What am I missing?

A challenge for you folks. Enemas seem so popular on here yet my knowledge, experience and understanding of the eroticism of it all is lacking.

What exactly am I missing?

Put it another way, sell me the concept. And as chap living alone how do I master the art should your sales skills tempt me?

Read the posts under the Tag of enemas. There is enough info and experiences there to "sell you the concept",

As many of us have shared our historical experiences, it is apparent that our psychological and physical attractions are complicated in many respects. Psychologists have written about how Klismaphilia developed in childhood for many of us.

For others, the attraction blossomed when a sensual/sexual reaction occured while receiving an enema from others.

The solo administration of an enema may allow for reflection on those amazing sensations that may have been overlooked as we fought and resisted due to embarrassment or an unwillingness to submit to the giver.

Go slow, try different equipment and solutions, and find that which trips your trigger.

What exactly am I missing?

Guess you're not anally motivated... I hated enemas when young... but it was my love sticking something up my butt that led to enemas..

As a chap living alone, you should be enjoying all the pleasure of an enema experience as well as stimulating the prostate! There is so much pleasure to bel felt through the use of enemas and anal/prostate play!

I reject your challenge. I don't think anyone should sell you on enemas. I don't think it's a good idea.

Most people who are on here are sexualized towards anal play for starters. For people who do like to play back there, there are a lot of ways to play that do not involve water and mess.

Enemas are a bit ritualistic - lots of sex acts are much simpler and safer and cleaner. Just setting up the bag and whatnot can seem like foreplay. But for someone who does not want the enema the preparation ritual provokes anticipation of a humiliation.

Most people on here knew plenty about enemas and had experience before they got here. There are a lot of "mission reports" and "war stories." If you have read any of these and didn't wonder what it would be like to use that particular gizmo to insert x quantity of whatever sort of fluid, then you are probably not going to get into this scene.

Most people selling enemas as a service or equipment are selling health improvement. A lot of the claims are bogus. Sexual pleasure is not on offer. Even in sex shops you only really see shower-shot type deals on offer. These are marketed not as sex toys but as personal hygiene - to clean out your rectum before anal sex.

I think if you were interested in enemas you would have gone and gotten at least a couple of the little drugstore bottles or a drugstore combo kit and tried one already - to satisfy a natural curiosity. That's where a lot of people come in, saying basically "I've made this little start. What's a good way to get some decent equipment discreetly?"

If you really wanna know what it's all about why not make that little start and then come back for more if you want it.

Gremmi's got it right. No point in trying to say the same things another way. Moreover, please explain why it should be up to us to sell you on the practice. There are literally thousands of posts on Zity extolling the pains and joy's of enemas. Please try looking some of them up first. Then if you have questions.....

There are many parts of enemas that can turn people on, or can turn people off. It depends on the final accounting of the turn-ons vs your turn-offs.

There's the anal stimulation, the giving over or loss of control, the feel of the warm water starting, the feeling of being filled up full, the urge and/or cramps, trying to hold on even when you want to let go, the expulsion.

Depending on what your feelings are about any of these components it could be erotic, could be neutral, or there could be turn offs that make it unpleasant.

Context also plays a big part. If I really need an enema it can be a mostly neutral experience for me. I'm glad when everything is out, but I'm not really enjoying the process. When I don't need it as much it can be fun, or especially if I'm doing it to get ready for some play (or possible play?)

All I have to do is fantasize Beth Anne giving me an enema as she lies beside me and the whole process becomes erotic!

It may not be for everyone.. but if you wish to to try start out slow and simple don't push your limits at first use just some warm water 💦 and see if you get any erotic turn on from the experience..an orgasm while taking the enema can be very explosive 🧨