know why. I just do.

If you met me and knew much about me and my personal life and hobbies you would be shocked to hear about this side of me.

I don't harm anyone else. I don't force my fantasies on anyone else. I don't abuse alcohol, drugs or other people.

I am who I am. I wish I had someone to confide all this in but I don't. So instead I frequent these sites and talk to other people who are often times braver than me in their admissions and openess but others who are just exactly like me. Leading two completely seperate lives (one very secretive).

I suppose you could say a guy wearing sissie dresses is pretty weird. You could also say an adult wearing diapers and plastic panties is wierd also. I do both so I must be doubly weird. That is ok with me. I love it!!

Pottypanties

I like being a sissybaby for my wife/mommy

A diapers is a submissive type and the idea of being forced into a dress by a dominant other would be along the lines of embaressment and submissive. So dont preach to them. Is not why we like diapers? who cares I dont hate anybody, We ar all here beacuse we like diapers. I'm from oz and have been into diapers and sissy-girl for most of my life. me a baby 24/7 love grilly clothes and other things 😃 I am person(sissy) with a GSOH. I can't change the person I am and want try to change you. don't :'( about thing we can't change

To answer daddcrue's question. I am a 20 year old male but since i was about 9 i have wanted to be a girl. Sissy and forced feminization fantasies are the only way i can get the satisfaction that i need until i have sexual reassignment surgery. and when i do have the surgery i will still only be attracted to girls.

I would have to say we like doing the things we do because society says your not supposed to! So its like the Forbidden Fruit of old Adam and Eve We are curious and rebellious in nature! And come on Guys clothes are boring as hell! what has happened to the "suit" over the last what 100 years? the collars grew and shrunk? If I had a choice between talking to two men one wearing a suit the other something borderline feminine? I'd pick the Feminine Guy!

For some of us the crossdressing and infantilism go hand in hand. For others there is a separation.

To automatically clump them together is an assumption. I for example have worn diapers under my clothes without wearing any female clothes. On the other hand I've worn leotards and tights under my clothes.

It depends on the individual and their circumstances.

I believe that there is something in the early years of one's life that create an imprint that drives a person to desire, and even to 'need' to be dressed. Here is how it started for me.

I was born in 1951, a time of sexual repression and a time that seemed to carry over some habits and beliefs from years before. I was raised by three women, my mother, my grandmother, and my godmother (also my aunt). I was four years old before I had my first haircut. To this day, I remember the long curly blonde hair that reached almost to my behind. Comments to my grandmother who took me shopping with her on a daily basis were always in the realm of, "what a pretty little baby girl you have." I was dressed I'd frilly clothes for the longest time. I remember spinning around to make my lace trimmed dress bulge out and puff up. It was only when I started in boarding school at the tender age of 5 that I was told I was a boy. That imprint of being a girl has been with me for my whole life.

I remained in boarding school till I was 18. During my pre pubescent and early pubescent years, the school was run by catholic nuns. Often, I'd fall asleep dreaming and wishing I could be put into a frilly dress. That was the time that the baby side of me bloomed as well. Hugging my pillow to myself at night, and enjoying, but not understanding that strange new feeling between my legs, I'd wish, then dream of being diapered as well as being put into a frilly dress.

A few times I wet the bed, and was laughed at and teased by the other boys. As a punishment and a precaution the dormitory sister started to put me into a thick cloth diaper and rubber pants. As shameful as this was, I'd fall asleep happy and became addicted to the wonderful feeling of being in a nice wet, wRm diaper.

Now, widowed and retired, I live 24/7 at home as a sissy gurl in diapers.

I still have, not only an urge, but a driving 'need' to be in contact with frilly feminine things and infantile clothing. When diapered and dressed, I feel secure... ...secure in a way that words can't seem to express.

Hey you all. . .first of all, the one who want to build courage to dress as a woman for Halloween and you know the other people you work with they maybe be dressing up for Halloween and may be a Halloween party where you work at. And it's a good idea about wearing a diaper under a dress and you don't have to go to the restroom.

I am straight and I wear diapers too and I like be a baby girl. YES there are straight men who have a wife or girlfriend or mother who know about his lover of whom dresses up as a woman & wear diapers, and yes there are gays and lesbians who want their lover to diaper them up and dress pretty

I really dont care if a guy wants to wear diapers and frilly lacy dresses. More power to them, but I would not want to date a guy in a diaper or one wearing a dress. I like mach tough men not feminine guys.I dont have anything against you wanting to be your sissy self as long as I dont have to change your diaper

First off, I am not gay or any member of the LGBQT+ community. I support the community completely, but it's not me. For me, dressing as a sissy baby girl has several different aspects to it. Either I am regressing to a 3-5 yr. old boy who can't keep his big boy pants dry and is being punished for it by being dressed as a little girl in diapers, or I am regressing to a 4-6 little girl who can't keep her big girl panties dry and is still in diapers. Also, it can just be that I am a grown man who is being sissy baby punished by his wife for still wearing diapers because he still wets and messes his pants and training pants. Whatever the reason, if you want to dress as a sissy baby girl, go for it!

When young and being dressed as a baby girl . I always remember all the positive things . As a boy i was never told that i was lovely or beautiful and as a baby girl i was . I loved the special clothes the primping and preening . The kisses and cuddles and the way the women just made me the center of attention . Things little boys never seem to get and i suppose crave when seeing female relatives treated this way . I suppose it may even lead to resentment of women later on in life . I on the other hand felt that i floated on a lovely pink cloud of love and support .

In answer to the first question about being a sissy and not gay.

I LOVE crossdressing (and do the baby Girl / Diaper thing sometimes) but I have absolutely no interest in men. I do it to feel like a Girl, I suppose a lesbian girl? Love having my wife Peg me while dressed w/ panties down, but that is not the focus, just BEING a GIRL is enough fantasy for me.