AB/DL wishes

Just posing a question / thought. Why when we all love diapers do we morph to the love of being forced into diapers? Seems sort of ironic when we all like wearing diapers. I think it could be something left unresolved from potty training.

Its not the forcing as much as it is giving the control, alibet relucantly to another person.

In my case, it comes down to the fact that I often get the urge to wear my diapers but tell myself "Well then you'd have to get them out, rub on the baby lotion, put them on, wear them and use them for hours before they're finally to the point where you'd get yourself off in them...is it worth all the trouble?"

Also, assuming that I did wear them, use them, get off in them, then as soon as I finished I'd then immediately want to take them off..."OK, well that was fun, I'm done with this for now" -- only to find that an hour later I wish I had them back on again. (It's the same situation as regular sex--for most guys, after you're finished you're basically impotent for about an hour before you're able to get excited again.)

But if someone--in my case it would be my wife--controlled when I wore my diapers, when they got changed, when I could take them off, what I had to do while wearing them--I'd have no choice but to follow her orders and leave them on (and later enjoy them again!). I'd likely also end up with diaper rash from sitting there in wet / messy diapers. But that would just add to the babyish humiliation of the experience (which I'd love).

My girlfriend told me if I'm going to wear and wet diapers, she would change me only if I gave up control of my diaper use and allowed her to make all the decisions. I agreed and when we are together she checks my diapers and decides when I should be changed, how long I must stay in my wet diaper, and which diapers to change me into. I only wear cloth prefolds and rubber pants but I have both plain white prefolds and colored prefolds with patterns and she decides which to wear. Wearing pink prefolds with sail boats and puppy dogs put me in an especially good mood and adding patterned rubber pants even more so. She know I will do anything she asks, teases me some and gets me so excited that the whole experiencs lasts all day or night until she takes off my soaked diaper and gets me off.

I find being submissive to be arousing, so giving up control to another person is enjoyable. Since I already wear 24/7, being forced into diapers isn't a thing, so my husband controls elements surrounding my diapers. For example, he'll make me wear white shorts over a printed ABDL diaper in public, or refuse to let me change my soaked diaper until I suck his cock.