Real legitimate massages turn sensual or erotic

It seems to me that all massages have an intimate or even sensual possibility. Even physical therapy or sports massage can feel good in that way, after all touch and physical contact is just that.

I'm curious to hear experiences that people have had at real licensed or legitimate massage places that turned sensual or erotica. Or perhaps your feelings when you weren't sure if the massage therapist was getting close to crossing that line.

Here is my experience that I posted on the nudism section but it could use a new thread here.

After 3 legit and awesome massages last year with a male licensed massage therapist, all properly draped but only with a sheet because I said the blanket was too warm (he could see what made me feel good); I went back recently for 2 more massages a few weeks apart, that surprisingly went much further than expected... he used his hands to make me cum. It was shocking in a way because he's licensed and I'm surprised he would take the risk.

Here's an overview of how they played out. The first (of the recent ones) massage was coming to an end and he asked if I wanted him to focus on anything before we ended (he asked this last year too but nothing special happened then) so I said how about more thigh and some abs work. It must have been the right thing to say because he started working groin/inner thigh and then abs all the way down into my pubes. Then one hand on inner thigh and one on lower abs in pubes…. Omg…. It felt… Then his hands met in the middle touching and the stroking directly on my penis until I came. It was so unexpected… This is a legit place and a licensed therapist.

And the next time and most recent massage I had from the same guy, while I was face down, he was working legs up until the glutes, but was only putting pressure on glutes through the sheet, so I said, you don't have to be so strict with the sheet if it's in your way, he took the meaning right away and completely uncovered me and worked all over my ass legs, inner thighs even massaging the perineum a few times. Then while working my back he went back and worked on my ass more… it felt amazing! Then when I rolled over he covered my legs and penis with the sheet. After working neck shoulders and chest, he didn't ask this time, he used both hands on my abs until he got to my pubes, removed the sheet completely and jacked me off.

As a straight but very bi curious guy with almost no same sex experience this was very new to me… I'm still trying to process it all. He's probably in his late 20's I'm in my 50's…he took risks in a legitimate massage business… Our communication was very subtle never discussing before or after, just pretending like it was completely normal.

So many thoughts. I'm flushed just writing this experience down.

Comments and questions welcome.

A fabulous story. I would describe myself exactly as you do yourself so would be equally thrilled with such an experience. I have had many, many “proper” massages and not once has it turned erotic with a possible exception of one once where the female therapist touched my scrotum under the sheet. I was neither sure nor confident enough to enquire as to her intentions! Only when I have gone tantric or expecting happy endings through other providers has the experience been erotic

I posted elsewhere about my experiences with two licensed massage therapists that very unexpectedly, turned erotic.

In my experience, this is very unusual… and I was just lucky that one of these was my very first massage. That permanently gave me a strong association of massages with feeling turned on.

To add to my good fortune, the young lady providing this first massage was lovely, though she did not take off her own clothes, after stripping me.

The other LMT, once our massages became sexual, would strip to her panties, and eventually, massaged me (and asked me to massage her) with both of us completely nude.

I described both of these experiences, with “Arline” and with “Serena,” in Post 9, linked below…

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I have been going to the same massage place for a while now. It's a small place and the same lady is always there. She gives a very relaxing massage. When she does my ass and inner thighs she always brushes against my balls and perineum. Most of the time she passes across my asshole too. Very erotic but she has never touched my penis and she makes it seem like its just part of the massage. In my head I wish for more but have never asked or tried for more.

I have been going to the same massage place for a while now. It's a small place and the same lady is always there. She gives a very relaxing massage. When she does my ass and inner thighs she always brushes against my balls and perineum. Most of the time she passes across my asshole too. Very erotic but she has never touched my penis and she makes it seem like its just part of the massage. In my head I wish for more but have never asked or tried for more.

At age 74, I recently enjoyed my FIRST EVER massage aboard a cruise ship in the Caribbean. Pretty much the same as you describe. I had a very nice middle aged woman really work me over, but never touched my penis. It really felt good as she deeply grabbed and “kneaded my buns” but would not have minded if she went into my hole! Overall, a nice experience, however.

I was looking for my kinky massage story for a friend of mine. But I can’t find it. So he we go again. About twenty years ago, before there were Asian massage parlors in my area, somewhere I found out about a woman in my town that did massage at her own house. I thought was interesting so I gave her a call. So that afternoon I went to her house and talking for for a few minutes she led me to a room in her house with a massage table in the middle of the room with one sheet on it. She said to get naked and get on the table and she would be right back. so I nervously did what I was told. I was on my stomach Face down. She came in and immediately said to roll over sweetie. So I did. Then she said put your hands behind your head. I did and she said that for her safety she was going to tie my hands to the upper corner of the table. I thought oh crap! But I also thought what the hell. Then she blindfolded me. She got some ice from somewhere and started dripping the melted ice all over me, but slowly. This went on for about five minutes and she’s asking me if I like it. I would answer in one word answers and she would then demand that I give her a better answer since I was obviously educated. I was getting more nervous.

then out came some hot towels that felt great. Then powder all over me. She was tickling me lightly. Then she stopped and started lightly flogging me. She untied me and told me to roll over again still blindfolded. She started flogging me again and then she started flogging me directly on my ass and then my hole. The whole time demanding me to answer her questions. By now I had gotten the blindfold shifted over a bit. She walked around over my head and I could see that she was naked, shaved, and had a dolphin tattoo where her pubic would of started if it was there. Then she asked if I wanted a prostate massage. I said heck yes nervously. She put some gloves on got some oil in she went! It was feeling great when she took her other hand and made me cum! It felt like gallons! My first prostate massage.

15 years later I saw her at her new job. She looked at me and I asked her how her tattoo was doing? She blushed and said great!

About every 6 months I go to my favorite day spa for a 90 minute massage with my favorite therapist who happens to be male. While he has never crossed any sort of lines, he is not shy about getting to the tops of the inner thighs or massaging my chest including down onto the tops of my breasts and always takes his time around my hips and bottom because I’m always very tight there. I have been seeing him for years so he knows what he can do (which is pretty much anything) I always enjoy it very much!

Saw a masseur on an m4a site; I found him very good looking and decided to book a session. There was no hinting at anything erotic and his couple of pics were definitely G-rated, so I was not expecting anything but a legit massage. After he set up his table in my living room, he handed me a towel and told me to undress. He left the room to wash his hands to give me a little privacy. What came next was a great massage of my back, glutes and legs. As he was working on my hamstrings, there was some incidental contact with my scrotum but I did not think anything of it. when it was time to rollover, he adjusted the towel so my genital area was covered. As the massage progressed from my chest down to my abs and quads, he lowered the towel so my pubic hair was exposed but my penis was still covered. He worked on my groin area and inner thighs and I started to get a bit aroused. He told me not to worry that it happens to a lot of guys and then said he could remove the towel if I liked. I told him sure, so he removed the towel and continued to massage the groin area and then my legs. As he was finishing up with my legs, he commented that here was one part of me that still was not relaxed and said he could help if I wanted. I smile and he proceeded to give me a hand job followed by oral for a truly happy ending. As I was getting dressed, I told him that the ending was totally unexpected (but very welcomed). He said that is normally not part of the massage, but every now and then he finds the client attractive and goes the sensual/erotic route.

I have had both sensual (ie sexual) and legitimate massages over the years, and my preference nowadays is strictly legitimate. Far too often the sensual massage was a brief, lame excuse for a massage, followed by a jackhammer hj. Legitimate massages, particularly with Asian therapists, can themselves be very sensual. It may take a few visits, but once the therapist is comfortable you’ll keep your hands to yourself it’s not unusual for her to remove the draping.

Another of my fantasies. And one that I'm not likely to have fulfilled at the local Massage Envy. If only. I love the idea of an attractive male therapist giving me a lovely orgasm at the end of a long, relaxing massage.

My first erotic massage experience happened in Bangkok at the spa of an exclusive business club.

My company had paid for the membership of the club, which had a gym with attached spa that provided services such as hair-cuts, manicures and massages. I found this quite convenient and after getting my hair cut one time decided to have my first manicure and pedicure done by two beautiful young Thai ladies. After the "mani/pedi", which was quite a sensuous experience in itself, they asked if I would like a massage. I had free time so decided why not and agreed to my first aromatherapy massage. I was taken to a private room with dim lights and was given a bathrobe and told to take a shower in the cubicle in the room. The young masseuse did not leave but busied herself preparing the massage table and fragrant oil for the massage. I found it a bit strange having to undress and shower with someone present but the cubicle had opaque glass so it wasn't too revealing. I exited the shower in the robe and the masseuse approached me with a large towel and told me to remove the robe while she wrapped the towel around me, getting very close and actually making me feel a bit uncomfortable. Now this was not a seedy massage joint but a serious business club and the masseuse was smartly dressed in club polo shirt and long track-suit bottoms so I just thought that this was how things were done. I got on the table on my front and after moving down my back the masseuse started on my legs. It was a professional massage, releasing the stress and I was relaxed and drifting off to sleep.

Then her hand moved up my inner thigh and her finger tips brushed across the end of my penis - that got my attention! Must be just a mistake I thought. It was dark and her hand was under the towel and she couldn't see what she was doing. Then it happened again. Just another slip? But now I was starting to get erect and was getting very embarrassed that I could not control myself and what would this young masseuse think of me? I tried distract myself thinking of work problems and when she asked me to turn over the situation wasn't too bad. The rest of the massage proceeded without further incident and was a very pleasant experience.

I returned the following month and decided for the same package - haircut, manicure and massage. I got the same girl for the massage and this time when she wrapped the towel around me she definitely pressed herself against me. Okay I though, let's see how this goes. I was full of anticipation as her hands moved up my leg and yes her fingers definitely brushed across the tip of my penis! This time I was not embarrassed and after the touch of her hand a few times and my imagining the possibilities with this beautiful young girl, I was very hard. When she asked me to turn over there was a considerable tent in the towel and I was thinking, you made this happen, now what are you going to do? She looked down at me and said "Hmm, should we take came of this?" All I could do was nod my agreement as she lifted the towel away...

As I had no experience of this, I just gave her a generous tip after the massage, which she seemed happy with.

She was a very attractive and personable young lady and I certainly planned to return but shortly afterwards my company transferred me out of Thailand, which was probably for the best.

After becoming 21 I sought out the massage experience . That was before the internet was available. I had to rummage through the newspaper.

So I would find a new number in the paper then look up the area code . Most of them I found were less than a half hour from me . So I would call and make my appointments for a massage on Saturdays. I found a female massage therapist I liked . She was an attractive woman about 10 years older than me . With strawberry blonde hair and a great figure. I would typically have to undress completely and drape a large towel for my massage. I liked how she massaged my legs and glutes. One half of my posterior region was covered while the other was worked on . When it was time to roll over the towel was raised above my body as I turned on my back. When she worked my chest and stomach area the towel covered my lower body completely. I always got an erection the closer her hands got to my stomach . Over a few years I saw her I had more than a few dozen massages . She was always professional about the massage. I like how she smelled and kept my hands to myself. Announcing that she is moving into a different field at the end of the massage. She asked me if I wanted more ? I said yes and it was the first time I was totally naked in her presence. She donned a pair of gloves. Then took her warm oil and poured it on my erection . I then rolled over as she put oil between my cheeks. It was such a sensation having her finger between my cheeks. Then ever so gently she had a finger in my ass . Followed by a second finger . My erection just got stiffer and throbbing. Her other hand was up and down my shaft . I think what finally made me cum was her fingers between my cheeks only.

The misadventures of an anal virgin.

Some years later I returned to Bangkok for a business conference. After a couple of days I wasn't feeling too well and decided a needed a massage to cheer myself up. A relaxing massage is always good and if there is a happy-ending, then all the better. Looking back I was probably just very dehydrated as a result of too much coffee and alcohol in the Thailand heat. Rookie error. Anyway I walked to Soi 23 which was close to the hotel and had several massage parlours of various flavours and chose one which didn't appear too seedy. I opted for an oil massage and was naked face down under the towel as the masseuse, a slim lady of about 30, but with a "well-used" look about her, massaged my legs working her way up. On reaching the top of my leg she started to massage my balls and then my cock obviously wanting extra money for a "special". As mentioned, I was feeling under the weather and so (that's my excuse and I'm sticking to it!) this attention received no response. Undaunted, she then started to massage my butt hole then asked me if I wanted her to put a finger inside? Now, I had never experienced one, but had heard that prostrate massages can be very pleasurable so agreed. I immediately got two fingers deep into my arse rapidly pistoning in and out as she growled "I'm fucking you, I'm fucking you".

This was not what I signed-up for and being an anal virgin did not find the experience at all pleasurable! Once I had put my eyes back in their sockets I reached round and grabbed her hand and eventually got enough command of my voice to tell her to stop. She looked a little surprised and said that she had understood that was what I wanted. I had had enough excitement for one night so I paid her then headed back to my hotel sorer but wiser.

Thats one thing that I love about massages is that you ever know how anything will end up, but yet the therapist knows their plan for the session. They are in charge of draping/exposure and any progression.

I found a new massage guy through google. He's a LMT, probably around 45-50yo, has his own independent website and rents space in a strip mall. His website mentions that he specializes in male massage, but the paperwork sent ahead of time specifically states no sexual activity. So, i wasnt really sure what to expect. We had a nice chat when I arrived, and he left me to get undressed as much as I was comfortable with, cover with the sheet, and he would return. I stripped nude and positioned myself on the table. The first part of the massage was very therapeutic on my shoulders and back. As he moved to my legs, he uncovered each leg one at a time and the butt cheek. This is pretty normal, but the sheet was well past midline, exposing my butt crack, anus, and penis/scrotum between my legs. This was kinda my first clue. Still, the massage was very professional and felt amazing. He did some stretching on my legs in this position, bending my knee and pulling it out to the side and up to my chest. Well, you can image how that completely opened up everything between my legs for him to see. He never said anything, and just incidentally brushed my scrotum as he was working on my upper thighs. Then it came time to turn over, at this point i had a full erection. He left my chest and abdomen exposed and had the sheet low across my waist. As the massage progressed, the sheet ended up being pushed a little lower and my this point I could feel that the tip half of my boner was now sticking out from under the sheet. He never repositioned anything and left it like that as he worked on my arms etc. Then he moved to my legs, and again pulled the sheet up from the side to full expose that leg. As he did so, he now moved the sheet all the way past midline again fully exposing my genitals. He worked on my legs, thighs, and groins in this position. Right next to but never touching my now throbbing erection. After working on both sides like this, without saying anything he moved the sheet even lower and lifted my penis straight up. He oiled me up and slowly begin stroking me. He ended up bending over and inserting my penis in his mouth as his hands wondered all over my body. With all this pent up tension, I came pretty quickly. He then had me sit up on the table, with my deflating penis hanging between my legs covered in cum as he finished my massaging my neck while sitting up. He then left me to clean up and get dressed. We had small talk on the way out about how busy he was or whatever, and I walked out like it was nothing. I've been to him 3 times now, all the exact same. Excellent massage, and great build up to the finish. I love being exposed on that table and thinking about the guys before me and after me that will be in that same spot.

I have gone to licensed massage places. They have all been Rub and Tug joints in disguise.

I sort of think if I went to a legit place there would be no funny stuff just therapy.

I have gone to licensed massage places. They have all been Rub and Tug joints in disguise.

I sort of think if I went to a legit place there would be no funny stuff just therapy.

Most people, certainly men, go to massage places intentionally for the funny stuff I would guess.

If you have an actual serious physical issue, we get a doctor to prescribe massage therapy from licensed therapists and get reimbursed by our health insurance. That guarantees no funny stuff ...

I had an interesting "legitimate massage turn "sensual" a few years ago. I was on a program of physical therapy for a bad back and after the PT did his work a female masssuse provided a half-hour of body work. For the massage I kept my briefs on. Everything was legit and the massage took place a a hard table. Next visit the lady said she wanted to use a pad on the floor for the the massage. A few minutes into the session her hand quickly slipped into my shorts and I climaxed in about 10 seconds like an excited high school kid again! After that massages were usually legit but every so often she wanted to work me on the floor mat.

I have never had a massage from a professional turn sensual. I have never had a massage from an amateur not 😉

It can certainly happen. It depends on the massage therapist and his/her client.

I agree. I've had legitimate massages that stayed that way, and some that progressed to a more intimate level (Usually after a few sessions). One of my massage therapists wound up taking my rectal temperature, and vice-versa, after our second session together. She actually asked me if I wanted her to take my temperature when we were about halfway into the massage. We had talked about it the previous session, in a flirty kind of way, and she admitted that it turned her on a bit. I told her that I would love for her to take my temperature, and then asked her if I could take hers too. She eagerly replied "Yes, that would be fun!" and, as they say, the rest is history. Incidentally, I have posted pics of her with a thermometer in her butt, in one of my albums..

It happened one time for me years ago at an island resort in the Virgin Islands. I had been there for a couple of weeks and had a few massages during that time. The last one was the day before I was leaving and it was with a different female therapist. It was at the end of the day and we were the only two in the spa. She accidentally slid her hand too far up one of my thighs and as relaxed as I was, the sensation was electric. She realized what she had done and immediately apologized, I told her it was ok. She finished the massage and when I had dressed and was signing for the fee, she again said she was sorry. I told her it was ok, that it felt good. I went back to my room to shower. Later that evening she knocked on my door and offered to “make it up to me”. It was a good last night. These days most resorts make you sign a statement before a massage that would automatically end the session if that happened, regardless of whether the subject requested, suggested, or initiated that, or the therapist did.

In my opinion, a real legitimate massage should stay professional the whole time. It's all about the intention and vibe of the place you go to. If you’re looking for something strictly therapeutic, it’s best to pick a place known for its reputation, like 신촌셔츠룸 https://xn--vk1b66io3hoxn62j.com/ , where you know the focus is on relaxation and care.

Sometimes, people might misunderstand a regular massage because of the atmosphere or miscommunication, but a professional therapist will always set clear boundaries. If a session feels like it’s going in a direction you’re not comfortable with, it’s okay to speak up. It’s your time and your comfort that matters.

All of my massages have been one or the other, on purpose.

My "legit" massages have almost all been at resorts (like Four Seasons places, because I'm snobby). I'm on vacation, I get a massage. Never a hint that it would do anything else, but also I tend to do things like foot packages or whatever.

And then my non-legit massages have been booked with gay masseurs with the expectation that it gets spicy.

Ok, I have had maybe about a dozen massages- two were Christmas gifts from an office worker, about 8 were at a chiropractor's office (paid for by medical insurance) and two were paid for by me. The two that were paid for by me were on vacation by professional massage therapists.

Ok so the big question is did any of these massages lead to erotic massages? Well, the two that were gift massages were done in the nude and well nothing inappropriate happened. I really enjoyed the massages, but she did not cross the line. The chiropractor massage lady was definitely above board with me wearing my under ware and nothing came close to being sexual. The one that was paid for at a resort was all above board and I wore my under ware on that one too.

Ok this is my time to visit the confessional. On a trip to St. Martin last summer, I researched massage companies that had licensed massage therapists but offered sensual massages. So, I talked to the "head guy" and he said their sensual massage could be with a woman or man- I chose the woman. He said she is open for suggestions and could/would be totally nude. It was up to me and her to work out what I like to do during the one-hour session. Ok so she came to my hotel room with a massage table and massage oil. I was totally naked and asked her to be naked too, so she took all her clothes off. We talked about me being bisexual and she said her boyfriend and herself were bisexual too. They were both from Jamaica where same sex relationships were looked down upon. She mentioned she like to fuck guys. At first, I thought she meant just having sex with guys, but she meant fucking guys with strap-on. I just so happened to have one hoping my wife would use it on me, so I broke it out and she was very interested. So, she fucked me hard very similar to guy- I was very close to cuming but I told her I wanted to cum latter. So, I got back on the table, and I gave her a quick lesson in how to do a prostate massage- she was a quick study. She worked my prostate and then started stroking my cock. I asked her if I could massage her clit while she was standing beside the table taking care of me. I found her very engorged clit and her pussy was quite wet. I will never forget what she said-"If I am wet, I am enjoying it." Within a few seconds after that comment, I shot my load.

So that was the first time I have ever paid for sex ($250). Was it worth it? Absolutely. It was kind of a bucket list experience for me. My advice to others male or female, if the opportunity presents itself by all means take advantage and treat yourself to a memorable experience. Life is too short to end it with regrets and missed opportunities.

Not to say it doesn’t happen, but in most states once a liscensed “legitimate” massage turns sexual, it’s no longer legitimate.

My girlfriend at that time was a massge therapist. I asked her about happy endings' and she confessed that she believes a true massage should not leave out any body parts. She only performed it to repeat customers she could trust.

I just got home from a massage that was full of sensual surprises. It reminded me that the range of sensual experience in massage is almost infinite. My hips, and what's between them, still feel like they're glowing.

I was out running errands and had sharp lower back pain radiating into my hips. (Driving can be the worst.) My map app showed a massage place nearby, so I decided to give them a try. The spa's exterior windows were covered by those huge photo murals of people receiving massage: which often appear on both LMT-staffed spas and massage parlors alike. So I didn't really know which type of establishment this was. According to the sign by the door, this place is open until 10pm (which is more typical of massage parlors), and the decor in the dark lobby likewise said "parlor."

My masseuse was a plump, cheerful Thai woman in her thirties, wearing a tight T-shirt and shorts. 'Sukanya' showed me to one of the massage rooms and left me while I got undressed. No blankets... I went belly-down naked under a thin sheet.

The first ten minutes of the massage established that Sukanya knew what she was doing. (This is often not case in massage parlors, where the massage can be unskilled and perfunctory, given that it's only part of what most clients are there for.) In contrast, this lady was obviously skilled in Swedish massage, and she also offered to work in some ashiatsu: holding onto a ladder set into the ceiling and using her bare-footed weight to ease out the kinks in my back and upper thighs.

I mentioned that my main concern today was a lot of pain in my lower back and hips, and she agreed to spend most of our time focusing there.

Sukanya slid the sheet off me, leaving me completely nude (which is something most LMTs won't do.) She began to apply a magical variety of massage techniques to my hips. I was still unsure where all this was going, as Sukanya was not at all shy about massaging areas LMTs normally won't touch. This massage included rapid overlapping strokes to my upper inner thighs. Sukanya followed these by using the side of her right arm to apply sliding pressure to my oiled hips and butt crack: focusing on the area around and below my coccyx. I'd never before had a masseuse do this: sliding her arm—with the pressure delivered by her ulna—back and forth across my hips, taint, anus, and coccyx, pausing in each slide to let the tip of her oiled elbow spin slightly into my anus. After at least 10 minutes of this, Sukanya placed the fingertips of both hands so that they ringed my anus, pressing into the muscles of my perineum, stroking me and flexing her fingers in and out for several minutes. As someone who loves anal stimulation, I was in heaven.

My hips were moving of their own accord. As we were more than 30 minutes into the massage, and Sukanya was touching me so intimately, I believed that I was just moments away from one of her oiled fingers entering my rectum (as one of my masseuses in years past often did), or her hands sliding underneath me again, this time to stroke my scrotum and cock (which is how the ladies in massage parlors typically let you know that a hand job is available.)

But neither of those things happened. After so many heavenly minutes of her applying slow pressured slides to my cleft, and of her massaging the muscles of my taint, Sukanya excused herself to get hot towels to wipe me down. When she returned, she said, "Let me try this, first..." And the next thing I knew, there was a wonderful hot sliding wetness against my anus, rolling back and forth. Sukanya used the fingertips of her left hand to spread my butt cheeks further, which opened my rectum, and she dribbled hot, hot water inside me. I've been anally penetrated by masseuses' fingers and sex toys, but I can't imagine that anything could feel much better than this. It was like golden lightning licking my inner walls and prostate.

I gasped and asked her what she was using, and Sukanya showed me... she was stroking me with smooth hot stones and hot water, and letting the water trickle inside me. The stones and water felt almost as good on my hips and back, as in my cleft.

Hot towels followed, and she scrubbed me down.

Then Sukanya asked me to turn over. To my surprise, she did the "sheet held out" thing that keeps the masseuse from seeing the client's frontal nudity. Once I was on my back, she lowered the sheet and gave me a series of expert strokes to my arms, legs, chest, then my upper and lower belly (another area LMTs avoid), followed by more sliding wet hot stones to my belly.

At several moments, I thought I might cum just from the warm glows still in my ass and perineum, coupled with the sensations of her hands with stones stroking my lower belly. But if I had, that would have been awkward. I'd realized that if Sukanya had had any plans to stroke my cock, she would have done it by then, and asked me if I wanted a hand job. My rule is that I never ask... If it's going to happen, it has to be the lady's idea.

Remembering that I'd come close to losing it while she was working her magic on my hips and everything in my cleft, and realizing that Sukanya wasn't offering the usual sexual services, I apologized to her for letting my hips roll earlier in the massage. She just smiled sweetly and said, "That's very OK." She asked me about my lower back and hip pain, which felt oceans away, and I thanked her for all she'd done. Of course, once dressed and down the hall with her in her lobby, I included a generous tip with my payment to Sukanya. She didn't count the money, but as I was getting ready to leave, she opened her arms and pulled me into a long, sweet hug.

Needless to say, I know where I'll be going again when my lower back and hip pain gets out of hand. I'll have to head somewhere else if I want someone to stroke me to a climax; but when it comes to providing hip-focused, anal, and rectal pleasure, Sukanya is in a class by herself.

I have gotten and still do get my share of massages. Mine are and have been from masseuses, not masseurs, but be it a male of female, based on my experiences, and you relating yours, this is my feeling.

From your description and what I say is what I think not what I know.

He may have been able to read you without having to in any way coax you. It is possible after your 1st session, he gauged you and perhaps took a gamble on the following visits.

It is possible that not really stopping him as he worked your body, let’s say, going “ there and doing “that”, if he continued, you wouldn’t object, and apparently you didn’t.

Not judging -just responding to how I think, based on your post , the situations wound up incorporated into the massages.

Maybe not that sensual and erotic, but;

I've been having pelvic floor issues for a few years now, which, in my case, are stress-related.

I've had loads of massages. Very enjoyable and relaxing. But there's always this "hump". Neck, arms, shoulders, back, then the "hump", and on with the legs / feet. The area in between is left untouched, understandably of course.

Now I've found a licensed masseur who'll do your -entire- body. There's even a special 'pelvic floor release' program. Yes, your genitals will be massaged. Also an anal massage, as, well, that's where the muscle tissues are.

The site clearly states 'the goal of this massage is not to reach a climax, but when it happens, it happens'. It's good to see a massage studio that won't shy away from massaging the genital area as well, without a sexual objective. The muscles in that area are just as important as all the other muscle groups, and stress also influences those.

Prior to happening across that site, I could only find sex-clubs / BDSM studios who'd offer this service, with a clear sensual / sexual goal.