Ladies: Masturbation, your early memories.

There are many different topics here about male masturbation, so I am curious about how you ladies first began to masturbate.

Do you have any clear memories of the first time, or times, you began? Did you come to do it by accident on your own, or were you introduced to it by someone else?

As much detail as possible would be ideal.

I first started to get interested in what was under my panties when i was about 9. I discovered that touching somewhere felt nice. However, I sort of knew these feelings were naughty as from where they were coming from, but this did not stop me feeling them through my panties most nights. I got to a stage of being very anxious about what was going on. When it started to make my panties a bit damp I was really worried that I was doing some harm to my peepee in some way. I knew I could never talk to my Mum or elder sister about such things and I think I started suffering from lack of sleep as I would always stop short of the inevitable end point. However, when I started messing about with a few girls as you do at the age of about 11 and 12 I learnt a lot more. To cut a long story short I was brought to an orgasm by one of these girls in a game of doctors. Of course from that moment on, I realised that I wasn't really harming myself so I was at it every night and getting a lot better sleep.

I touched myself for a few years but I did not do enough of it to have an orgasm, I was learning about my body really. I think I was 13 when I had my first orgasm though, it was when I was in the bath. I played with my nipples a bit with one hand and I was touching around my clitoris with my other hand and my first orgasm just took me over. It was a surprise but I liked it, I had a few more orgasms after that one too and it was a longer bath than I thought!

@Amethyst

I hope the bath water didn't get too cold, but maybe your activities kept it on the simmer.

@JSChallenger

There would appear to be some interesting stories that could be divulged from your play doctor times.

@Amethyst

I hope the bath water didn't get too cold, but maybe your activities kept it on the simmer.

Haha I think it was ok @Doctor_Jack, I do not think I let it get too cold. 😃

As I have said in other post I think my discovery was when I was young and sometimes would put my teddy bear between my legs when I would sleep and his button nose would feel good when I moved around at night..I learned to love to hump his nose many nights as well as trying new things..

There certainly are

@Amethyst

I hope the bath water didn't get too cold, but maybe your activities kept it on the simmer.

@JSChallenger

There would appear to be some interesting stories that could be divulged from your play doctor times.

I remember it lol…

I was about 13 and used to put myself under the running faucet in the bath because it felt good… though the first time I didn't pull away… just enjoyed the feeling and had an orgasm….

I first started to get interested in what was under my panties when i was about 9. I discovered that touching somewhere felt nice. However, I sort of knew these feelings were naughty as from where they were coming from, but this did not stop me feeling them through my panties most nights. I got to a stage of being very anxious about what was going on. When it started to make my panties a bit damp I was really worried that I was doing some harm to my peepee in some way. I knew I could never talk to my Mum or elder sister about such things and I think I started suffering from lack of sleep as I would always stop short of the inevitable end point. However, when I started messing about with a few girls as you do at the age of about 11 and 12 I learnt a lot more. To cut a long story short I was brought to an orgasm by one of these girls in a game of doctors. Of course from that moment on, I realised that I wasn't really harming myself so I was at it every night and getting a lot better sleep.

Thank you, thank you, thank you!!! That sounds like an exact description of my experience except I was about 3 or 4 and in bed sick when I discovered that something that felt good and my mother threatened to tie mittens on my hands. I grew up believing that girls were a lot more like us boys when it came to that stuff than we were led to believe but none of them would admit it. After I got married I asked my wife about all those things and she vehemently denied it. She even said she never masturbated. It seemed strange that she knew exactly where to guide my fingers if she never did that. During my dating years, 16 & up, every girl I dated 15 & up, knew exactly where they wanted my hand to be and what it should be doing. They also knew what to do to me and some were very good at that.

I was 7. My cousin was 9. At a sleepover, I walked in the bedroom to find her breathing hard and naked.

She said it felt good. I wanted to feel good too. She told my to take off my pants and panties, so I did. She told me that if I rubbed a certain bump that it would make me feel good.

What bump? I didn't know I had a bump. She separated the labia and pulled back some skin covering it and Eureka! I did have a bump and that bump did feel good when I rubbed it!

I had touched myself many times but hadn't discovered that bump.

Not sure where I got the idea to start inserting things in my vagina but I was about 11. I remember taking the pump out of a bottle of hair spray and inserting it. Wasn’t even as big as a straw but I remember the first time it went in more than a couple inches. It pinched a bit and there was a little blood on it when I removed it. Took another 10 years before I realized I was using the inferior hole.

I started super young. I honestly don’t remember a time when it didn’t feel good to rub myself. One of my earlier memories is my father walking into the living room while I was watching TV and rubbing myself and freaking out. I don’t recall watching anything that was sexual, I was just doing it because it felt nice. Maybe like a kid sucking their thumb. I got quite the spanking and admonished that it was ‘dirty’ etc and never to do that. Of course all that did was make me more careful about where I did it. I don’t remember having any sort of climax that young but I do remember having them pretty young. Probably around the time that it became more than just a soothing behavior.

I don't know how she started, but my wife told me the story of her father catching her masturbating once. She lived in that house for only four years until she started college at 16. So she was 12 to 16 at the time. She wouldn't tell me how old exactly. you had to go through her bedroom in this old house to get to a big storage closet with cleaning supplies and the vacuum and other things. She said lots of times they just forgot to knock. she said her brothers walked in on her while she was changing all the time.

This was a late summer hot night. She told me that she was usually careful when she played with herself cause she knew someone might walk in. She always had a sheet at least over her. On this night she said she didn't think she would do anything cause it was so miserably hot that sweat was just rolling off of you just sitting in a chair. She said when she went to bed she felt miserable. But she started touching herself and she said all of the sudden the sweat didn't feel horrible, it felt awesome. She rubbed her hands all over her body and arched at the amazing feel of her super soft skin covered in thick sweat.

I picture the moonlight coming in through the window lighting up her nude teen body. We met when she was 18. She was really cute. Especially covered in sweat.

She was way too far along to stop quickly, and she did not hear the door open. She said what she first saw was through her closed eyelids, the light from the living room illuminating her room through the open door.

She opened her eyes to see her Dad in the middle of her room. The light fully on her young nude body with both of her hands between her legs.

She jumped and looked for the sheet but didn't see it cause it had fallen on the floor. As she squirmed around trying to cover herself she was screaming, “Get out! Get out!”

She said she doesn't think she has ever been so thoroughly covered with sweat before, and she said her Father obviously knew what she was doing. And, he saw every inch of her.

She was sooo humiliated. he did not come back that night and never said a word about it.

I posted this before. I don't know if you would call it masturbating humping my pillow. I remember waking up feeling good. But as far as actual conscious masturbation did not happen until I was 12.

Our parents were really strict. Never touch down there unless you are wiping or bathing. We would get in trouble if we left our PJ's in our room and took a bath then ran across the hall naked to get them. Yes, we had to sleep in PJ's. It was hard enough talking mom and dad into letting us wear bikinis and we lived on a damn lake.

Anyway, I was supposed to be spending the night with a friend but her father got sick. Our house was on the way to the ER so they dropped me off. I noticed our car was gone. I walked in and heard my older sister moaning just like she did often at night and I thought she had been having nightmares. If mom and dad were gone we would leave the bedroom door open just enough to hear the car pull in the carport. By the way, my sister and I shared a room growing up. We would leave the door open a little if we were doing something like talking on the phone and discussing boys or even if my sister and I were discussing boys. We would change the conversation if we heard the car pull in.

So I thought my sister was just asleep having a nightmare and I got to the door and she was on top of the covers masturbating. I watched until she noticed me and sort of freaked out. She pulled the covers over her and started telling me there is nothing wrong with touching. She said that all her friends do it. She talked me into trying it. She had a motive for talking me into trying it. She knew that if I tried it I would not tell anyone especially not mom or dad. I wasn't the tattle-telling type anyway.

I tried it and it did feel good and I wanted to be like the older girls like my sister and her friends. The only person I told was my best friend and we would masturbate together and each other. Same as with my sister.

I was around 12 and curious about my private area since things were starting to happen down there and I knew I was having sexual feelings (I took a book out of the library about sexuality), but I found out about orgasms accidentally and thought I'd hurt myself down there if I wasn't careful. I started to realize when I was touching myself I thought about other women and going to the doctor.

I taught another girl how to touch herself in her bedroom while we compared bodies. That was intense.

I can remember rubbing myself against objects pre-10 years old because it felt good. But things intensified right around 12 years. We had a railing at the top of our stairs. It was nice and round, just the right size for me to straddle comfortably and high enough that my toes could barely touch the ground, which meant all the pressure of my body was perfectly aligned with my clit. When nobody was around, I'd straddle it and enjoy the nice tingle, but would stop before the sensation got too intense.

One day, I straddled the bannister and kept rocking back and forth as the sensation built, and then I couldn't stop. I had my first orgasm. It was very intense, left me dizzy and a little scared. But pretty quickly, I was doing it again. But the location was high traffic with family members, so I retreated to my bedroom and would straddle the corner of my dresser, lifting my legs off the ground and just rocking until I climaxed.

My technique got more elaborate as time went on, but that's how it started.

It started with me humping one of my teddy bears, and then it progressed to me humping anything I could. My pillows, other stuffed animals, the corner of my mattress, my desk chair. It wasn’t sexually driven, I just remember it felt good. It took me a while to realize it was something related to sex, and that’s when I started doing it nude. I didn’t know how sex worked exactly, but I knew it happened without clothes on. And then I eventually started making little whimpers and moans like I heard them do in the movies.

There were a few times my childhood friend and I would dry hump each other. Again, this was not sexually driven at the time, I just knew it felt good on my privates and he said it felt good on his privates. We still did it in secret because we knew it was a little bit “bad.”

My earliest memories were of sliding found objects in and out of my bum. I only knew it was an amazing feeling and it was a secret bc I'd never heard anyone talk about things like that. I continued masturbating(?) anally till my teens when I found my clitoris and the washing machine on the spin cycle. I still didn't understand what the feelings were and my first orgsm (on the washing machine) scared the heck out of me. Anal masturbation is still the best and only type I practice now.

It seems you were quite a dirty girl early on, @SuppoEnemaGirl. Maybe that's why you were drawn to the washing machine?

***groans from the audience***

Lol and a groan/

. I continued masturbating(?) anally till my teens when I found my clitoris and the washing machine on the spin cycle. I still didn't understand what the feelings were and my first orgsm (on the washing machine) scared the heck out of me.

@SuppoEnemaGirl “Did you ever see whiter whites?”

From The Great Outdoors. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qHPu8eK388E

@Roscoe One of my girlfriends told me she was ashamed of masturbating… but she definitely had done it and knew where to rub on the outside. It seems that female masturbation is more taboo than male.

I found out that it feelt good when I squeezed my legs together and laying over a bounce ball doing some jerks, when I was verry young. I also starting to touch and rub my clitoris. When I was 11 or 12 i used the shower til I came.

I don’t recall watching anything that was sexual, I was just doing it because it felt nice. Maybe like a kid sucking their thumb. ... I don’t remember having any sort of climax that young but I do remember having them pretty young. Probably around the time that it became more than just a soothing behavior.

Sorry, replying to an old post, but this resonates 😃 Since super early on, and honestly still to this day, I can find it soothing/comforting to just relax with a finger left resting inside of me.

Mmm yes, something was definitely happening down there around age 10, 11, but it wasn't until after a certain physical exam (puberty had kicked in) that I began to focus on touching myself, exploring myself, feeling more and more aroused and excited and also shameful. It was a confusing time.

I guess like most girls you don't set out to masturbate just discover touching there felt nice and pretty much had my hand fiddling in my panties every night when went to bed.

I recall waiting out the checkout at our local store, it had a bench with curved ends I liked to lay / straddle it and slide off as a really little girl just because it felt nice.

@Rigel - If I didn't loose my balance and fall off the machine, my eyesight would blast to white (among other colours) with little shooting stars in them.

I started around age 6-ish, right after my first memorable doctor's examination. For that exam, my panties were pulled down around my ankles and my legs were parted at the knees by the doctor. He then pressed on my tummy, and on down with fingers pressing on either side of my labia, then opened them and did a quick once around my clitoris with a finger or two, and that was it. It felt quite nice and left me wanting more. So later that night I finished the job myself. I remember telling my best friend about it later, and showed her how to do it. We would often enjoy parallel play - doing ourselves at the same time, when we'd spend the night at one of the other's house. By that summer, all the kids in our neighborhood were playing doctor and examining each other whenever we got the chance. Back in those days there were a lot of latch-key kid families, so we had some opportunities to all gather at a house of someone who had an older sibling home who didn't care what we were doing. That was probably more than you asked for, lol.

Does anyone like rubbing their vaginas or nipples on doctor table paper because you enjoyed laying on your stomach during rectal temps or exams at a young age? It's so easy to order.

My family had a hot tub and one day I realized that squatting in front of one of the underwater jets felt good against my “private area”. Now I know it was hitting my clit. I never reached orgasm that way, but it felt so so good to eight year old me.