Propositioned offer, no I don't think so!

Have you ever been propositioned when you are out at a party. We did a little Club meeting with a few new guests at friend's house last night. We were all dressed according to our special interests. Half way through the evening I was approached by a rather foreboding individual. She had a demanding order for me to follow her to her house. I know what the F##k you need and I am going to make sure you get it tonight. Her words, that set off a whole bunch of red flags. My old Mercedes Benz and I turned to the highway home instead of following her demanding orders and old ford to her place. When the prefix to my age turned to a 7 I quit these offers from much younger and moist individuals.

So there is the question, has anyone ever made you an offer that your Spidey Sense has warned you off of?

Probably a very good call, Naughty Elf. It's a very good bet that she did not mean that what you needed was a dry diaper and a sound spanking before being sent to bed…

Those propositions, the ones that come across as threatening, are rarely what we hope.

Stay diapered and well my friends

Not at a party, but at dinner while traveling alone.

I had gone out to eat alone at a nice restuarant in Vientiane, Laos and while waiting to be seated, a nice looking man asked me to join him and I did. The conversation was going pretty well. He was asking good questions about me and actually listening to the answers. But after a short while, towards the end of dinner, his tone started changing. He started becoming very controlling, saying, "This is what you''re going to do! And he started telling me or rather commanding me to move from my hotel to an apartment, look for a job with an NGO (non-profit gov. org), he'd give me a list, etc. Weirdly, he gave all of these commands while looking down at his plate, never once looking me in the face.

My eyes grew wide as he continued to eat and give me a list of to-do items. Fortunately, he only knew my first name and not the hotel where I was staying. He demanded my phone number and I refused to give it to him saying I wasn't comfortable giving my number out to people I just met. He actually was nice about that and gave me his number ordering me to call him the next day. I tried to pay for my part of dinner but he refused my money. I wasn't sure what to think about it. He had a car and offered me a ride to my hotel, but I begged off saying I was going to the night market before going back to my hotel. He kissed my hand and left saying he looked forward to hearing from me tomorrow.

I went to the night market and wandered the aisles checking behind me to make sure he wasn't around and then took a car to my hotel. Fortunately, I never saw him again.

Very weird vibe. While I've come across pushy men in the US, I've never come across someone like this ever before or since.

@sweetkissestoo it sounds like you had some good instincts and made a good decision to get away from him. 🤔

@Naughty Elf. I would have followed her. @sweetkissestoo, Good spidey senses prolly saved you from an abusive relationship..

I suspect such propositions happen much more commonly to women than to men. On the other, before I met my wife, I would love to have had a girl or two hit on me, especially if I happened to be in diapers and rubber pants at the time and, of course, nice and wet.

@sweetkissestoo🌹

Wise move . .things like that can get ugly. Being so far from home soil was the best option considering what might have unfolded.

As cautious as I was in the given situation, I still fantasize about it and what could have been. My current friend acts out the same situation for me. We usually end up tangled together trying to get my diaper off to have sex.

Never been in such of a situation you need to listen to your instincts.

Not at a party but a bar or pub when I was about 21 or 22. I guess I was staring at a slightly older fellow who was gay, what caught my eye was his wide leather belt. As he was leaving for home, a ¼ mile away and everyone at the bar knew him, he walked up to me and told me that he should spank me with his belt (I really wanted a spanking). But I just laughed at him as he was leaving 😢! Really wish that i had gone with him for a proper spanking with his belt!

Proposition or not, I would never go someplace private/secluded with someone I just met. Too many psycho's out there. Also seen way to many spy movies where the hit woman seduces her target to get him alone then whacks him. lol

You are definitely at an age where you know you can trust the red flags your brain sends you NaughtyElf. I think perhaps as females we may have a head start on that Spidey Sense just from a safety perspective. I even talked to grade 7 girls about. ”Draw your line and stick to it with ANY a guy. Get to know him well before you dare to even step on that line with him, no matter how cute you think he is.”

@anng said:

I even talked to grade 7 girls about. ”Draw your line and stick to it with ANY a guy. Get to know him well before you dare to even step on that line with him, no matter how cute you think he is.”

I always tried to find the girls @anng hadn’t talked to. 👿

I always tried to find the girls @anng hadn’t talked to. 👿

How did that work out for you @gwhap? That lecture was part of the required sex ed that my fellow male teacher gave me all the grade 7 girls for! Who knows what he told the boys who were meeting in another room at the time. I think it must have been to “keep your penis in your pants unless you want a baby”!

How did that work out for you @gwhap? That lecture was part of the required sex ed that my fellow male teacher gave me all the grade 7 girls for! Who knows what he told the boys who were meeting in another room at the time. I think it must have been to “keep your penis in your pants unless you want a baby”!

Let's not forget about child support for the next 18 years!!

Summer, 1966, 16th birthday still a few months down the pike. I traveled solo on Greyhound to a church youth conference several hours away. On the first stop after boarding a rather large adult man sat down beside me and started “chatting me up”, telling me he had just been released from prison. He offered me a cigar, which I accepted and we lit up on the bus because smoking was no prohibited. The man showed me a roll of cash would have choked a horse, and then offered me a sizable chunk of it if I got off the bus with him at the next stop and let him suck my dick in the men's room of the bus station.

I don't recall being afraid or even nervous, just wary. I declined and the man accepted it. He asked, once more, before getting off the bus at the next stop, and I declined again. End of story.

Dayum, I haven't though of that in decades.

Just before Xmas the grocery store checkers would ask if you wanted to contribute $1 (or more) to some charity that bought gifts for needy kids or food for needy families. If you contributed, they would thank you and ring a bell. A 50'ish female checker asked if I would donate and I said sure, add a couple of bucks. I laughed when she vigorously rang the bell and made some comment that she was a good bell-ringer. She looked at me and smiled and said: “You can ring my bell anytime!”

I'm pretty sure she meant I could “contribute” anytime - but it was nice to think it was an invitation!! 😄

@gwhap Just before Xmas the grocery store checkers would ask if you wanted to contribute $1 (or more) to some charity that bought gifts for needy kids or food for needy families. If you contributed, they would thank you and ring a bell. A 50'ish female checker asked if I would donate and I said sure, add a couple of bucks. I laughed when she vigorously rang the bell and made some comment that she was a good bell-ringer. She looked at me and smiled and said: “You can ring my bell anytime!”

I'm pretty sure she meant I could “contribute” anytime - but it was nice to think it was an invitation!! 😄

I think I would have had to say “Don't tease me like that”, and just see what happened.

I was 17 and looking in a men's fashion shop window at some trendy shirts when a guy (quite good looking, very smartly dressed, and about 45) was standing alongside and suddenly said there was a good way of being able to pay for new clothes. I wasn't very well off then having just started work and I had to really think about this statement as I knew exactly what he meant. I said that I expected so and walked away. I often think about what might have happened and that it would have been enjoyable but I was young and nervous. Always regretted.

One sunday afternoon i decided to go out to the park read a book and chill. I found a spot near a rose garden sat on a bench and started reading. I noticed a guy sit on one of the benches. Next thing he starts talking to me small chit chat. He seemed like a pleasant enough guy, nicely dressed, average sort of guy…probably late 30's. So i chatted with him which led onto him asking me if i wanted to have something to eat with him. So i thought i am not doing anything better ok. He took me to a nice hotel restaurant in Kensington. I had a really nice meal with him and he insisted on paying. Then he asked me if i wanted to go back to his place.

I thought ahhh what the hell, i will have some fun with him. So we go to where he lived on Kensington High Street above the shops. We are in his living room fumbling about with each other and it's like he is trying to lure me into having sex with him without a condom on. I stopped twice and asked for condoms. The 3rd time he headed to the living room door then locked it and when he turned around it was like his eyes had glazed over and he switched. I'm more than capable of defending myself, the look in his eyes, and the fact that he instantly seem distant told me something was up and i told him to unlock the door. Then he started walking towards me not saying a single word.

I picked up the tv and said open the door or this goes straight through the fucking window. Knowing it would draw attention a tv coming out of a window on a high street. He then switched back and became really apologetic and opened the door. I put the tv down and headed towards the door and banged the man in the face as hard as i could he went down like a sack of shit and i walked out of there.

I honestly felt like i should have reported him to the police because it left me wondering who he had done that to before and hopefully they didn't get raped or something.

I’ve been propositioned many times. The time that stands out as being a little scary involved a plumber I got off Craig’s List to do some work in the master bath of the condo I owned after my divorce. I was doing laundry and had it spread on my bed as I was folding and sorting, the bathroom was off my bedroom and after he finished his work he stood around talking to me and started commenting on some of the items on my bed - underwear and pajamas. Freaked me out. I surreptitiously texted my neighbor and she and her husband came over pretending like we were all supposed to be going out. The plumber left shortly after but I was freaked out for weeks.

I picked up the tv and said open the door or this goes straight through the fucking window. Knowing it would draw attention a tv coming out of a window on a high street. He then switched back and became really apologetic and opened the door. I put the tv down and headed towards the door and banged the man in the face as hard as i could he went down like a sack of shit and i walked out of there.

What year did this happen? I haven’t seen a TV in a hotel that wasn’t a flat screen attached to a wall In at least 20 years. Sounds fishy.

What year did this happen? I haven’t seen a TV in a hotel that wasn’t a flat screen attached to a wall In at least 20 years. Sounds fishy.

The TV was not at the hotel it was in the guys “place” (home/apartment/condo…). The hotel was where they ate.

The TV was not at the hotel it was in the guys “place” (home/apartment/condo…). The hotel was where they ate.

My mistake. Still sounds like BS to me.

The TV was not at the hotel it was in the guys “place” (home/apartment/condo…). The hotel was where they ate.

And home/apartment/condo front doors are located off of the living room area. Think Dick VanDick or Lucy sitcoms as a visual.