To mess or not to mess that is the process

I have only recently started to wear diapers and Pull-Ups nearly 24/7. For me it's more the thick bulky padding between the thighs and the force waddle and all around feel I enjoy so much. As I read the forums I see that a majority or almost all the diaper people mess their diapers. I choose not to and still go to the bathroom and pull them down and go normally. Is it weird of me not to mess with my diapers ? So what I want to know is what's your preference, to mess or not to mess?

Having a dirty diaper is a great feeling. The act of pooping in your diaper, feeling it slowly fill up around your bottom, is wonderful. Having a loaded diaper on is also a great sensation - it adds bulk, and who wouldn't like the way it holds to you behind.

The problem, at least for me, is the cleanup. I wear cloth and plastic pants. Getting everything clean and smelling good, including my bottom end, is a lot of work, and very wasteful of time, enrgy and water. For those reasons, I just don't mess my diapers.

I remember the first time I pooped in my diapers around 16. Mom had diapered me for the night and my sisters and I were watching tv before going to bed. By then, my sisters were no longer wearing diapers for the night, they had stopped bedwetting in the past year, but I still wet my bed so mom still diapered me in my cloth diapers and rubber pants. I could probably have stopped wetting sooner but I enjoyed it when mom diapered me because I usually got aroused and would play with myself before falling asleep and again in the morning when my diapers were soaked from the night if I had time before mom woke me to change my diapers and wipe my pee-pee. It was Friday night and we all got to stay up a little later, so mom had diapered me. I did get aroused but couldn't play with my pee-pee at the time because we went out to watch tv. I started to become very aroused as we were all together and I could feel my pee-pee rubbing against my diaper and started to go potty a little, becoming even more aroused. I moved around a little trying to distract myself with no success and suddenly felt the urge to poop. I started to potty a little again and as I did, I couldn't stop my poo from messing my diaper. I was suddenly scared and embarrassed knowing everyone would soon know I had messed myself for the first time since I was an infant. I didn't say anything but could feel my poop spreading against my bottom and between my legs and started again to become aroused, my pee-pee pushing against my diaper. My oldest sister who was sitting next to me asked "did you just fart. How gross." I sat in silence, my face getting red and mom asked "sweetie, did you just have an accident" I confessed that I did and she took me by my hand and led me to my bedroom asking me "what happened to you. Why didn't you say something and I could have helped you off with your diapers so you could go." I replied that I was sorry and started to cry. Mom hugged my to her breast, squeezed me and told me not to cry and that mommy would take care of it. She had me lay down on my bed, removed my rubber pants, unpinned my diaper and told me I sure made a big mess. She took my tub of baby wipes and began to wipe my bottom and between my legs, taking such a long time, I could feel my pee-pee growing until I was hard as a rock. As she leaned over me to wipe me clean, I could see her boobs and nipples and became even more excited. Mom stood back, smiled and said "I think you're getting too old for this don't you? Mommy can't keep diapering you forever. Cleaning you up like this after messing your diaper just can't continue, young man. Now, calm your pee-pee down and let mommy pin a nice fresh diaper on you for the night." Mom leaned over, her boobs and nipples fully exposed under nighty and asked me if I liked what I saw. She kissed me good night, turned off the lights and closed the door. My hand immediately went under my diaper, grabbed and stoked my pee-pee until I came so quickly and shot my load into my diaper. Soon I was sound asleep. The next morning I awoke remembering the night before and didn't want to get out of bed, feeling ashamed of my behavior the night before. It was several years before I messed my diapers again, but did so on many occasions after and have always enjoyed occasionally messing my diapers and when I do, I try to stay in them for as long as I can, enjoying the feelings of being naughty, and childish. My fiancee now tells me when I can mess my diapers and I just follow her orders. She usually makes me stay in them all morning before changing me while she teases me about messing my diapers like a baby.

My thoughts on this can be found in the thread "Messing Diapers" posted about three days ago.

I'd love to have the experience of pooping my diapers in front of my wife and some of her friends, then be humiliated for being a big diaper pooping baby!

I have occasionally loaded them with her nearby but she didn't know it until I later told her I'd done it. She doesn't care and knows it's part of what I love to do but she has no interest in participating in this part, for obvious reasons. She doesn't even like changing them when they're soaked if the pee/ammonia smell is too strong, I love this but she complains about it hurting her nose. Which in a way is kind of humiliating itself, I guess.

And she'd never want to let anyone else in on this, as far as she's concerned it's something I do, she occasionally participates and sometimes it even makes it into our bedroom fun, but it's something between the two of us and that's that!

Well, what is the point of wearing a diaper (nappy) if you are just going to pull it down and use the bathroom in the 'usual' way?

Surely the point of a diaper is to give protection when you have an accident and go to the bathroom in your pants?

Me, I like a laxative or purgative to stimulate my bowels whilst I am otherwise preoccupied - maybe doing chores or dressing up! Putting off going to the toilet for too long inevitably makes for a messy nappy.

I love that feeling of desperation as the spasms build and the sheer relief of letting go and allowing the bulge to form in the seat of your diaper!

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I used to devote a ridiculous amount of time to B&B taking 8 or 9 laxatives and stool softeners and retaining multiple suppositories for very little results.

Finnaly after a stroke , a Doc realized how full of shit I literally was ,and the toll it was taking on my body , I was switched down to just two medications.

I take one in the morning the other 1 hour before every meal .I am no longer eternally constipated and am not given a choice about using my diaper or not, I go "automagicaly" 4 or 5 times a day .

The medication doesn't ask ,it has the control and exercises it ,I am the un consulted mouth to diaper interface.

My aide diapers & dresses me ,puts me in my wheelchair until it's time for a change( every 4 houŕs and when I fill it).

I vote not to mess...

I've a similar view to panty, my preference would be to take the diaper/pull up down and poop into the toilet or potty with said diaper around the knees or ankles.

Wetting is a different matter! Diapers/pull ups are most definitely for wetting whilst wearing... 😈

I sure do wet. Luckily, do not have that other issue, and from most that I have chatted with over the years, not many I know do either. Honestly, for me, wetting is more than enough. Very tough to stay dry for very long anymore. Got so much worse over time.

As a long term diaper wearer I have never had any desire to mess my diaper however as my bladder control has diminished I am now finding that there are times when I’m not able to make it to the bathroom when I need to poop and end up doing it in my diaper. A couple of times recently I’ve also woken in the night to find I’m actually pooping.

Im not allowed to mess my nappy. When she wants to, my wife spanks me then puts me into a nappy for the day, before she goes to work. If I need to poop i have to text her asking for permission to remove my nappy. If she says yes then all is good, but if she says no, I have to hold it until she gets home. So far this has only happened once. And I couldn't hold it, so messed my nappy. She wasn't happy at all and I got a really severe spanking. I couldn't sit down it hurt that much. I won't do that again in a hurry.

I love the feeling of a mess in the diaper and sitting in it for a while, but don't like the cleanup