Diapers on the down low in public. Tips for dignity.

We all have had diapers on under clothing when out and about in Public. Some of us by choice and some by the challenges of incontinence. Are there any tips as to preserving your dignity while soundly diapered in Public?

I myself get my tailer to allow extra room in my clothes to accommodate diapers and a snug-fitting onesie. Anton is very good at making my diapers disappear under my clothes. The snug-fitting onesie does the best part of concealing my diapered ass from prying eyes.

What tips do you good folks of Zity Biz use? Do any of us really care if anyone notices our diapers? Please share with us?

As an incontinent person myself and wearing diapers 24/7 going on nine years being very discreet. It's very important to myself that my diaper doesn't physically show for anyone to see the actual diaper.

That being said the diapers that I use do swell the wetter they get. I know it definitely becomes more noticeable but it doesnt bother me too much anymore. I use heavy incontinence diapers along with booster pads because of my diaper changes complications. As we all know that the heavier diapers are much thicker and harder to hide.

I personally. and certainly use the following items together or not depending on the outing. A solid color onsie and snug fitting spandex shorts. I always wear spandex shorts over my diaper except when I'm home.

I want to add that I'm currently using the Northshore Megamax diapers. These diapers are my total go to diapers, they definitely provide the protection and fit that I need. No embarrassing leaks, litte to no sagging even soaked.

Now you can get the Magamax in many different solid colors outside the basic diaper white. Because of the outstanding performance that I get and the different colors, by wearing a different color besides white I may not need to use a onsie to hide my diaper if it becomes exposed. If it gets exposed they may think it's just underwear by not being the basic diaper white.

Incontinent now for over 36 years and always very aware of keeping my Nappy a secret.

I always wear three stretch pants over my Nappy with a PUL pant over that, my usual attire is denim which are a reasonably loose fit and for most of the year when we go out I have a long coat that covers my butt fully, in the warmer weather however I just have to hope that the sretch pants are keeping the bulk down to a hardly detectable sight, I have now been wearing for so long I do not bother about worrying any longer.

Wearing a Nappy is what it is and I have no choice in the matter and so long as I have the stretch pants on then I do not worry about anything showing because it does not !

I am always careful not to bend down and always crouch saving any “square butt” signs or bulges.

At the end of the day other folks have thin pants/ knickers in their underwear drawer but we have padded underwear in ours-whats the big deal !

One thing I found out early on is that if you “embrace” the whole Nappy/Diaper thing you will find it is no longer the big problem you thought it was.

Enjoy your comfortable underwear.

I am out and about in plastic tapes disposable diapers often. It’s tough, never got used to it like I had imagined over time. when in jeans, no issue unless it does stick out of the back of my pants.

The issue is when I am in cotton shorts, more running style shorts, or cooler weather in cotton sweatpants. There is a slight diaper bulk. Not sure if anyone noticing, looking directly at that area, can definitely tell. Sometimes it does seem like it. Not completely sure they can tell. But, maybe some can. The parents, medical career people, nannies, sitters, people who are around diapers often enough will probably be able to instantly know. Always wondered if they can tell.

I wear cloth diapers and rubber pants whenever I go out from home. Most of the time my SO and I are together and I don't take much care over whether anyone notices I have diapers on. I know she will protect me from too much embarrassment and we both enjoy knowing that I am going potty in my diapers and being a little naughty. If the weather is nice as it usually is around here, I wear shorts over my diapers maybe a size larger than if I didn't have my diapers on. If the weather is cooler I wear sweatpants or jeans over my diapers. During the evening when we go out depending on where we go I wear good quality wool slacks over my diapers and rubber pants. I always go potty in my diapers when we are out and sometimes I need to be changed. She carries a diaper bag with her whenever we go out in case she needs to change me. Over the years she has changed my diapers in so many different places that its become second nature for us.

The new diapers I am wearing this month swell as well. They start trim and fit then they get bulky as I wet them. Rearz is my manufacturer of the month for my diapers. They start out dignified! LOL

Elf

When I go outside I usually have to put on a disposable diaper with plastic panties always covered with my wife's leggings, which compress the diaper and my plastic panties well to my buttocks and always keep them in place even when my diaper gets wet in my pant. I also keep my shirt out of my pants all the time to hide the barely detectable bulge my butt. I always take care not to lean or crouch down when there are people around me. But I must say that in the summer with the hot weather, it is more complicated to hide our layers, so I have to put on loose and short jogging pants with an oversized t-shirt always to hide the bulge of the buttocks, except when my Diaper was wet, it always tended to sag in the bottom of my jogging pants so my wet diaper was detected, that's when my wife found a little trick to watch my diaper in place, she bought me suspenders, clip and adjust well at my plastic panties with that my diaper stays in place, even if it is very wet, and that I have to keep it until my next diaper change, of course that is not always nice to wear suspenders, except they do the trick very well. That being said, I have been wearing diapers for several years now, I have to say that it bothers me more or less worrying about people seeing me that I am wearing a diaper.😊

Unless you're just blatantly obvious about your diapers (so bulky that you can't keep your legs together, wearing tight sweatpants with your plastic pants sticking four inches up out of the back and your t-shirt tucked in and not at all covering them up), nobody is going to notice your diapers.

Trust me. On the few rare times when I go out in mine, I actually want to be noticed--not by kids and not by other men, but by women, especially middle-aged women because they always give you that “I know what you're wearing” look of amused amazement and that “I'm about to laugh out loud at you” smirk.

But unless I'm about as obvious as described above, nobody seems to pay one bit of attention. People are off in their own worlds, thinking their own thoughts, and generally just not being very observant about whats going on around them. (Case in point--when there's a robbery and the police are questioning witnesses and often they disagree about the suspect's description or sometimes can only remember “He had on a red shirt” but nothing more).

For me to really be noticed in my diapers, they have to be thick, soaking wet and drooping, under tight pants or shorts, I have to be walking like a toddler with all the bulk between my lets, and often that doesn't do it--I'll pull my plastic pants up out of the back of my shorts and act like I don't know this, and even sometimes I have to drop my keys and bend over to get them. And even then, most people pay NO attention.

So I'd say just wear your diapers, if you think they might fall down, wear suspenders or a onesie under your clothes, loose pants, and don't worry about it.

On the few rare times when I go out in mine, I actually want to be noticed--not by kids and not by other men, but by women, especially middle-aged women because they always give you that “I know what you're wearing” look of amused amazement and that “I'm about to laugh out loud at you” smirk.

And they might well be wearing a nappy themselves 😉

Oh at one time I cared and had gussets in the seat of my pants so if I needed a godzilla diaper it wouldn't show much.,and I have over 400 onesies to help conceal them.life has away.of making you not care .

Also nobodies seen my ass or diaper in many years unless they are chqanging me ,I developed a rare neuromuscular disease ( and yes neurogenic bladder and bowel),it's progressive and degenerative so now I not only wear diapers ,i.have a 500 pound lead and metal ass,between my cotton tail and there eyes.

Although people expect and assume I wear diapers they can't confirm it unless they ask.( I am perfectly happy to tell them anything they want to know to educate them.without being a jerk) especially when parents are dragging a kid away because they wanted to know something telling them to shut up,there kids they need to learn.power chairs are natural and normal ,we don't bite )