What are your thoughts about Punishment Enemas?

The variables with punishment enemas, is the giver and their desires of how nasty they want to be. Another poster, Switch blade Susie, if I recall, mentioned what she calls a ROUGH RIDE. Sounds exquisite as well as a painful one.

The variables with punishment enemas, is the giver and their desires of how nasty they want to be. Another poster, Switch blade Susie, if I recall, mentioned what she calls a ROUGH RIDE. Sounds exquisite as well as a painful one.

Her name is @SwitchableSusie and she was banned from Zity.

Her name is @SwitchableSusie and she was banned from Zity.

- yes, absolutely right, and she was banned for many disrespectful comment's, and not be following the rules here !! - but also she was able, to teach many " beginner's ", what has to be important in this context !!

Susie was a very knowledgable person. And occasionally we sparred on a somewhat friendly basis ....... often with some humor interjected. I think there was a mutual respect between the two of us.

But I felt she posted way too often ....... a prolific amount of posts. I believe she was almost always right, and she was concerned about member's safety ....... telling members not to do stupid things.

I can't believe I actually miss her posts. Without her, this forum just isn't the same. I've often wondered if she opened a new account and has become a lurker.

If so, "Hello Susie!"

@jonormal said,

I can't believe I actually miss her posts. Without her, this forum just isn't the same. I've often wondered if she opened a new account and has become a lurker.

If so, "Hello Susie!"

Like you, I miss Susie, and personal hope she's done something like that.

I don't miss her at all!!!!!! Had a few run ins with her for her sarcastic remarks about my posts! She even sent me DM's of criticism😡

I don't miss her crass comments either. I love that we have a space that we can all talk about our feelings and kinks and desires and everything else about enemas and anything else. I don't need to be bashed out about something that I've done or tried. I appreciate constructive criticism, but she was far from doing that.

I had one session years ago with a very strict male Dom. I was naked he stayed clothed. 1st he paddled my bare bottom until it was bright red( I had welts for a few hours after). He then gave me a very warm & soapy 2qt bag enema and was real verbal. He said if I leaked a drop, he was giving me a worse paddling. When the bag was empty, he told me to stand up and grabbed my penis then led me to the bathroom and stayed in there being very verbal. I remember the most of setting down on the cold toilet seat and how my bottom tingled from the spanking and how my hole burned as I expelled that almost hot soapy water enema. When I emptied out ,he told me to stand and grabbed my penis again and led me back to the bedroom. This time the enema bag was filled with cold clear water. He said I needed to a rinse. The cold water gave he the most intense cramps I ever had. I dare not say anything and took it all. That was one of the best meetings I ever had

Maybe some last word's about " Susie " !! - yes, different member's, different opinion's - absolut correct !! - but she was an experienced woman - for sure there were comment's, which are not " everybodys darling " - and also she posted many (!!!!) comment's !! - but i can't imagine, that she was " a still reader " here under a new nick - that was not her intension !!

They're not for me. Warm, slow, relaxed and stimulating is how I roll.

I much prefer slow and sensual in my enemas and an accompanying massage is the icing on that cake!

I kind of like the idea of a punishment enema. It can be a punishment under different circumstances.

Lots of liquid to hold, a big nozzle for a beginner, but one of the ideas that turns me on a lot is to have the slave /sub/patients receiving the enema in front of others people.

The embarrassing part of this punishment is definitely the best!

Some more word's about this ! - what is the meaning of a " punishment enema " ?? - in my thought's only a psychological expression !! - when two adult interested people in special setting and mood will do a " punishment session ", so can be involved such an enema - maybe some special liquids, maybe using more than the usual amount of water - but in every case by using the - hopefully - given intellect, never injure or damage the body of the receiver !!

Maybe it is allowed by a well known partner, testing some border's, but never going to extensive - the simple reason had to be, there was upcoming another session !!

Some more word's about this ! - what is the meaning of a " punishment enema " ?? - in my thought's only a psychological expression !! - when two adult interested people in special setting and mood will do a " punishment session ", so can be involved such an enema - maybe some special liquids, maybe using more than the usual amount of water - but in every case by using the - hopefully - given intellect, never injure or damage the body of the receiver !!

Maybe it is allowed by a well known partner, testing some border's, but never going to extensive - the simple reason had to be, there was upcoming another session !!

For me,(being quite the masochist) a large part of the fun, solo ór when someone else is topping, is being made to suffer through it.

Never damaging or injuring me obviously, but there are ways to make the suffering quite intens (lots od Dr bronners, glycerin etc)

I really like it. Even solo I usualy push up against my limits with the first one, usually the followups are relaxing etc. but the first one needs to hit me hard ^^

Self bondage with timers (and deadman switches etc for safety) for instance can be quite the tool, forcing you to suffer through like 15-30 mins before any relief is given, Or a system not unlike the ones used with colonhydrotherapy with a timer on the release valve etc.

Lots of ways to make it more punishing/ suffering ^^

@Rinusch

You have very similar interests to mine!

@enemagly

Yeah, Idont know why, but its so "relaxing" I guess, its one of the very few things that get me out of my own head.

I really need to find a sadist who like that stuff,

Also, someone massaging your belly whilst holding is magical, horrible, but in a good way ^^

Make it a lass instead of a lad, and I’m in. I’d be the lass in question, of course, because I just can’t seem to behave. It’s high time I have to hold in 2 quarts of soapsuds enema while getting an OTK spanking until my cheeks glow.

Make it a lass instead of a lad, and I’m in. I’d be the lass in question, of course, because I just can’t seem to behave. It’s high time I have to hold in 2 quarts of soapsuds enema while getting an OTK spanking until my cheeks glow.

- be very careful, what you wish for - reality beats every kind of phantasie !!

Having read through the above I have found a good deal of advice and experiences about punishment enemas laid out by both those who have received punishment and those who administer punishment. There are also many suggestions about what may induce a 'stressful' experience or a pleasant experience. I an a retired nurse who now only administers enemas and colonics to my husband. I began taking care of his digestive tract in 1977 with his first series of "cleanings". We live a femdom lifestyle and I do not receive any anal 'treatments", but I decide when and how my husband receives his "treatments, (and they are rather frequent). He has had many enemas & colonics : some medicinal, some soothing and relaxing, some challenging, and some down right stressful. There are many enema/colonic variations based on the contents of the mixtures, the volume, temperature, rate of delivery, retention time, etc. As one posting said even a small amount of warm milk and molasses and a little vinegar will create enough gas to produce painful cramps. But to me the real questions are : What are the purposes of the cleansing ? (clearing constipation ? bringing down a fever ? relaxing/soothing ? sexual play ? or others ? Over our 50 years of marriage my husband's tolerance for many of the above variables has increased, some dramatically. Several of you have viewed some of my posts and messages and are aware of our lifestyle. If you have questions or wish more information, please feel free to inquire. And thanks to all of you who have shared your experiences. DommeOB

@DREenthusiast you’re a lady after my own heart….it would be great to have someone like you close by!! ☺️

Domme OB !! - many thanks for your comment !! - for sure words from an experienced, mature lady !! - so please stay as you are, and be active and healthy !! - kindly regards !!

Not something I'm interested in. I have no interest in spankings, humiliation, or pain. Enemas, medfet, and anything else along those lines are supposed to be fun and feel good activities.

Not something I'm interested in. I have no interest in spankings, humiliation, or pain. Enemas, medfet, and anything else along those lines are supposed to be fun and feel good activities.

- OK, i see, but please do not forget several, adult people, who will be interesting in those " special play - sessions ", to reach that, what they wanting to reach !!

Mr. MysteryDream, Both my husband and myself find enemas and colonics "deeply" rewarding. Most of the time the "treatments" provide a very relaxing, soothing, cleaning, and satisfying result. As a dominant wife and nurse, I am not ever on the receiving end of anything being inserted rectally. However, my husband has been and continues to be on the receiving end of both enemas and colonics on a regular basis, and his reaction is usually one of great submission, relaxation, leading to him being obedient, compliant, and best of all "VERY ATTENTIVE" ! ! ! However there are times when my 'little nasty streak' shows itself and I decide to push my husband's limits. As a result if these efforts my husband has increased the volume of fluids he can accept from about 2 quarts of warm water by way of an enema to over five quarts. The contents of the solution play a part in the volume and retention time and the comfort or discomfort of the experience. But these are administered to improve his ability to get better results from the "treatment" and extend his limitations. The slow 'deep delivery' of a colonic and gentle abdominal massage is (according to my husband) one of the most sensual, 'moving experiences he has ever had. And the resulting 'outcome' leaves him 'boyant' for days afterwards. Having a very clean rectal and lower colon passage allows me the opportunity to tease, play, peg him, dominate, him as he needs to be dominated.So we generally have a very positive outcome from these activities. However, every once in a while I really push his limits and expectations. I have never caused any damage or sever pain. But being married for 50 years allows me some leeway to "extend my love" for my husband and express it n my own way. I fully understand what you are saying about not being into certain aspects of pain, humiliation, spankings, etc. and respect your inclinations. Nor am I trying in any way to alter your perception of these activities. Just please try to understand that there ARE some of us who really do enjoy the "stressful" events we either go through or we put our loved ones through. (Thank you '4711koeln' for your comments - and everyone else for your input.) DommeOB

Not my thing at all. Nothing forced.

Domme OB !! - many thanks " for the flowers " !!

EBWaterman - nothing is forced. Just a very FemDom lifestyle. What I say goes. He respects my nursing knowledge and adheres to it. I gave him his first set of enemas in 1977 while preparing him for an upper and lower GI series (that's how they did it back then, along with a hand full of laxatives and a bottle of mag citrate).

I started off with smaller warm enemas and over the years increased various elements of the 'treatment'. He has come to understand AND believe in the benefits of a clean and well functioning digestive system. I help keep all of that on tract. Of course there are a lot of ways to play with the semantics of "forced", "punishment", "pain", a couple of members used the terms "sadists" ans/or "masochist", or some saw these 'treatments' as 'relaxing', 'physiological', 'special', 'healthy' 'magical'; and other terms. The big thing is how the people involved view or feel about the magnitude or conditions of the "treatments". As long as they stay in the "Safe, Sane, and Consensual" guidelines (well - - at least close to SSC). Be careful, only take 'treatments' from someone you know and trust, and know your own limitations. Have fun and enjoy ! ! ! DommeOB

No ones giving me any, I like soothing, relaxing enemas.

I've always enjoyed my punishment enemas and appreciated the lessons that they taught me.