Questions About The Female Orgasm

Ladies, do you find that your orgasms are more intense after a period of abstinence?

Do you find some difficulty having more than one orgasm as you get older?

I had sex with a woman in her 40s who declined to even try for an orgasm because she said she had already cum that day and as an "old woman" she could no longer cum more than once in a day.

Some parallels with the male orgasm, but then again, in my experience, every woman is different. Just looking for some generalities.

Is there anyone who would be willing to contribute on this matter?

They say sex is all in your mind and I guess your 40 year old lost hers. My wife is 75 and I can still rub a couple out of her which is better than I can do for myself at 80. She refuses to touch me so I don't know if the female touch would do me any better. Nothing to compare that to as she has never wanted to touch me anyway, I've always had to do it myself. It's strange how they seem to know that at an early age. They make you think they want to play with that thing until they get you to marry them then it's go to hell time. You do me but I don't want to touch you. You're pleasure is being allowed to touch me.

I don’t notice a difference after abstinence however I do notice a greater difficulty in achieving multiple orgasms since menopause. Some days it’s like old times and they just come and other times we need to work for just once.

I have orgasms every day so I do not have periods of abstinence. I just do not really know if my orgasms would be stronger if I did. I am still young and I do not think my orgasms have changed really since I was about 16. I think I have orgasms maybe a bit more when I am fucking my husband than I used to but I do not think I have noticed other changes, I enjoy them all as much.